Lux Thinking Aloud It's Okay To Be The Villain In Someone's Story 5:51 AM Sometimes protecting your peace means becoming the villain in someone's story, and that's perfectly okay. TL;DR - Quick Summary: You don't owe anyone unlimited access to your time, energy, or resources. Setting boundaries and prioritizing your well-being isn't selfish—it's necessary. It's okay to be the villain in other people's story if it means being the hero in yours. Key Takeaways Boundaries aren't betrayal - Protecting your peace doesn't make you a bad person.You're not everyone's emergency contact - Stop being the perpetual crisis manager for others.Family ties don't justify toxic treatment - Blood relation isn't a free pass for disrespect.Villains are made, not born - People become villains through circumstances and self-protection choices, not inherent evil. Feeling guilty about saying no to another favor?Like you're somehow letting people down by not being available 24/7 or sending them money as soon as they say, "I need help paying _"? Here's the truth: it's okay to be the villain in their story if it means protecting your mental health and self-respect. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do, for yourself and others, is to walk away.Wiggle Being the Villain Means Self-CareYou're Not the World's Crisis ManagerLet's get something straight: you are not 911. You're not everyone's emotional support system, ATM, or personal problem-solver.Sure, helping others feels good, but when it comes at the expense of your own well-being? That's when you need to pump the brakes. When was the last time someone asked if you needed help? Or if that person, who turns to you every time they're in a tough spot, ever asked how you're doing?If you can't remember, that's your first red flag.Being a villain sometimes means taking care of yourself first, and that's okay.Tenor Your Time and Energy Are Precious Currency Your time isn't infinite. Your energy isn't renewable like solar power. Every "yes" to someone else's drama is a "no" to your own peace and goals. You are a villain in someone's story, and that's okay when the alternative is being a victim or a villain in your own. Stop Looking for Healing Where You Were Hurt We keep going back to the same people who wounded us, hoping they'll suddenly become the source of our healing. But you wouldn't go to a broken faucet for clean water, so why seek validation from people who consistently disrespect you? Love Them from a Distance Family Doesn't Mean Free Access "But we're family!" might be the most overused excuse for toxic behavior. Being related by blood doesn't give anyone a VIP pass to treat you poorly. If someone consistently drains your energy, disrespects your boundaries, or only shows up when they need something, it's time to reevaluate that relationship, even if you share DNA.Sometimes, the best thing you can do is love people from a distance.Giphy They Handed You the Scissors Sometimes the scissors were handed to you long before you decided to cut the cord. You wouldn't have walked away if you felt safe, valued, and respected. That person created the distance through their actions; you're just acknowledging it. It's Okay to Burn Bridges Not every bridge is worth maintaining. Some lead to places that no longer serve you. Some were built on shaky foundations from the start. It's okay to be the villain in someone's story when those narratives consistently paint you as less than worthy of basic respect. Practical Steps to Protect Your Peace Even If That Makes You a Villain in Their Story Set Clear Boundaries Learn to say "no" without explaining yourself to death Don't answer every call, text, or emotional emergency immediately Create specific times when you're available versus when you're off-limitsStop the Emotional ATM Withdrawals You don't owe anyone your emotional labor just because they're going through something. Helping occasionally? Great. Being someone's permanent therapist? Not your job.Notice who only contacts you when they need something Trust Your Gut If someone consistently makes you feel drained, trust that feeling Pay attention to how you feel before, during, and after interactions Your peace of mind is not a fair trade for anyone's approvalHow much disrespect should you take before you cut off a family or friend? Here's the shortest but best answer. EVER:DormentalityThe Freedom of Being Misunderstood Here's what's wild: once you stop trying to save everybody, you become the hero in your own story, and that's liberating. Yes, some people will be upset. They might call you selfish, cold, or difficult. Let them.They'll gaslight you and make you feel terrible for declining. Tell you you've changed or have become too proud. Don't listen. The people who truly value you will respect your boundaries. Those who get angry? They're the ones who need them most.Those who are displeased when you put some space reveal they care more about what you can do than who you are.Giphy To Recap: It's OK to be the Villain It's okay to be the villain in their story because the main character in your story is you. Protecting that protagonist isn't selfish. It's necessary for your sanity. Set those boundaries, keep that distance, and remember: you were not born to save everyone.Someone amazing already did that two thousand years ago on a cross.The right people will love and accept you for who you are, appreciate you for being in their circle. Everyone else? Well, they're not your responsibility.FAQs Does villain mean bad?Short answer: Yes. But life's messier than a Marvel movie, so let's break this down.What Most People Think Villain MeansWhen someone says "villain," your brain probably jumps straight to the classic villain checklist:Deliberately harmful: They're intentionally causing chaosThe story's bad guy: That person everyone's rooting againstSelfish motivations: They'll step on anyone to get what they wantMorally corrupt: Manipulative, cruel, and with zero regard for anyone else's well-beingBasically, if they'd fit right into a Disney movie as the character everyone boos, they're a traditional villain.But life isn't a fairy tale. Sometimes the line between "villain" and "person with different priorities" gets pretty blurry.Antagonist vs VillainAn antagonist just opposes the main character. Could be a competitor, a rival, or someone with conflicting goals, without being evil.Complex motivations: Some villains have backstories that make you think, "Okay, I actually get why they did that." I watched Maleficent and found myself rooting for her. I saw Sleeping Beauty as a kid and always thought she was unjust and cruel.Context is everything: Your perspective shapes who the villain is in any given story. Can a villain be a good guy? Absolutely. Generally, every person has a redeeming quality. Some of the most compelling villains are actually decent people caught in impossible situations or fighting for something they believe in.Many people labeled as villains are only protecting themselves from toxic situations. Are villains born or made?Villains are made because no one is inherently born evil. People become villains in others' stories when they choose self-respect over people-pleasing, boundaries over doormat behavior, and personal peace over toxic relationships. In real relationships, villains are usually made through repeated boundary violations and disrespect.When someone consistently treats you poorly, setting boundaries naturally makes you the bad guy in their narrative.imgflipThe Different Shades of VillainNot all villains wear black capes and cackle maniacally. Some are surprisingly... human. Let's break down the types of villains that'll make you question everything:Tragic Villains: When Life Breaks YouThese are the villains that life created.What happens when someone gets pushed past their breaking point? When trauma rewrites their entire worldview? Tragic villains didn't wake up one day and choose evil. Life dealt them a hand so brutal that their coping mechanisms became destructive.What made them villains:Shaped by trauma: Their past created their present behaviorFeel trapped: They often hate what they've become but don't see another wayRelatable origin story: You might think, "In their shoes, I might've snapped too," like Joaquin Phoenix's Joker)Sympathetic Villains: The Ones You Actually Root ForThese villains make you uncomfortable because you get them.Maybe they're trying to save their dying child. Maybe they're fighting against a corrupt system. Maybe they're protecting their community from something worse. Their methods are wrong, but their heart? It's in the right place.What makes them a villain:Relatable motivations: Love, protection, justice, survivalMoral complexity: They're doing wrong things for right reasonsHuman flaws: They feel real because they struggle with their choicesAnti-Villains: Heroes Using Villain TacticsThese characters think they're the hero of their own story, and they might have a point.Take Thanos (yeah, I went there). Dude genuinely believed he was saving the universe from overpopulation and resource scarcity. His method was horrific, but his goal was to prevent universal suffering. That's some twisted heroism right there. What is the opposite of a villain? The opposite of a villain is typically a hero or the protagonist (the main character and the central focus of a story). While often synonymous with a hero, a protagonist can also be an antihero or even a villain, depending on the story's perspective and the author's intent.So how about you? Are you the hero or the villain of your story?Header image protected by copyright from Internet Marketing Ad and may not be used for any commercial purposes. Message me if you want to commission or create something similar for a small fee.
Lux Thinking Aloud My Word for 2025: Expand 6:31 AM My Word for 2025: Expand Who else isn’t big on resolutions? I know I’m not. Instead, since 2014, I’ve been choosing a word for the year. It’s like a theme that sets the tone for what’s to come. It’s a small tradition that helps me focus and grow intentionally. Have you picked yours yet? Here’s my word for 2025:ExpandTo expand means to broaden, to stretch beyond what you already know, and to grow into something greater. That’s exactly what I’m planning to do this year.It’s not about stepping out of my comfort zone. That phrase feels too forced. Instead, it’s about extending my reach, building on what I know and love, and growing from there. Does that make sense?On My ReadingIf you’ve followed my book reviews and recommendations, you know romance novels are my go-to. I can finish them in one sitting because they’re my favorite escape.But this year, I’m mixing it up. I’m adding non-fiction to my list—autobiographies and self-help books, specifically. I’ve already started with Forgiving What You Can’t Forget, and wow, it’s a journey.Reading non-fiction is slower for me, and that’s okay. Unlike romance, non-fiction isn’t meant to be devoured. It’s meant to be savored—absorbed in small bits, reflected on, and applied to life.Health & WellnessIn addition to my usual Pilates and yoga routine, I’m bringing back something I used to love: dancing. I don’t know why I stopped (thanks, adulting!), but it’s time to revisit that part of me.I'd love your recommendations if you know of any fun, beginner-friendly dance classes (nothing like Zumba or overly complex choreography). Let’s keep it simple and joyful!Career in Digital MarketingOver the years, I’ve learned that clients value results over certifications. That said, continuous learning is essential—especially in digital marketing, where everything evolves quickly.Pinterest MarketingLast year, I started my journey as a Pinterest marketer, and it’s already been rewarding. My clients are seeing real, profitable results, and I’m just getting started. This year, I’m doubling down on Pinterest.SEO Content MarketingI am also sharpening my SEO skills. After all, content writing is my first love, and SEO is the magic that brings it to life for online businesses. There's something satisfying about typing a keyword and seeing the article on top of the search results page. Happy for my client and myself!YouTube VideosThis isn’t a career move or a product I’m selling. It’s more of an experimental project for me. I recently created a YouTube channel, Sound Sleep Solutions, featuring white noise and relaxing background audio. It’s perfect for:Focusing during work or studyMeditating and finding calmImproving sleep qualityAdding a soothing background soundtrack to your dayWhat’s next? To align with my 2025 word, Expand, I’m taking this project further:Uploading content to YouTube Music (I just discovered it’s a separate platform!).Sharing my tracks on Spotify for broader reach.Adding more white noise options and creating new relaxing music tracks to cater to diverse preferences.If you’re looking for peaceful sounds to enhance your day, I’d love for you to check it out. Feedback and suggestions are always welcome! 😊Selling Digital ProductsI started selling digital products on Amazon last year.My Amazon, Tales N Doodles, sells children’s coloring books and journal notebooks with witty covers (you can see previews of the products on the right side of this page if you're reading with your laptop).I’m expanding my collection with adult coloring books and upgraded journals this 2025. Journaling has been a big part of my life lately, so why not create something others will love, too? I have other plans I'm excited about. Stay tuned for more!Expanding My CircleI wish I could say I’m joining clubs or doing volunteer work this year, but let’s be honest—that’s a no for me. As an introvert, homebody, and self-proclaimed anti-social human, I’m perfectly content with my circle as it is.However, I am expanding my online network by connecting with fellow book lovers on Bookstagram and Goodreads. If you’re there too, let’s link up!Travels and ExperiencesFingers crossed that 2025 brings more opportunities to explore new places and create unforgettable memories. While I can’t make solid plans yet due to personal and logistical reasons, I’m hopeful. Here’s to manifesting positive outcomes!Past Words for InspirationIf you’re thinking of choosing a word for your year, here are some of mine from the past for inspiration:2024: Elevate – Improving in what I do and who I am.2023: No – Saying no to the less important so I can say yes to what truly matters.2020: Premium – Choosing not to settle for less.2019: Milestone – A year of many firsts.2018: Spontaneous – Embracing spontaneity, even as a control freak.2017: Winning – Overcoming inner battles and emerging victorious.2016: Unorthodox – Doing things differently and stepping out of character when necessary.2015: Better – Striving to be better than the year before.2014: More – Saying yes to more experiences, opportunities, and growth.Word for 2025Have you chosen your word for 2025? I’d love to hear it! Whatever it is, I pray this will be a year of breakthroughs, answered prayers, and healing for us all.All images: AI-generated by Internet Marketing Ad
How-To Embracing Your Inner Child: Tips for a Happier You 2:02 AM What’s your favorite childhood memory? Mine is doodling without a care in the world. There’s something about our innocence that’s refreshing to recall. The joy from something as simple as a coloring book or getting lost in a whimsical story. Embracing your inner child is essential for our well-being, as it fosters creativity, gives us the healing we need, and reignites a sense of wonder. What is Your Inner Child? Your inner child represents the childlike aspect of your personality. It encompasses: Original thoughts and feelings from childhood Memories of joy and creativity Innocence and playfulness that may have faded over time Engaging in child work allows you to reconnect with this essence, helping you embrace your inner child and heal from past trauma. Why is it Important to Connect with Your Inner Child? Connecting with your inner child is crucial for emotional well-being. Benefits include: Fostering self-compassion Enhancing creativity Providing a safe space for emotional expression Nurturing this relationship cultivates a sense of playfulness and joy in your adult life. Signs You Might Be Neglecting Your Inner Child Many people neglect their inner child without realizing it. Here are some signs: Feeling overly serious in everyday life Lacking spontaneity or playfulness Difficulty expressing emotions Feeling disconnected from your creative side Recognizing these signs is not a cause for alarm but a call to action. It’s the first step towards rekindling that essential connection and allowing joy to flourish again. It’s a step towards healing from childhood wounds and finding balance throughout adulthood. 5 Tips for Embracing Your Inner Child Here are some simple yet effective tips on how to embrace your inner child: 1. Rediscover Childhood Hobbies and Activities Think back to what you loved doing as a child. Was it drawing, coloring, playing an instrument, or building with blocks? Make a list of your favorite childhood activities. Dedicate time each week to engage in one of them. Invite friends or family to join for added fun. 2. Spend Time in Nature Nature has a beautiful way of bringing out our playful side. Try these ideas on how to reconnect with your inner child: Go for a walk in the park or along the beach. Collect leaves, rocks, or flowers to create a nature collage. Have a picnic and enjoy the simple pleasures of being outdoors. 3. Allow Yourself to Play and Be Silly Give yourself permission to be playful. Here’s how: Try out a new game, whether a board game or a video game. Dance around your living room to your favorite songs. Wear something fun or silly just for the joy of it. 4. Practice Mindfulness and Meditation Mindfulness can be a powerful tool for healing your inner child. Consider these practices: Take a few minutes each day for meditation. Focus on your breath and let your thoughts settle. Use guided meditation specifically designed for inner child work. Reflect on your feelings during these moments and embrace them without judgment. Here's my favorite from Yoga with Kassandra: 5. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences The people you spend time with can significantly impact your mental health. Seek out friends who uplift and inspire you. Engage in communities that encourage creativity and playfulness. Limit exposure to negativity—taking a step back from toxic relationships is okay. Embracing your inner child can lead to profound healing and joy. Benefits of Embracing Your Inner Child What happens when you reconnect with your inner child? It can bring many benefits that enhance your life in many ways. 1. Increased Happiness and Well-Being When you reconnect with your inner child, you often rediscover the joy in simple things. Benefits include: A lighter heart and more laughter in your life. Greater appreciation for everyday moments. A more optimistic outlook on life. 2. Improved Creativity and Problem-Solving Skills Tapping into that childlike wonder can spark fresh ideas. Playfulness encourages creativity, allowing you to think outside the box. Experimentation with new hobbies can lead to innovative solutions. Less fear of failure gives you the freedom to explore different approaches. 3. Reduced Stress and Anxiety Engaging with your inner child can be a great stress reliever. Playful activities can shift your focus away from worries. Mindfulness practices help ground you in the present moment. Silly moments can alleviate tension and lighten your mood. 4. Stronger Relationships with Others When you embrace your inner child, you become more relatable and open. Increased empathy and understanding in your interactions. More authentic connections as you share your playful side. Improved communication, as you express your true feelings. 5. Greater Sense of Self-Acceptance and Love Learning to love your inner child can lead to profound personal growth. Self-compassion flourishes as you embrace your past experiences. Acceptance of your flaws becomes easier, allowing for personal growth. A deeper sense of worthiness fosters a loving relationship with yourself. Embracing your inner child is a beautiful journey filled with healing and joy. Introducing My Coloring Books for Kids! Coloring is a delightful way for the young ones and “young once” to reconnect with their inner child. I’m excited to announce that I’ve started publishing coloring books on Amazon under Tales N Doodles. My collection of coloring books is designed to spark creativity and create lasting memories. Here’s a brief overview of each book and what makes them unique. 1. 30 Cute Jungle Animals Coloring Book for Kids This coloring book has adorable jungle animals to ignite your child’s imagination. Features include: Educational Content: Each page showcases cute jungle animals whose names are listed alphabetically. No Bleed-Through: Single-sided pages prevent colors from smudging, allowing kids to color worry-free. Perfect for Little Hands: Measuring 8.5 x 8.5 inches, it’s just the right size for small hands. 2. Cute Baby Farm Animals Coloring Book for Kids Unleash your little one’s creativity with this charming book filled with baby farm animals. Educational Elements: Every page features a cute farm animal with its name, plus a handy reference for their baby names. Single-Sided Printing: No more concerns about color bleed-through, ensuring a clean coloring experience. Ideal Size: Designed for tiny hands, this book is also 8.5 x 8.5 inches and printed on premium paper. 3. Cute Happy ABC Animals Coloring Book for Kids This fun-filled book introduces kids to various creatures while learning the alphabet. Key features include: Educational Focus: Each page combines a happy animal with the first letter of its name, making learning enjoyable. No Bleed-Through: Thoughtfully designed with single-sided printing for a smooth coloring experience. Perfect Dimensions: It’s also 8.5 x 8.5 inches, great for little hands, and printed on premium white paper. The Joy of Coloring Coloring provides a fun and beneficial way to connect with your inner child. It allows you to: Express Creativity: Coloring fosters imagination and offers a joyful escape from daily stress. Relax and Unwind: This playful activity can help you feel more centered and calmer. Bonding with Children These coloring books are perfect for bonding with children. Create Lasting Memories: Spend quality time together, coloring and laughing. Encourage Learning: Use the educational aspects to teach kids about animals and the alphabet in a fun way. Share Joyful Moments: Coloring together can lead to conversations, storytelling, and shared creativity. Embracing Your Inner Child The benefits of reconnecting with that playful spirit and the enjoyable activities can help you navigate adulthood. From healing your childhood wounds to finding joy in coloring, each step leads to increased happiness, creativity, and stronger relationships. So grab some coloring books, spend time outdoors, and allow yourself to play and be silly. Remember, life is meant to be enjoyed, so let your playful side shine brightly. Coming Soon: More Coloring Books from Me I have created more coloring pages for kids and adults – especially for my fellow book lovers. Follow Tales N Doodles on Amazon for all the latest updates!What other scenes or subjects would you like to color? Your ideas will inspire my next coloring book project.DisclaimerThis blog post is intended for informational purposes and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. While I have drawn from research and personal experience, it's important to remember that everyone's journey is unique. If you are experiencing mental health issues, please seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional.
Listicle 84 Rare Beautiful Words With Deep Meaning 10:02 PM Isn’t it liberating when you learn that there’s a word that precisely and perfectly describes how you’re feeling? It’s almost a cathartic experience. In that moment, all those confusing feelings you can’t put into words suddenly make sense and feel real. They finally have a shape, and you feel totally understood.Here are some of the most beautiful words with deep meaning:84 Rare Beautiful Words With Deep MeaningBeautiful Words with Deep Meaning in EnglishAbditory A secluded or hidden place, often implying secrecy or retreat.Absquatulate To leave suddenly and unexpectedly, often to avoid trouble or responsibility.AmaranthineSomething immortal or everlasting, unchanging over time.ArdorIntense enthusiasm or passion, often expressed with great fervor.Ataraxia A state of serene calmness and freedom from disturbance, often associated with Stoic philosophy.Blatherskite A person who talks excessively and foolishly, often without substance. (I know so many people 😏)Brontide The rumbling sound of thunder can be heard before a storm arrives.Cockaigne An imaginary land of abundance and luxury, where everything is freely available.Coddiwomple To travel deliberately towards a vague, unreal destination.Collywobbles A nervous feeling in the stomach, often caused by anxiety or worry.EphemeralLasting for a very short time. NoctiphanyA sudden, striking realization that happens at night. PetrichorThe pleasant earthy smell produced by rain falling on dry ground. SelcouthUnfamiliar, strange, or marvelous.SonderThe realization that every passerby has a complex life as rich as yours.ZembalinityA state of nervous excitement or agitation. Beautiful Japanese Words with Deep MeaningBoketto The act of gazing vacantly into space, lost in thought.HitoritabiSolo travel.HomorebiSunlight filtering through leaves.Ichigo IchiA Japanese philosophy that values each moment and each encounter as unique. This concept emphasizes the importance of treasuring each experience.IkigaiA reason for being, a sense of purpose in life. This term encapsulates finding joy and fulfillment in one’s existence. KintsukuroiThe Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold or silver. This practice symbolizes the beauty of imperfection and the idea that something can be more beautiful for having been broken. KouyouThe autumnal foliage. This term refers to the colorful leaves that appear during the fall season. 🍂NatsukashiiA nostalgic longing for the past. This word expresses a bittersweet feeling associated with fond memories.RakuyouThe feeling of being lost in thought. This term captures a state of deep contemplation or daydreaming.Shinrin-yokuThe practice of taking in the forest atmosphere to improve one’s health. Often translated as “forest bathing,” it emphasizes the therapeutic benefits of nature.ShoganaiAn acceptance of circumstances beyond one’s control. This term reflects a philosophical attitude of resignation and acceptance.UkiyoThe floating world. It is a Buddhist concept that refers to the transient nature of life. This term captures the essence of impermanence.Wabi-sabiA Japanese aesthetic valuing simplicity, imperfection, and transience. YugenA profound awareness of the universe that evokes a deep emotional response. Beautiful Greek Words EudaimoniaAristotelian ethics refers to human flourishing achieved through virtuous living and rational activity. It’s the highest human good, encompassing a fulfilling and meaningful life.EuneirophreneiaThe experience of pleasant dreams. It captures the feeling of peace and happiness that can accompany good dreams.KairosThe opportune moment, the perfect timing for an action. KalonBeauty, excellence, or moral goodness. Encompasses both aesthetic beauty and ethical virtue, often used in philosophical discussions.PsithurismThe soft, whispering sound of leaves. StrikhedoniaThe pleasure of planning or anticipating something. MoiraIn Greek mythology, the personification of fate or destiny. It refers to the concept of fate as a guiding force in life.MetanoiaA profound change of heart or mind often involves a spiritual transformation. Beautiful Latin WordsDormivegelia The transitional state of consciousness that occurs between wakefulness and sleep.LacunaA gap or empty space, often representing something missing or incompleteLatibuleA hiding place or secret retreat. MeliorismThe belief that the world can improve and that humans can actively contribute to its betterment.NuminousArousing spiritual or religious emotion; mysterious or awe-inspiring. It refers to experiences that evoke a sense of the divine or the supernatural, often inspiring feelings of awe and reverence. PerambulateA casual or leisurely stroll, often for pleasure or exploration.TacendaThings that should be kept silent. This term refers to matters that are better left unsaid or unspoken. ScripturientHaving a strong desire to write. Beautiful German WordsAbendrottranslates to “evening red” or “sunset glow.” It refers to the beautiful reddish color that often appears in the sky at sunset.WaldeinsamkeitThe feeling of solitude and peace experienced while being alone in the woods. SchewellenangstThe fear of crossing thresholds or entering new situations. SehnsuchtA yearning or longing for something absent or unattainable. SturmfreiLiterally translates to “storm-free,” but it colloquially means having the house to oneself, often implying freedom to do as one pleases without supervision.Beautiful Words with Deep Meaning in Frenchà couper le souffleBreathtaking, astonishing, stunning.DépaysementOut of sorts when away from home.FlânerStroll, saunter, or wander.RetrouvaillesWhen you reconnect with a friend after a long time, that mutual rediscovery of your friendship.S’entendreThe unspoken connection you share with someone you’re bonded with.Beautiful Turkish WordsAnd because I had an era where I was into Turkish drama...Mecnun“Madly in love” to the point of actual mental instability. The term is often associated with a deep, obsessive love, reflecting a state of emotional turmoil.HissikablelvukuTo sense something before it actually happens. It refers to a kind of sixth sense or foresight. ŞikemperverSomeone who is very fond of eating and drinking. EhvenişerWhen making a choice between two undesirable options or the lesser evil.HüzünPain and sorrow over a loss that can also mean a sense of melancholy and gloom. It captures a deep emotional state often associated with nostalgia and existential sadness.CiğerparemLove for someone as deep as one’s own body. This term conveys profound affection and is often used to express deep emotional ties.Other beautiful foreign words with deep meaning and no direct translationForelsket (Norwegian) Deeply in love, capturing the feeling of being infatuated or in the early stages of love.Jayus (Indonesian) A joke so poorly told or understood that it becomes funny. Kalsarikannit (Finnish) Refers to the act of drinking at home alone in one’s underwear, often with no intention of going out. Капель (Kapel') in RussianTranslates to “drip” or “drop,” often referring to the sound of dripping water. Kaukokaipu (Finnish) A longing for a distant place. It reflects a sense of nostalgia or desire for far-off locations. Kilig (Filipino) The feeling of excitement or thrill. It is often associated with romantic love.Gezelligheid (Dutch)A feeling of warmth, coziness, and conviviality. It’s often associated with spending quality time with loved ones in a comfortable setting. Gokotta (Swedish)It is not just about waking up early; it is a tradition that encourages people to appreciate nature’s beauty and birdsong’s joy. Laalsa (Finnish) The desire to share something extraordinary with someone. Mangata (Swedish) The glittering path created by moonlight on rippling water. Merak (Serbian)Finding pleasure and satisfaction in simple things. It’s about enjoying life’s small moments and finding happiness in the ordinary.Peiskos (Finnish) The warmth and coziness of a fireplace. It evokes feelings of comfort. Querencia (Spanish) A place where one feels at home and safe, a sense of belonging. Saudade (Portuguese) A deep emotional state of nostalgic or profound melancholic longing, often for something or someone lost. Smultronställe (Swedish) A secret and special place, often in nature, where one feels a sense of peace or happiness.Uitwaaien (Dutch) Blow away one’s worries, often by going outside for a walk in the fresh air. Beautiful Words with Deep Meaning to Describe a Persongigglemug: (English, informal) A person with a cheerful and often silly expression. indah: (Malay) Beautiful. Pluviophile: (Latin) A lover of rain. thalassophile: (Greek) A lover of the sea.Elysian: (Greek) Relating to or resembling the paradise of Elysium; used to describe someone who embodies beauty, bliss, or a heavenly quality.Mellifluous: (English) A person whose voice is sweet or musical; pleasant to hear.I’m just fascinated that there’s even a word for something as simple as the light filtering through the leaves (homorebi).How about you? Are you a logophile?Which of these words did you like best? I’d be happy to learn a new word from you, too.
Faith The Modern Proverbs 31 Woman: How to Be Your Best and Thrive 9:07 PM She’s what today’s generation calls the GOAT (Greatest of All Time). Or “Mother Mothering.” Lol! Don’t ask me. I’m a millennial. But I’ve always been fascinated by the Proverbs 31 woman. The epitome of what your ideal woman should be. She’s what I want to be when I grow up. 😉I wonder what she would look like in today’s world. How can I be a modern Proverbs 31 woman, the best version of myself, and thrive? Who is the Proverbs 31 Woman? We’re not all waking up before dawn to spin yarn anymore (although some of us may be crushing an early morning spin class). But the core message of how to be a modern Proverbs 31 woman is timeless: be your best self use your core gifts sprinkle a little sunshine wherever you goWhat does Proverbs 31 say about a woman in a nutshell? The Proverbs woman rocks her own style. She’s independent, resourceful, and strong – physically and mentally. She’s got a kind heart and a fire in her soul.She uses her talents to positively impact the world around her. How to be a Modern Proverbs 31 WomanWhat does being a Proverbs 31 woman mean in the modern world? Here’s how to put the Proverbs into practice at the present time:1. The Tech WizShe’s got a finger on the pulse of the latest trends. She uses technology to her advantage, taking online courses to hone her skills, using budgeting apps to manage finances, and using social media platforms to connect with and inspire others.2. The Wellness WarriorThe modern Proverbs 31 woman prioritizes her well-being and knows a healthy mind and body fuel her greatness. How? Meditate to manage stress, prepare nutritious meals to fuel your day, or explore the outdoors to energize yourself.3. The Lifelong LearnerShe’s always curious and constantly expanding her knowledge. To be this modern Proverbs 31 woman, join book clubs or workshops to develop new skills and stay sharp. Take up new courses or join webinars. Keep learning and keep growing. 4. The ChangemakerShe doesn’t just witness the world; she actively makes it a better place. She volunteers for a cause she cares about, mentors younger generations, or advocates for social justice.To be the modern-day Proverbs 31 woman is about embracing your unique strengths and using them to create a fulfilling and impactful life. It sounds like a lot of work but also a lot of fun! Proverbs 31 Bible Verse Breakdown What does it mean to be a Proverbs 31 woman in today’s world? Let’s break down her virtue for each verse. Proverbs 31: 10 – Valuable (worthy) An excellent wife who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Proverbs 31: 11 – Trustworthy and reliable Her husband has complete confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. Proverbs 31: 12 – Supportive, influential, loyal She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.Proverbs 31: 13 – Industrious and ingeniousShe selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. Proverbs 31: 14 – Good provider and resourceful She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. Proverbs 31: 15 – Hardworking, diligent, fairShe gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. Proverbs 31: 16 – Prudent, wise investorShe considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings, she plants a vineyard. Proverbs 31: 17 – Strong and capable She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. Proverbs 31: 18 – Savvy businesswoman, unyielding She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. Proverbs 31: 19 – Skillful and productive In her hand, she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. Proverbs 31: 20 – Generous and kind She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. Proverbs 31: 21 – Prepared, proactive and preemptive When it snows, she has no fear for her household; they all are clothed in scarlet. Proverbs 31: 22 – Artistic and graceful She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Proverbs 31: 23 – Strong, dignified, gives honor to her husband Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. Proverbs 31: 24 – Inventive, diligent, with strong business acumenShe makes linen garments and sells them and supplies the merchants with sashes. Proverbs 31: 25 – Resilient and optimisticShe is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.Proverbs 31: 26 – Wise and articulateShe speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. Proverbs 31: 27 – Zealous, responsible manager She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Proverbs 31: 28 – Praised and respected Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also praises her. Proverbs 31: 29 – Excellent, unique, surpasses expectations “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Proverbs 31: 30 – FaithfulCharm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Proverbs 31: 31 – Triumphant and upheldGive her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. Proverbs 7 vs. Proverbs 31 Women Proverbs mentions another kind of woman. While Proverbs 31 celebrates the virtuous and strong woman, Proverbs 7 warns of the seductive and destructive one.Proverbs 7 Woman: A Cautionary Tale The woman in Proverbs 7 is often called the “adulterous woman” or the “woman of foolishness.” Her seductive words and reckless behavior warn against the dangers of temptation and the importance of moral grounding. Key characteristics of the Proverbs 7 WomanSeductive and Manipulative: She uses charm and flattery to lure men into compromising situations. Lacking Self-Control: She prioritizes immediate desires over long-term consequences. Destructive Influence: Her actions lead to chaos and suffering for herself and others. Lessons from Both Women Both Proverbs woman verses offer valuable lessons.Proverbs 7 Teaches the importance of self-control, discernment, and staying true to one’s values. Proverbs 31 Provides an inspiring model of strength, faith, and using one’s talents for good. Are you one of the Proverbs 31 Women? The Proverbs 31 woman personifies an ideal woman – regardless of the time. She embodies strength, wisdom, and God-fearing principles. She is a pillar of support for her husband and family and inspires those around her. The modern-day Proverbs 31 woman isn’t defined by a checklist. She could be a doctor, a teacher, an entrepreneur, an artist, a friend, a daughter, a housewife, a working mom, or a single woman. Whatever she does, she does it with honor and brings honor to her household. How I aspire to become her!Who is an influential woman in your life that you admire?
