Reflections Reflection: My Happily Ever After 4:00 PM In all the years that I've lived, I've realized that my happily ever after lies entirely to me. Whether I'd live conveniently or miserably is up to how I've saved all the money I earned. Whether I'd end up with a jerk or stay single and at peace, or find someone who is perfectly imperfect for me depends on who I give myself to. My love story with the Lord depends on how loyal and faithful I am to Him. The strength of my relationship with God depends on whether I work on it every day or lazily let it weaken. God will not force me to love Him. He won't send lightning to strike me when I don't pray. He will not stop loving, forgiving, and protecting me. Whether I give Him back the praise or not will not change His being God or lessen His majesty. He is God and will always be God whether I worship Him or not. I need to worship Him to remind myself how blessed I am to be under His wings. To remind myself that I can do anything through Christ who strengthens me. And isn't it a wonderful feeling knowing that Somebody so important loves you so much that He's willing to give up even His life for you? So my happily ever after depends on whether I accept that love or reject it. My happily ever after depends on whether I walk with Him or away from Him. My prize--my happily ever after---is waiting for me at the end of the race. It's right there with my name printed on it, waiting for me to claim it. But the question is, am I willing to run the race until the very end to accept it? I'd be crazy not to. What's your happily ever after story? Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Love and Relationship From Happy Single To Engaged And Ecstatic 12:25 PM This year is my best one yet; my best and longest birthday celebration so far. My craziest and most amazing journey and transformation---from happy single to engaged and ecstatic. Yes, it finally happened (Sumome newsletter subscribers already knew as I told them about it before posting. I encourage you to subscribe in the pop up so I can keep you updated and send you soul foods). Just when I thought I'd be single forever and was so ready for it, God gave me this most wonderful surprise. For those who are asking, I've been single for 5 years and I'm in my mid-30's now. Indeed when God works, He works in ways that will leave us in awe. As Hudson Taylor said, "There are three stages to every great work of God; first it is impossible, then it is difficult, then it is done." From Happy Single To Engaged And Ecstatic Impossible It felt like finding my OTL (One True Love) was impossible. I've dated a few and although I tried to make each one work, it just didn't. When I thought or maybe made myself believe that I've found my prince, he turned out to be just another frog. I've had an ex (or two) who cheated on me. An ex who loved to point out what's wrong with me; my appearance, what's lacking in my life, my mistakes and imperfections. An ex who never pays attention when I talk. An ex who just couldn't keep the promise anymore and chose the easy way out; he walked away---when I needed him the most. Exes who borrowed money and never paid, lied to my face, and those who felt entitled to anything. (Did it sound like I have many exes? Well, most of these characters are found in just one person. Or two). I've met people who discouraged me and gave me second thoughts about true love's existence. Or happy endings. Maybe love is just found in movies or books made up by people desperate to find it? It seems impossible to find it in the real world. Difficult Yet no matter how wrong the men I dated were and no matter how badly I was treated, I always find myself believing that someday I will find someone who will honor me, cherish me, and show me how it is to be truly loved. That love exists and I will one day experience and share it with the one destined to be mine. That God is still writing my love story and He's perfecting it. So I waited. And oh, how long and difficult it was. I endured the insults. I had to remind myself that if someone thinks there's something wrong with me for choosing this path, there is something terribly wrong with them. I had to be patient---very patient, and wait for God to deliver His promise. There were times when I am so at peace with myself I go to bed heaving a sigh of relief that I can do whatever I want when I want to without complications or anyone to consider. I can remember going home and relishing my alone time in the apartment like any introvert. And going to bed with a smile on my face knowing I can sleep anytime, wake up at whatever time I wish to, and decide whether to stay in bed, go out and meet friends or just stay home and order pizza (something I especially miss). I was enjoying my single life while it lasts knowing in my heart that someday soon, everything will change and I would wish I can go back to the time I am free from commitment. But then... There were many cold lonely nights too, so to speak. There were times when I go to bed with a heavy heart, with such yearning for someone to share how my day went. There were moments I wake up in the middle of the night, longing for a comforting body beside me, assuring me that I am loved and boosting my spirit when I had a long tiring day. Moments when I wish I have someone to share my joys and trials with. There are days when I have to run errands or do chores and wish there's someone there I can rely on to do the heavy, difficult tasks. I will always have to check if the service includes free pick-up and delivery because it's quite challenging for my small frame and back problem. Or look for someone I can pay to do stuff for me. Done When finally I've learned to embrace my single life and all its imperfections, when I finally accepted the fact that it is a possibility that I might end up alone and be totally okay with it, when I finally became at peace with myself and dealt with loneliness like an old frenemy, when I could finally ignore the criticisms knowing that they know nothing about what God has planned for me...that's when God proved that my story isn't over yet. That's when I realized I was ready for more. I was ready for a big change. God has been preparing me for a big surprise---a wonderful bonus to my already great life. It wasn't easy getting to where I am right now from where I was five years ago. I was hurt, betrayed, used, and broken. But then God has proven that my life isn't over with me planning my time alone; securing my future in case there's no one to take care of me. God obviously thinks it is so much better for me to share this life with another---someone He has specially prepared, honed, crafted, formed into the best partner for His stubborn daughter. Someone perfectly imperfect for the imperfect me. How did it happen? Sometimes I have to pause and reflect. Sometimes I have to check the photos and messages on my phone, and the ring on my finger just to be sure I'm not dreaming. Because it seems everything's happening so fast and everything feels so unreal. Wasn't it only yesterday I was single and happy? Now I'm actually engaged! I have to stop and just revel at how amazing God is. I finally met someone willing to spend the rest of his life with me. Someone who liked it enough to put a ring on it. (Thank you, Beyonce.) Like anyone who believes in the power of visualization and asking God for specifics, I wrote down the things I want in my future spouse. My heart rejoices knowing that he ticked off all my list. He is everything I prayed for...and more. Truly God delivers, and when He does you'll be blown away. He will---as always---exceed your expectations. God will give you more than you think you deserve for He loves you more than your human understanding can ever fathom. When I think about my plans that have so abruptly changed this year, I feel like God must be so amused when I was presenting to Him my needs and my goals. They're too small compared to His big plans for me. He knows my needs more than I do. I thank God for his perfect timing. It's all happening when I am not influenced by any strong emotions; fear, desperation, despondency, or anger. I have clarity and so I know I am not being unreasonable or illogical. I'm in no rush. No one is forcing me to do anything. This is me deciding with a clear mind and a ready heart. This is me trusting my gut feeling knowing that this nudge is from God. It all happened when I am not lonely anymore, nor am I afraid to be alone. With God's will, everything falls into place. It's like the universe syncs and moves with you. You are shown favor after favor after favor. So just keep the faith, keep praying, and never ever stop believing in love. Maybe one day you'll find someone to share that love with. Maybe God will send you to a mission where you'll find a different kind of love. Maybe God will give you a heart so big and generous to love a whole community which you can call family. Whatever it is, keep trusting God. He knows best. After all, He invented love. He is love.
Fashion & Style The Benefits of Insoles for Your Shoes 8:00 AM Did you know that a considerable percentage of the populations could enjoy their lives better and avoid excessive foot pain with the correct insoles? It is a fact accepted by the medical community that over 70% of the population suffers from over pronation. Furthermore, plantar fasciitis is also a condition that 10% of Americans will endure at some point in their lives. Both of these conditions can be addressed with proper insoles. The Benefits of Insoles for Your Shoes The foot is a very important instrument for moving about and absorbs the weight of the body and contact with the floor by spreading shocks and impact through a specially designed system of bones, tendons and muscles. Reducing the friction between these important structural elements can make for a more comfortable walking experience, but there are some degenerative conditions that can adversely affect the foot. These include: --Plantar fasciitis --Heel spurs --Stress fractures --High foot arches --Sesamoiditis --Flat feet --Calluses and foot corns Overpronation and supination Most people will prefer the comfort that comes from the improved support from orthotic insoles. These insoles are designed for the specific needs of the user. They are the best solution to providing bespoke support as needed that can keep weight and strain properly distributed throughout the back, legs hips and joints. The application of orthotic foot gears as needed can aid the proper walking mechanisms of the body and avoid some of the discomfort that is natural when recovering from ankles, toes and knees that may have been damaged or injured. How to Choose the Right Orthotic Insoles for Your Feet Orthotic soles guide the foot to proper walking positioning be restricting movement. This is an especially important benefit to those who are suffering from conditions of the foot like a high arch or a flat foot. Conditions like this can develop over time or be genetically inherited from parents. The specialized support from an orthotic insole ensure the correct positioning of the foot and therefore keeps the feet and joints from further damage. With the properly designed insole for the conditions of the foot any natural support that is lacking can be substituted until the correction is properly corrected. This is especially important for those carrying extra weight or hoping to participate in athletic events. Orthotic insoles such as these from Orthotic Shop can help to relieve the discomfort and pain associated with various foot conditions especially when the biodynamics are skewed or bodyweight is not properly supported by the frame. Sometimes a regular insole will be more than enough support to correct the issue, but for more specific conditions, a professional design can offer superior performance. A visit to a podiatrist or a special sports therapist can provide a professional perspective on the gait and positioning of the body to reveal any muscular or skeletal incongruities that should be adjusted. Once the nature of the disbalance has been fully-understood, the proper insole can be created and the performance of the body greatly improved. It may be possible to address many of these conditions with a focused effort to adjust the positioning of the body. Nevertheless, this can be a slow and very difficult process without a consistent professional perspective critique the very particular adjustments needed. With proper orthotics the movement and balance of the body are adjusted naturally without having to commit to walking or running exercise program. Foot orthotics are designed with the specific needs of the individual foot in mind, so it is essential to have your specific conditions examined by a professional. If you are simply looking for better comfort in your walking gear, you will do just fine with a gel-padded insole. It is always preferred to purchase top-quality brand for this as they are less likely to cause foot problems after extended use. This post may contain affiliate links. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
How-To How To Get The Best Sound Experience In Your Car 7:00 PM Who doesn’t like music? Music is an instant vacation. With the right kind of song, you are transported from where you are to a different kind of world.Whether you’re just staying in and having some R&R or going for a long drive with your best buds, you can bring music everywhere. How to get the best sound experience in your car? You need a car stereo. And thanks to today’s technology and some skillful hands, you can get your car sound certified, too. There’s a lot involved when it comes to understanding how to upgrade the sound system in your car.Here’s a good example of a car stereo site that goes into detail especially for do-it-yourself types. How to Get the Best Sound Experience in Your Car 1. Create your driving playlist Search Spotify for the best driving playlists out there. Can't find a playlist you like? Make your own road trip music in your favorite music apps. Nowadays, with a simple search and click, you can be your own DJ. 2. Upgrade your speakers Here's the thing. No matter how good your playlist is, it will be rendered useless if you don’t have a good speaker to play them with. Buy a speaker that can give justice to the beats and rhythms of your favorite song. Choose quality and choose wisely. After all, the goal is to bring music everywhere. Most vehicles have low-quality speakers installed from the factory so upgrading them can make a big difference! 3. Connec music with Bluetooth. It’s amazing how listening to music evolved from carrying around a boom box to Walkman and portable CD players to playing music right from our mobile phones. But the speaker on our phones would not be enough to bring the party to the car. Connect your mobile device via a direct connection using Bluetooth. No more looking for and misplacing your wires or having your phones plugged just to play the music you love. You can still navigate with your phone’s GPS. Or your friend from the back seat in charge of the music can still update her status on Facebook while playing music through Bluetooth. 4. Get an equalizer The sound playing from a speaker of a mini Cooper will be different when played in a truck. It’s because the sound production varies from vehicle to vehicle and speaker to speaker. If you’re playing music from a streaming app like Spotify, it has an equalizer function built-in. With this, you can tailor the sound to your liking. You can boost or cut the level of treble or bass until you're satisfied. 5. Amp the sound up. An amplifier is simply a device to amplify – or increase – the power delivered to speakers. Your vehicle probably has a low-cost, low-power one in its stereo. A more powerful amplifier allows more volume without distortion when playing your favorite music with the volume up. If you shop wisely they’re affordable, but it does take additional money for installation accessories and time and labor to do the job. 6. Get a subwoofer Most vehicles come with small speakers installed.A subwoofer is a larger speaker designed only to produce bass and they handle much more power than small speakers. However, as they’re large speakers they require an amplifier to drive them to get good sound. Some are sold as a “powered subwoofer” like the kenwood subwoofers, which means both the speaker, amplifier, and speaker enclosure are built together. That’s a great option for many people. Conclusion Do you feel bad? Play some cool, feel-good music. Do you need to work out? Play your jam to get your adrenaline and good vibes flowing. If you have no idea about how to install a speaker in the car or how to choose the best products and accessories to use, don't fret.There are experts who can help you. Visit their websites’ how-to posts for more details about car audio projects you can do yourself and get the best sound experience in your car.
For Moms Tips for the Prenatal Period: Your Child’s Health is in Your Hands 8:00 AM Prenatal or the pregnancy period is a unique experience for every couple. This is naturally one of the most important phases of one’s life. So, it should be filled with lots of excitement and fun, not nervousness and tension. If you are well prepared for welcoming your child into the beautiful world the journey won’t feel like a roller coaster ride. We thought of sharing some tips to make your prenatal journey a smooth journey and to ensure the well-being of the coming child as well as the would-be mother. Tips for the Prenatal Period Include exercise in your routine This may sound a very generic advice as we all are recommended to do some exercise. But, when you are expecting a baby you are doubly responsible for your as well as the baby’s health. So, you cannot afford to take this advice lightly like any other individual. The pregnancy comes with many health complications like back pain, body stiffness, swellings etc. And, if you miss your exercise routine you’ll feel these complications in an aggravated form. In the first trimester, you can do the simple back and pelvic exercises. As you enter your second trimester you’ll need to upgrade to some advanced exercises. But, don’t do any exercise without the recommendation of your doctor. Take care of your nutrition After the exercise, your main focus should be to give nutrition to your body. Giving nutrition to your body does not translate to eating as much as you can. Eating without thinking will only gain you extra weight that you’ll struggle to shed off after the delivery. So, instead of eating double your dose look what nutrition are you gaining from your diet? Your body needs the right amount of iron, calcium, folic acid, vitamins, and protein. In addition to the healthy diet, you would need some nutrition supplements like vitamin tablets and protein drinks. You can read the prenatal vitamin reviews and choose the one for you. Don’t let your hunger pangs enslave you It is natural to feel always hungry when a new life is forming inside you. Not only hungry but you’ll also feel greedy for food items loved by your taste buds. But, don’t let your hunger pangs decide your eating habit. Before putting your hands on any of the junk foods remember that you are going to feed that junk to your child. As a mother, you will never want your baby to grow on junks. So, whenever you feel hungry eat healthy items like fruits and salads. Don’t let your body get dehydrated We all need to drink enough water to keep our body metabolism functioning well. But, as a pregnant woman, you need to drink more than enough water as dehydration is common during pregnancy. If you don’t keep your body well-hydrated you can easily develop urinary tract infection. If plain water is not the thing you enjoy drinking you can take other fluids such as coconut water. Avoid alcohol and caffeine because they too are the culprit who can dehydrate your body. Don’t make anybody your advisor Pregnancy is the time when you are bombarded with suggestions and advice from all sides. And, it is a fact that you too starve for getting any advice you can get about this phase of your life. But, please don’t follow any advice blindly. Whatever you read or listen to the pregnancy advice please re-confirm the same with your doctor. Being active is recommended for all the pregnant women but in some of the cases doctor advice complete bed rest due to some complications. This means what is right for others may be wrong for you. So, take suggestions of the doctor handling your case because she is only who knows all your physical condition. Join a prenatal class You need to be well prepared to welcome your baby’s arrival on the Earth. Joining a prenatal class means you are always in the contact with an expert. Learning everything about your baby’s arrival and the caring tips in-group becomes more fun. In the prenatal class, you will meet other to-be-moms and share each other’s experiences. Don’t forget to enroll your better half in the class too because he will also need to learn the art of taking care of the newborn baby and the mother as well. You two began the journey together so you should live together throughout the journey of being a parent and raising a socially responsible healthy kid. Don’t let any fear take over your loving experience of being a parent. Follow a well-managed routine and stay happy. This article was submitted by site supporter and may contain affiliate links. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Home 3 Easy Steps In Decorating Your Garden Shed 7:00 PM Your garden shed does not have to be utility storage only. Adding color, furniture, and decors can turn it into a vibrant sanctuary for you. Here are 3 easy steps to help you in decorating your garden shed. 3 Easy Steps in Decorating Your Garden Shed 1. Use vibrant colors Have 2 or 3 complementary colors and paint different sections of the paneling. This will add a bit of personality and life to the space. Use a color that will go with the overall décor of your garden. If you're looking for a coastal feel to the garden you should look at colors such as emerald slate and barley wood. 2. Try neutral colors If you have a large shed, you might want to consider a neutral or cool color for the outside to give the shed a homey feel. Have contrasting neutral colors with a bold shade inside the shed-like lavender. Unexpected bursts of color seen through the window or open door can create an atmosphere of comfort. 3. Use accessoriesPainted flower pots and comfortable garden chairs can be used to accessorize the shed.Upcycling some crates can also increase the amount of storage inside the shed while keeping the rustic look that you want. If you want to take things to the next level with garden art, check out Outdoor Art Pros.Accent colors should also be considered when you look at the furniture in your shed. 4. Utilize space Limited space in their gardens should not stop you from creating your own garden shed oasis. Be creative.You can create the illusion of space by using a lighter color for the interior of the shed. Do you love hanging out in your garden shed? How did you decorate it?
Home Five Compelling Reasons To Buy An Indoor Water Fountain 7:00 PM Indoor water fountains are becoming increasingly popular. There are many reasons why people choose to purchase these fountains. For some, they act like a decorative accessory, adding a unique touch of beauty to their indoor space. For other people, the sound of the water running through the fountain promotes relaxation, making their homes a retreat where they can escape from the stress of the outside world. Fountains of all sizes can provide countless benefits for homeowners. When you start shopping for a fountain, one of the first things that you will notice is that they come in nearly every style and price range that you can imagine. That means that you shouldn't have any trouble finding the perfect fountain for your space and your budget with just a little bit of searching. Here are some of the benefits that you can enjoy after you add an indoor fountain to your home: Five Compelling Reasons To Buy An Indoor Water Fountain A Serene Place To Relax If you are like most people, you probably are on the go from the time you go out of bed in the morning until the time you go to sleep at night. Stress levels are at an all-time high for the vast majority of people. Imagine how nice it would be to sit down next to your fountain after a stressful day and close your eyes, listening to the gentle sound of the water running through the fountain. Recent studies have proven what most people have known for a long time - that the sound of water promotes relaxation. If you want to create a more relaxing space, one of the easiest ways to do it is by adding an indoor water fountain to your home. A Stylish Home According to Soothing Walls, indoor water fountains usually feature beautiful designs that can enhance the look and feel of your home. From a decorating standpoint, few other accessories provide the same visual impact as a beautifully designed fountain. You can even find fountains that incorporate unique elements such as LED lights. These features can help your fountain stand out even more. To create a natural setting for the fountain, consider surrounding it with houseplants. Fewer Noisy Distractions It is hard to relax when you are surrounded by unwanted noises. From traffic going by on the street outside to dogs barking in the neighboring yards, you may be bombarded by noises from every direction. One of the best ways to combat this problem is by installing an indoor water fountain. The sound of the water can help block out noises, creating a much more peaceful setting. A Properly Humidified Home If dry air is a problem where you live, an indoor water fountain can help. Fountains act as natural humidifiers, adding moisture back into the surrounding air. This can not only benefit your skin, hair, and respiratory health but can also help keep your houseplants healthy. It’s one of the big reasons many add an indoor water feature to their homes. Pure, Clean Air Typically, when people hear someone mention air pollution, they picture giant smokestacks spewing contaminants into the air or cars leaving trails of exhaust as they drive down the road. In fact, however, the air inside your home may be even more contaminated than the air outdoors. Inadequate ventilation and contaminants in the air can lead to poor indoor air quality. Installing an indoor water fountain can help reduce this problem. As the water in the fountain moves, it releases negative ions. These ions can help trap and remove airborne contaminants. Conclusion Indoor water fountains provide numerous benefits. When you consider all of the ways that they can help you live a healthier, more peaceful life, you will most likely want to get one for your own home. Not only are they beautiful to look at but they are also a practical investment for your peace of mind and well-being. This article was submitted by site supporter and may contain affiliate links. Image via At Home With White Pinterest. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
