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Every Woman Has The Exact Love Life She Wants

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The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge
Day 6: Sound off on the quote, “Every woman has the exact love life she wants.”

True or false? 

Are you in a relationship right now, and is it exactly how you envisioned it?

Are you receiving the love you think you deserve? Or are you just waiting for an exit?

If you’re a woman with the exact love life you want, congrats! Not everyone can say they’re as lucky.

I know I wasn’t for a long time.

Every Woman Has the Exact Love Life She Wants

Sadly, some women don’t have the love life they want.

They are abused physically, mentally, or emotionally by their partners, and no woman wants that kind of love life.

Maybe some of these women have experiences in the past that made them believe they should tolerate the unjust treatment they get because that’s what they deserve.

Someone must have instilled in their minds that it’s their fault it’s happening.

Maybe that unhealthy relationship is their “homing instinct.” 

The same familiar environment they were raised in gives them, so it gives them comfort and security.

Because the unfamiliar could be scary.

Maybe they hope someday everything will get better.

Maybe they’ve accepted their fate and stopped asking or looking for a change.

Maybe that’s the way they love; unconditionally, blindly, totally.  

I’ve learned these from all the years of observing others and from personal experience.
The quote, “Every woman has the exact love life she wants,” does not apply to everyone. At least not yet.

Not until the woman lets go of that toxic person. Not unless she ends the abusive relationship.

It’s a beautiful reminder, though. It’s a reality check.

What you allow is what will continue.

If you let yourself be the emotional punching bag or emergency fund of the person you chose, it will always be that way.

Every woman has the exact love life she allows.

So if you’re not in a relationship that makes you happy, and you don’t have a partner who appreciates, cherishes, and honors you, ask yourself...

Is this really the love life I want?

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