Rants I Forgive You 11:41 PM I Forgive You i forgive you, though you're not truly sorry. i forgive you, though it still hurts and i don't know when the hurting would stop. i forgive you, not because you deserve it. we both know you don't. i forgive you, because i deserve to be happy again. we both know i do. forgive me if it took me this long to find the courage to forgive you. pray for me, that i'll finally find it in my heart to forgive myself for allowing you to hurt me.
Stories How Can I Not Forgive You? 8:43 AM Forgive you? Of course. How can I not forgive someone who made me better, wiser and stronger? Someone who brought out the worst and eventually, the best in me? How can I not forgive the person who taught me to never again lower my standards, to never again compromise my beliefs, to never again sacrifice my dignity, and to never again cross oceans for people who would not even jump puddles for me? How can I not forgive you for what you did? You taught me that it's okay to sacrifice someone for something that I strongly believe in. That it's okay to put myself first before I think about what others would feel or think (to hell with them, right?). That if I want something bad enough, I can do anything, even make up stories, and lie to someone's face just so I can be where I want to be, and be with whom I want to be with at that moment. You taught me to be heartless, and to walk away. How can I not forgive you? You transformed me into the best version of myself today. Of course, I forgive you. I owe you a lot. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Stories I Choose To Forgive You 9:59 PM No matter what the world feeds you; anger, bitterness, confusion, pain---choose to forgive. At the end of the day, like love, forgiveness is a choice. So I made a mental note that despite the heaviness in my heart each time I wake up, despite the hurting that doesn't seem to stop in every waking hours, despite the questions that keep running in my head, despite the self-doubt and the crashing of self-worth that you brought me, despite the grudge I unconsciously hold, at the end of the day, I can still say I've forgiven you. It's a constant struggle. You told me so yourself, there are things in this world we can never explain. You're right. I would never understand nor will be able to explain some things. Why did you have to choose me, and leave me in the end? Why did you have to promise me so many things, when you always knew you're a coward and you can't deliver them? Why did you have to say hurtful things and blame me, so you can cover up your personal issues? What did I ever do to you to merit this? I guess life's like that. Shit happens. So you have to happen. Maybe I'll find the answer soon. Maybe never. And despite those uncertainties... I still choose to forgive you. I can say with all sincerity, that despite what you did...I forgive you. See also: Keep Walking Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Life Lessons 10 Life Lessons From Maleficent Movie 10:02 AM Have you ever wondered why villains are the way they are? Only when I got older did I realize people aren’t born evil. Something pushed them. Someone hurt them. Hurt people hurt people. And that has been made clearer with my favorite Disney villain’s story. So here are the ten life lessons from the Maleficent movie and the realizations I learned. 10 Life Lessons Learned from Maleficent Movie1. Forgiveness sets you free.When we close the chapter that has long been over, a new story starts to unravel. Don’t wait for the person who hurt you to apologize before you forgive them. By then, it may be too late. Decide to forgive now for your peace of mind.Forgive yourself for allowing that person to walk through your mind with their dirty feet.Stop hanging on to the past because it’s already done.Stop beating yourself up for what happened in the previous chapter of your life when the part of that story is already over.Choose to forgive and set yourself free.2. We choose the life we want.There’s evil in this world, but it has no power over you unless you allow it to. Every day, you make a choice. Mocha or latte.Save or spend.Choose food that heals or food that harms.Spread kindness or hatred.Respond or react.Find a way or find an excuse.Smile or frown.Love or indifference.It’s up to you.What are you choosing today? It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. - JK Rowling3. What goes around comes around.Kindness begets kindness. Hate begets hate. No matter how hard you try to be kind to everyone, sometimes, someone will repay it with hostility.It may be tempting to give your haters a taste of their own medicine, but that will not heal your wound.The best revenge is success. Nothing kills your enemy more than seeing you happy and prosperous. Sit back. Relax. And let karma do her job.4. Master yourself. It’s normal to be angry when you’re hurt. It is a healthy response.It’s never okay to live with the pain and let your anger control you.Tame that angry beast inside you. Or else...You will drive the people around you away.You will have sleepless nights.You will get sick.Anger steals joy and peace.It will make you miserable. You could end up like the people who hurt you.Allow yourself to be angry. Embrace the pain. And then, let it go. (I’ve learned this one from Tuesdays with Morrie).5. Create your own happiness.Don’t make another person your source of happiness. Make your own sunshine.Choose to be happy. Stop holding on to what causes you misery or stress.Life becomes easier if you free yourself from the tt that are weighing you down. You open yourself up to better options and opportunities.6. Greed destroys. Negative and toxic feelings will eventually swallow you if you allow them.Greed will destroy you. King Stefan, in the movie, wanted more. His insatiable hunger for worldly things destroyed his family and drove him to madness. It eventually led to his death.7. Hurting people hurt people. Misery loves company. People who are wounded tend to wound others. They are screaming for help and desperate for healing but don’t know what to do. They feel empty. Their words are like knives.They are challenging to be around. They will drain your energy.You will never speak to talk more than yourself in your head. Be kind to yourself.8. Know the story behind the story. I used to think that Maleficent was born evil. Who would curse a baby?I never asked why she did what she did. What drove her to become this evil?I’ve realized that, as adults, we understand the villain more. Heck, sometimes we can even relate to them.When you meet a toxic person, do you judge them immediately to them, or do you through them right away?9. Teamwork is essential.We all need a reliable backup to accomplish our goals. A team of people to cheer us on or simply support us.We need friends who believe in us and see our potential---even when we doubt ourselves. We need friends who will point out the wrong in us. But will never walk away.Who is on your team?10. The power of wordsWords can build and destroy life. Be careful with what you say. Once spoken, you can’t take them back.How powerful are words? Dr. Masaru Emoto’s experiment showed that words can affect and change the molecular structure of water.And that’s only water. Imagine the effect of words on a person.Bonus lesson: never mess with a woman with red lipstick. 🤣 Realizations about Maleficent: Whpotenteficent?Maleficent is the most powerful fairy who lives in the Moors, a magical forest realm bordering a human kingdom. She fell in love with her first and only human friend Stefan. Stefan’s ambition and desire for power drove him to betray Maleficent, leaving her heartbroken and hateful. 1. Maleficent represents every one of us. Maleficent was born good. She believed in the goodness of men before she was betrayed. She did not hurt anyone. The concept of betrayal was foreign to her. This left her lost and wrathful. She wallowed in her pain and hatred. She shut the world out and became vindictive. I’ve read stories like this. About villains who used to be good. Until something awful happened to them. For Maleficent, it was losing faith both in love and in humanity. It was the betrayal that pushed her to be vengeful and curse the life of her perpetrator. Hurting people tend to do outrageous and illogical things. 2. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Maleficent had a choice like all f us. She lets her emotions control her or master her feelings and control her. It’s not easy to stay calm when you’ve given yourself only to be taken advantage of. 3. Life has a twisted sense of humor. What she despised and was obsessed with turned out to be why she changed. This is another proof that behind every burden is a blessing. In every trial, there lies a treasure. Final WordsI love knowing the other side of the story. The movie Maleficent is a perfect 5 for me. Have you seen Maleficent? What life lessons have you learned from it? Image and Gifs from GiphyThis post contains affiliate links. Meaning I get a commission if you purchase through my links at no additional cost to you. This helps me maintain my site. Thank you for your support!
Single Life This Single Is Ready To Mingle 10:30 PM Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time. -Maya Angelou This single is ready to mingle. That didn't sound fabulous, did it? I felt douchey and juvenile saying that. But before you judge me, know my story: I have been single for a long time now. It was a choice I deliberately made. I allowed myself to feel ALL the emotions that bitter ending brought. Grief, disappointment, frustration, pain of betrayal, confusion, unforgiveness, grudge, angst, wrath, denial, depression, and what-have-yous were my constant companions. You see, I believe that all people were born good. So everyone for me deserves a chance. It's disappointing and frustrating to be yet again proven wrong. What's left to believe in? I closed my door to everyone who tried to woo me. I thought I would be unfair to them. I wanted to heal myself completely first. All throughout that roller coaster of emotions, I was battling to forgive. Difficult is an understatement. Imagine feeling vindictive while telling yourself, "I want to forgive. This is not me; angry, bitter, unforgiving. I want to be me again; happy, optimistic, hopeful. So today, I decide to forgive," at the same time? It got kind of bipolar-ish for a while there. My emotions was the tale of the two wolves for some time. But it was so difficult because as much as I wanted to feed the good wolf, the evil wolf was quicker and stronger. Most of the time, I lost the battle and succumbed to the evil one. I allowed it to consume me. It was becoming a cycle. But the stubborn kid in me won't allow one heartbreak to destroy my entire life. That was not who I was born to be. I deserve more than that. It got easier through time. Or maybe I just got stronger. Either way, I learned to love myself in the truest sense. I allowed myself to be happy again. I helped myself. Because let's face it. No matter how many books you read, no matter how wise the advice you receive from people, if you won't help yourself, no one else would. So I smartened up. I shifted the energy and attention I spent unleashing anger into fulfilling activities. I tried new things that I never thought I would dare do. I spent more time with the people who value and appreciate me, drinking up all the love they offer to fill up my emptying love tank. I allowed myself to be angry with God because I felt He did not protect me enough. Then again, it was not His decision in the first place. It was my recklessness which I so shamelessly blame on Him. I came to my senses and made my peace with Him. After all the blaming, the questioning and the hating, guess what He did? He didn't even make me take all the steps towards Him. He ran towards me when He saw me approaching. He embraced me. No questions, no reprimanding, no "I told you so". He accepted me back and loved me as if I have never sinned. He is a prodigal Father. I got so busy being happy again. I got preoccupied thinking, planning and acting to show my love to myself. I am terribly at peace with myself and with everything that's happening around me I forgot that I must share this love and this beautiful life with someone. Sure, there is no need for that if I am already okay with how my life is turning out. But somehow, I feel a nudge, a pull towards this path again. I feel like I have to continue the quest of finding the elusive one---the one. I think I've given myself more than enough room to breathe, to grow and to bounce back. I think my love tank is full enough that I won't be putting myself and the other person's life in misery by acting like a selfish, hungry, demanding toddler. I feel like I'm whole enough and ready to share my wholeness with another whole person. Because I believe that a happy relationship is made of two happy individuals, not by two miserable souls seeking for someone to make them happy. I don't know what surprises this year holds for me. I have plans but I know that God's plans will still prevail. I'm wise enough now to accept it whatever it will be because never had I proven that my plans are better than His. I'm putting everything on His caring hands as I step out the doors I once closed...single and ready to mingle. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Lux Thinking Aloud My Name And Its Meaning 5:37 AM What’s in a name? That which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet. -Romeo and Juliet The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge Day 10: Google the meaning of your name and talk about how it fits or doesn't fit you I don't have to Google my name to know its meaning. My parents made it clear to me ever since. It means I'm the lucky charm and that everyone were happy around the time I was born since it was when something great happened to the family. I'm going to focus instead on the nickname most people call me. It started during college when some of my closest friends would call me by it (I just tweaked the spelling); Lux. At first I didn't know it means anything (but it's simpler and I like the sound of it) until my priest friend told me. "Lux" is Latin for "light". Ahhh, now we're talking. I've always been optimistic. I always look at the bright side. Sure, there were times when my light has been taken away from me temporarily. Like when everything I believed in turned out to be a big hairy ugly lie. Or when what I hoped for never came to pass. Or when I got so hurt the ugly beast of hatred and grudge sleeping inside me woke up and roared too loud for too long. Oh, it was a struggle. Yet despite the pain, despite the anger, despite the sense of vindication building inside me, I chose to forgive. I was so bitter for a long time, that I admit. Despite the mess though, I chose to forgive, accept what's there and still look at the pros that came with it. I've learned (enLIGHTened!), I've been better, I'm happy again. I also hope, I really try in my own way, to give light to those who need it. It is also quite a struggle since there are a lot of toxic, difficult and also hurt people that I have to deal with. With God's grace, I've learned to let go of petty things and forgive the big offenses. It's not magic. It doesn't happen overnight, but I've decided to live and let live. I believe it's a matter of choosing between believing in luck or waiting for things to happen, and deliberately living in the light, seeing clearly and freeing yourself from darkness. I choose the latter. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Lux Thinking Aloud Striving To Be Childlike 7:36 AM Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it. -Matthew 18:3 Striving To Be Childlike I'm striving to be childlike. A child lives a less complex, stress free life. A child may worry, but not for long and not over serious matters. I am striving to be forgiving. Notice how easy it is for children to forgive one another? Sometimes, they don't even have to apologize. After a while, they start playing or talking again like nothing happened. No hang ups, no grudges. They forgive easily because they don't make a big deal out of it. They forgive easily because they forget about the offense. They put their friendship over their differences. And a little misunderstanding can't stop them from having fun. I want to be as forgiving as a child. I am striving to be trusting. The ugly part of being an adult is that you've been exposed to many events that somehow removed your ability to trust fully. Too many betrayals. Too many promises broken. Too many plans that did not pursue because somehow the people involved were not able to live out their commitment. It's sad really. You become too cautious you build a strong and tall wall around you to protect yourself from further damage, because you fear that you might not be able to take the hurt anymore if it happens again. I want to be childlike in the way I trust people. Like I've never been hurt before. Like I will never be betrayed again. The way a child laughs when he's being thrown high on air by his father knowing that he will catch him no matter what. I am striving to be dependent on God. I want to be dependent on God like a child is dependent on his parents. To wake up knowing that my day will be alright because my Father sees to it that all my needs are taken care of. That my way is safe. That my convenience is always considered. I am striving to be worry-free. Worry is not of from God, it's from the enemy. Because God does not want us to worry, He said that so Himself. A child is worry-free because He knows He's in good hands. He can sleep soundly in his parent's arms despite the chaos going around him because he is sure that he will be protected. That he will not be abandoned. That he is loved. I am striving to be childlike in a way that I never lose my sense of wonder. To look at things in amazement. To expect beautiful surprises in the face of uncertainty. To believe in miracles, in magic, and that all wishes come true. To be always in awe even of the little things that adults take for granted. To never stop being appreciative of even the small things and gestures. I am striving to be forgiving, trusting, dependent, worry-free, appreciative. I am striving to be childlike. A child who is confident that he is loved. A child who knows his place. A child so full of dreams and belief in himself. A child who is sure that he can do anything he sets his heart to. I am striving to be childlike, and you should too. This post is based on today's Didache Reflection. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email Photos: Google images
Health & Wellness Live Happy Live Healthy 9:41 AM Two things affect your health; what you feed your mouth and what you feed your mind. Live Happy, Live Healthy Trust More Worry kills. Stress is the number 1 killer in the world. Change your psychology; change your physiology. Stress is thoughts. The antidote for stress is to trust God. Forgive More You don’t have to forgive abruptly. You can make it a journey Especially if you've been hurt deeply. It’s okay to be angry because anger has a purpose. Anger is an expression of self-love. It is a part of the healing process. However, anger has an expiration date. If you hold anger too long in your heart, it can kill you. Forgiveness is the greatest cleanser and toxic remover in the world. Forgiveness should be a habit, because everyday you’re going to get hurt. Because everyday your defenses are down with people you love. Because you expect to receive love in return. Love More You need to prioritize love. Put love in your calendar. See to it that you spend more time with the people you love. A medical study shows people who lack strong social relationships increase their risk of early death by 50%. This is almost the same risk percentage as those who smoke 15 cigarettes every day. Divorced people end up with 20% more chronic health conditions like heart disease, diabetes, and cancer than happy married couples do. Being human, your greatest need is love. Expect More Live from glory to glory to glory. Laugh More Told that he had little chance of surviving, Norman Cousins, an American political journalist, author, professor, and world peace advocate developed a recovery program incorporating mega doses of Vitamin C, along with a positive attitude, love, faith, hope, and laughter induced by Marx Brothers films. "I made the joyous discovery that ten minutes of genuine belly laughter had an anesthetic effect and would give me at least two hours of pain-free sleep," he reported. "When the pain-killing effect of the laughter wore off, we would switch on the motion picture projector again and not infrequently, it would lead to another pain-free interval." Laughter is a deep human need, that’s why we tend to gravitate towards people who make us laugh. How to Laugh More: a. Smile often. You don’t need a reason to smile. b. Spend time with fun people. Get rid of the grouches. c. Watch comedy. d. Laugh at yourself. e. Count your blessings. Vacation More Women who did not go for a vacation have high risk of dying early by 8% Prayer is a vacation. Don’t postpone your vacation because you’ll never know how long you're going live. Take small inexpensive vacations. Serve More Never retire from serving without a title. A 30-year study was conducted among mothers. The healthiest of them are those who render volunteer works. Life is short no matter how long you live. Start living a healthy life now. From The Biggest Winner (Heal. Eat. Move. Live.) series at the Feast. More of this on Bo Sanchez's page Attend The Feast and be more blessed. Click here. Check their Facebook page here All gifs from Giphy
Faith Today, I Choose 6:37 AM Our life is the sum total of the choices we make. Today, I Choose Today, I choose to be happy, with what I have, wherever I am. Today, I choose to be productive. Today is not the day I set aside the things I need to do. Today, I choose to forgive the people who hurt me. But more than that, I choose to forgive myself for giving them the power to do so. Today, I choose to move on, to look forward to tomorrow, to remember the past but not be affected by it. Today, I choose to dream again, to build new dreams, and to believe that anything is possible. Today, I choose to look at the goodness in me, and see the good in others, too. Today, I choose to embrace my imperfections, and see beyond my faults. Today, I choose to believe in miracles. Today, I choose to open myself to endless possibilities, and shower of blessings from above. Today, I choose to dance in the rain. Today, I choose to be a victor, and refuse to be a victim. Today, I choose to love, even the most difficult person in my life. Today, I choose to look at things from a new perspective and believe that I will see something I've missed before. Today, I choose to face the unknown with boldness. What's there to be afraid of anyway? Today, I choose to be in control. Today, I choose to live. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Faith Prayer In Time Of Uncertainty 7:48 AM Prayer In Time of Uncertainty Dear God, Hear my prayer in this time of uncertainty in my life. I am blinded by the challenges of the present, help me remember that this is a part of your big plan for my beautiful future. I am discouraged by the uncertainties of things today, remind me that tomorrow is surely wonderful as You are already there. It is too dark where I'm standing now. I can't see a single thing. I am scared. I am lost. Hold my hand. For holding Your hands, I know I can do anything. Help me take a leap of faith. I don't know where I am going to land. But I know for sure that You will be there to catch me. Help me remember that if You can calm the waves and the raging storm, You can calm the storm in me. Remind me of the times you did the impossible to save your children in the face of peril and lead them to Your Promise Land. I may be in the desert today; parched, exhausted, alone, but I have faith that You are here to provide and protect. Forgive me for forgetting that You are Almighty. You laid the earth's foundation. You parted the Red Sea for Your people. You closed the mouths of hungry lions to save a faithful man. You made the blind see and the cripple walk. You raised the dead. What can you not do for me? Nothing is too hard for you. Forgive me for doubting. Awaken my faith. Revive my soul. Raise my dead dreams back to life again, Lord, I beg you. My future is unclear and uncertain but help me to believe that it is going to be okay. Because You hold my future in Your hands. In this time of uncertainty and difficulty, Lord hear my prayer in Jesus' name. Amen. See also: Let This Be My Prayer Today I Pray
Health & Wellness Goodness Is Human Nature 4:18 PM Humans are innately good. It's in our nature. A baby wasn't born a bully or a racist. Goodness is human nature. We just forget. Maybe because along the way people treated us unjustly or hurt us badly that as a result, we let anger rule our emotions and cloud our judgment. You can't love someone who made you feel like trash. Maybe those around us tell us too often for too long that we are incapable, or not good enough, or that we will never amount to anything that it got ingrained in our minds. Goodness is Human Nature We are gold. But somehow life keeps kicking us down that we got covered in mud we forgot how shiny and precious we are inside. We forgot our identity: that we are born good. via Tumblr We need something or someone to remind us that we are good. We are enough. And that no matter how we think how little our contribution is, we count and we matter. I mean, think about the Butterfly Effect. It is the idea that small things like a flutter of a butterfly's wings, can cause as huge an impact as a hurricane on the other side of the world. That's how powerful it is. That's how powerful our choices are. So a simple effort such as choosing sustainable products can make a humongous difference to our planet. Using paper stem cotton buds over plastic might can save a turtle's life. Advocating on companies that are cruelty-free can save animals from misery and untimely death. Animals aren't put here on earth to suffer or die just so we can perfect that shade of red in our lipstick. Goodness is a choice. Every day we have an option which side to choose, how to react, how to help. For instance, our food can either nourish us or make us ill. What you put inside your body is solely up to you. Those who hurt us can either apologize or not. But to forgive them is all up to us. We can wait until our offender is dead before we forgive them. That is something we choose for ourselves. via Giphy The products we use on a daily basis can come from a company that has no regard for Mother Nature or one that prioritizes and sustains the planet's needs. As I get older, I've become more aware of what I can do to help make the world a better place. Every day, my desire to care for nature grows stronger. I've realized that our life the sum total of every single choice we make every day. What are you choosing? Goodness in the products we choose From consumer to advocate I've discovered Human Nature brand while looking for something new to try in the grocery store. I started as a fan. Then I became addicted to their products because it's SO good. The quality is comparable to leading and expensive brands but at a much lesser price. I buy whatever they release---even those that are for kids, because I just know they're all excellent and worth the money. Having read about wealthy mindset, I researched about them and decided to become a dealer. Only to avail the discount every time I buy. But then the brand is too good not to share. It is so easy to sell because people already know and can testify to how good it is. Let me tell you how awesome Human Nature is: They are cruelty-free. They don't test on animals. They're the first Filipino company that received a prestigious cruelty-free recognition from PETA. Now before I buy cosmetics or anything I consume, I ask first or look for that bunny. It maybe just a simple (or even unnecessary for some) kind of act, but for a beagle who can go blind during the testing or a mice that could die, it is their salvation. via Human Heart Nature They are pro-environment. They see to it that when you rinse off your shampoo or when your sunblock washes off to the sea, it doesn't harm the ocean or the planet in general. They are pro-poor. Human Nature helps give local farmers and unemployed mothers a chance to earn a living. According to their website: "As firm believers in fair trade principles, we offer to buy at just and fair prices from our community-based suppliers, sometimes even above market prices if the market price is not enough to provide a good quality of life for the farmers." They also support Gawad Kalinga which is a movement that has helped build homes for the poorest communities. It is their core belief "to end poverty by first restoring the dignity of the poor." They are pro-Philippines. The ingredients and raw materials they use are locally grown from the Philippines. In case you don't know, the Philippines is rich in natural resources which are mostly used for expensive products you see in the global market like coconut oil. Human Nature recognizes this fact and so they formulate products from here, buying from local suppliers, and using talents and skills of the locals. I am so glad and proud to be a part of this brand. They have the balance between excellence of their product plus a heart for those in need. The quality of their products can compete globally but the price is much more affordable. They generously give back to the community and to the planet. I think I hit the jackpot here. My Human Nature Online Dealer Shop is now open to serve you! I recently opened my very own online dealer shop! If you want to purchase, you can check out my Human Nature Lucky Shop (Love Nature). Here's how easy it is to buy: Create an account or login with Facebook Add items to cart Pay DIRECTLY to Human Nature via debit card, credit card or Paypal (their PayPal option is paused as of writing. Please check their site.) 🔸 No need to contact me 🔸 Items will be delivered to the address you entered Now that was not a long sales pitch. I meant every word I wrote. In fact, I mentioned this business on my Monday Gratitude List last 2014. I've always wanted to feature them on my blog but then I always let other things get in the way. If you've just heard of this brand, here are my personal favorites and recommendations: Tomato Nourishing Facial Wash Acne Defense Facial Wash Acne Defense Solution Gel Sunflower Beauty Oil Luxe Pure Rosehip Oil Peppermint Lip Scrub Rosemary Strengthening Plus Shampoo and Conditioner Clarifying Shampoo Daily Hair Treatment Conditioner Strawberry or Vanilla Exfoliating Bar Chamomile Cool Feminine Wash Red Days Feminine Wash Citrus Burst Hand Sanitizer Strawberry Hand and Foot Salve Safe Protector Sunscreen Bug Shield Citronella Oil Peppermint Oil Ant Warder HN Liquid Detergent HN Dishwashing Liquid Theo & Philo Choco Peanut Butter Rustique Cacao Kayumanggi Tintan’s Assorted Cookie Bites Pili & Pino Granola Yes, I've tried them all! If you want to nourish your body without hurting your budget and help make the planet a safer and better place, buy organic, cruelty-free, and natural products. Support companies that are not all about profit but also with a purpose. Make that beautiful change in your life you've always wanteded to see. Start with yourself. Choose goodness. It's human nature.
Listicle Helping A Loved One In Need 7:00 PM It can be heartbreaking to watch a friend or relative suffer, especially when all you want to do is help them. Unfortunately, it can be hard to know what to say or do when a loved one is living with a health condition, addiction, or personal problem. If you want to support them every step of the way with the problem, so they can live a happier life, read the below tips for helping a loved one in need. Helping a Loved One in Need Make Recommendations Gently It can be easy to believe you have all the solutions to your loved one’s problems when they are struggling. Rather than pushing your advice a friend or relative, you must take the time to listen to them without judgment. By doing so, he or she will be more likely to open up about a problem and turn to you in times of trouble. If you have finally encouraged a loved one to open up about how they are feeling, you should try not to railroad a conversation, as it might result in them shutting down. Instead, you should gently make recommendations in the conversation to helpfully guide them. For example, if they are living with depression, ask them open-ended questions that will push the conversation forward, such as “have you considered visiting a doctor or therapist?” Show Your Support It is important that your family member or friend knows you will be there for them every step of the way during a journey. For example, if a person living with an addiction is considering entering one of the best drug treatment centers, explain to them you would be more than happy to drive them to the facility, and you will pick them up once they have completed rehab. This small act will make a person feel not only loved and supported but optimistic about their future. Help Vulnerable Loved Ones Who Can’t Help Themselves There might be some people in your life that might be unable to articulate their emotions or needs. It is your responsibility as their loved one to help them when they cannot help themselves. For example, you might need to become a loved one’s power of attorney if they have been diagnosed with a form of dementia, or you might need to bring your pet pooch to the vet to diagnose what triggers seizures in dogs. Forgive them for Their Past Mistakes Unfortunately, many people can lash out at their nearest and dearest when living with a health complaint or addiction. Rather than holding onto an incident, you must learn to forgive them so they can truly move forward with their lives. Holding onto a grudge will not help your relationship in the long run, and it could make a problem feel ten times worse for a loved one. So, learn to let go of the past to create a healthier, happier, stronger relationship, which will help your loved one to effectively recover from an addiction, mental health condition, or a traumatic experience. There are rehabilitation centers in Arizona that are ready to help.
