Faith 7 Lessons I Learned From Ruth While Waiting For My Boaz 8:18 PM So here's the thing about Ruth and why she's a big deal---at least for single women. She's the perfect inspiration for those who are: feeling inadequate feeling flawed scrutinized and marginalized by the cruel society feeling that they've ran out of luck when it comes to finding "The One" tired of doing good and not seeing any good happen to them In short, Ruth is not your ideal woman. People looked down on her because: She was a Moabite. Moabites were descendants of Lot from an incestuous relationship with his oldest daughter. She's a woman, and women during her time were considered property whose value is only a little higher than cows in their society. She's a widow. Some people during her time thinks widows are cursed. Giphy Despite her personal obstacles and the labels people give her, she remained faithful to her mother-in-law Naomi and did what she could to help her. Brushing aside the whispers about her, she went out to glean the barley fields of her late husband's kin, Boaz. That's a quick summary so you may want to read her story to know more. But here's what I got from Ruth. 7 Lessons I Learned From Ruth While Waiting For My Boaz 1. Ruth’s priority was a life of service. Ruth didn’t wait for someone to redeem her after her husband died. She went out there and worked---for her and for her mother-in-law. The only family she has. She could have left her but she didn't. She served her. She knew her priorities. Don’t wait for other people—especially for men to validate your existence or rescue you from where you are. In the end, you're the only one who can save you. Don't be a damsel in distress. Be your own hero. 2. Loyalty and selflessness are always rewarded. She cared for Naomi and never left her side which eventually led her to her future husband Boaz. Even when you don't expect it, your goodness will be rewarded. That's how the universe works. 3. Be confident with who you are. Ruth never let rumors and gossip stop her from going out there and getting what she needed. She ignored the naysayers. She knew she was being judged because she didn’t fit in the society’s standards. She had more important things to think about; she had no time for petty things and petty people. If you know who you truly are, no amount of rumor will make you question your identity. Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what the reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character. -Dr. Wayne Dyer 4. Be diligent, persevering, and determined. Ruth worked harder than others, which Boaz noticed. Your work ethics, virtues and hard work will speak for itself. Though some people don't appreciate your effort and your goodness, someone will---someone who matters. 5. Be a woman of character. Boaz told Ruth: “All my fellow townsmen know that you are a worthy woman.” What can be more flattering than that? You can’t control your reputation, because everyone's entitled to their own opinion. But remember: not everybody matters. You can’t control other people’s impression of you. Don’t even waste your time trying. However, you do have full and total control of your own character. Be someone your Boaz can be proud of. Be someone you yourself, your children and your children's children can be proud of. Carry yourself with dignity. 6. Stop chasing people. Don’t be desperate. Boaz praised Ruth’s loyalty saying, “You have not gone after a younger man, whether rich or poor.” Never run after a bus, train or man. When one leaves, another arrives. 7. Follow the advice of the wise. Ruth knew she could trust Naomi so she followed her advice. Which turned out to be an effective one because Boaz married her after that. Ruth may not be every guy's fantasy girl, but she’s every man’s ideal wife, judging by her character. People might have treated her like trash, but her character shined so brightly that a man of integrity like Boaz saw what a gem she was. Don’t just sit and wait around for your Boaz. Ruth never did. She lived a life of service and the Lord rewarded her. For God is faithful, and His timing is perfect. Be like Ruth while waiting for your Boaz. Work while you wait and wait in faith. ---- Lessons from The Feast's teachings on Women. Edited from the article I submitted on The Praying Woman.
Music My Own Thing - Red Red Lips 12:49 PM Whenever I need a boost in confidence, I put on some red lipstick. There's something about a woman's red red lips that says: I'm the Girl Boss and I'm doing my own thing. Red Red Lips must've had that in mind when they wrote their song My Own Thing. Because even for someone who's not 100% into rock music like me, I feel pumped up and ready to conquer the world every time I hear this song. Red Red Lips website My Own Thing by Red Red Lips This song is great to play while you're in the shower getting ready for the day, in your car with your friends for a road trip or alone on your way to work, during a workout or run, and anytime you feel doubtful, really. You do your own thing. What I like most is the opening beat. I have to be honest, I keep playing the first part before playing the song in full. Also the "ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh" in the background is a fun addition. I'm that type of person who sings not only the main lyrics but as well as the second voice. 😂 It's a catchy, feel-good kind of song. I make my own fate The lyrics is also a good reminder that although we make mistakes, we make our own fate. No one is to blame. We are in total control. So we should be ready for the consequences if we decide to do our own thing. It's a fun song that makes you want to groove and again, gives you that same feeling of boldness you feel when you're wearing that red lipstick. Ladies, you know what I mean. Check out more of Red Red Lips' hits on Spotify and Soundcloud. Also check their cool music video for My Own Thing on Youtube. "My Own Thing" from the self-titled debut album "RED RED LIPS". Written, arranged & produced by The Usual Suspects. As heard on TV Series "The Bold Type" Season 3 Promo. The Bold Type Premieres April 9th, 2019. If you like this blog post about life and love, please share the article using the social media buttons below or on the left. Thanks!
Holiday Present To Give The Girl You Love On Christmas 6:10 PM Every year, there is a familiar panic among young men scurrying towards gift shops in a wild chase for the perfect gift to give to the one they love. Even finding a gift for the family is difficult! She is an engineer. Should I give her safety equipment with a construction Christmas card to show her that I care about her? This article will help you find the best Christmas present to give to your girl for the most wonderful time of the year. Present to Give the Girl You Love on Christmas It is a balancing actIf you are still at the early stages of dating or courtship, gift-giving is not just a means to capture her heart but a standard that you are setting for the relationship.If you spend too much, you could be having a hard time topping that the next time you have to give her a gift. However, if you spend too little, you risk losing her for seeming thoughtless or cheap. Gift giving is a balancing act and you should try to tread in the middle for as much as you can especially in the early days of the relationship. Price and Relationship Formula Figuring out the budget that you have to set for the gift is the first step. And the trickiest. A gift is not just a gift and girls are good at picking up the message behind it. Going too strong at the beginning like gifting her something outrageously expensive might either scare her or make her expect more.A friend once gave a girl a ring for Christmas. Even though they only met on the 12th of December. Don't come across like a creeper. If you have just met her and have gone out on a few dates, you should spend no more than a day’s worth of pay for a gift. If you want to go more specific, here are the gifts that you can give her depending on how long you have known each other.Gifts to Give Your Girl Based on How Long You've Met Her One monthGive her a card. Cheap but meaningful. Or get her a bottle of her favorite wine or treat her to a home-cooked meal. Not only will you be giving her a gift, but you get to spend some time with her as well. Three monthsIf you see each other quite often, you could spend a few more to let her know you really like her. By this time, you may already know her likes. What's her favorite book genre? Her favorite color? What does she seem to need at the moment?Maybe a customized gift would do the trick. One yearHere is where it gets really serious and you will have to up your game. Not only should your gifts be valuable. It should be meaningful and a way to express your feelings.If you got this far and you see yourself spending a lifetime with her, you might want to consider giving her an engagement ring. Research like you mean itCourtship may sour knowing that the other person does not seem to care about your interests.If she is an athlete or into fitness, you can give her a yoga mat.If she likes to cook, then a new knife won’t seem like a bad idea. Or if she actually does work in construction, then that construction Christmas card might not be such a bad idea after all. Giving a gift to the one you love can be one of the most satisfying feelings you can experience. Your thoughtfulness can also help you score brownie points with your partner.
Fashion & Style Top 10 Latest Jewellery Trends To Follow In 2019 4:56 PM Every fashion fan waits for the New Year to rejuvenate themselves with the upcoming fashion trend with each new season. With the introduction of the New Year, 2019 there comes the new trend along with it. The bold look has always ruled the runway. Oversize accessories and animal prints are always prevailing everywhere. So the fashion trends also reflect in the jewelry. After all the jewelry completes our look. The most interesting fact is that jewelry can be mixed and matched with various dresses always providing you with a different look. Wearing costume jewelry always adds up to your style statement, but simple, quality pieces never go out of style. So check out some latest jewelry trend of 2019, and spice up your look! Top 10 Latest Jewellery Trends to Follow in 2019 1. Ring Rings are never out of trends, it’s just the matter how you combine them up. Never try to forget the massive rings worn singly or in pairs, doubled or tripled. You can even put them on your gloved and be trendier. So the ultimate thing to follow is to use unusual sets of fashion ring, which is always a win-win option. Don’t step back to try out new things, just go with crazy combinations. You can find amazing collection online with amazing prices by using Bluestone Coupon for Rings. 2. Pearls This translucent gem will take you to the next level of feminism. They are now not your grandmother’s accessories only. The sleek design and the geometric arrangements of the pearl provide them a fresh update this year. 3. Variant earrings Really worried which pair of earring suits your outfit? Don’t then! This latest fashion trend featured in wearing different earnings on each ear. It can either be studs, or danglers, mixing the style and colour forming new and unexpected combinations would help you to grab attention, at the same time add interest to your outfit. via Pinterest 4. Chains Sleek constructed chains form precious metals will always get a thumbs up and totally ready to race in the latest trend. Whether in form of bracelets or earrings, worm alone or forming building blocks, your links always add up to the next level. 5. Silver Are you so sure that nothing is more feminine than a clear crystal? Then you are wrong. Apart from that, if you consider pearl to be more authentic, then, frankly speaking, pearls are worth wearing only after your 20’s, and not earlier. In the latest trend of 2019, the designer’s follow silver to be a new jewelry trend. They are quite elegant and beautiful. They are even more relevant when studded with semiprecious stones or rock crystals. Order best design online at great pricing options by using Candere Coupons for silver jewellery. 6. Animal Print Animal print is prevailing everywhere and never out of fashion, whether it's in your dressing part or your accessories. If you are unable to indulge yourself with leopard pattern pants then showcase your wild side through your accessories. 7. Latest Hoops Hoops always stays stable when it comes to jewelry. We all know about the classic symmetrical hoops and in love to wear them. But this year, there is a new twist. Medium thick and geometrically shaped hooks are also making their ways out. 8. Gemstones Hot hues and bright colours are featured in different materials, but when you are concerned about the jewellery, bright colored stones is what you ask for. Maybe in past years or in the coming trend, real gemstones are absolutely timeless. 9. Bracelets Bracelets are mainly made from metals like silver. Materials like wood and leather can also be added to stylize them as the national jewelry of Greek and turkey. But in this new era of 2019, bracelets will include crystals, chains with beads and pearls. Handmade bracelets would steal its popularity screaming your style and taste. 10. Boho obviously The boho style emerged as an antithesis of glamour but somehow made an entry to the fashion walk in the year 2018 itself and will prevail in 2019 too! In order to maintain the harmony with this style, you need to find something rebellious within yourself. It’s the combination of both, the exquisite and the free hippy style. Boho images can be funny or brave, naïve or sophisticated. It includes the high quality of street fashion. So in 2019 try them to wear in bundles whether it chains, laces or pendants. If you like this blog post about life and love, please share the article using the social media buttons below or on the left. Thanks!
Listicle Spice Up Your Relationship With Him With These Beautiful Gifts 7:30 PM The beauty of a new relationship is that it doesn't require a lot of effort to keep the spice in it.As the relationship ages though, some may feel the loss of attraction and excitement. One of the easiest ways to maintain romance in your relationship is to exchange gifts - especially if it's your partner's love language. Gifts are not only welcomed during special occasions. Some may think shopping for your man could be difficult as the options are limited. So, here are a few great gift ideas to spice up your relationship with him. Spice Up Your Relationship With Him With These Gifts Gadgets Men love gadgets. If your man is a tech geek, there's no better surprise than a gift of a gadget.Make sure that you buy the latest as they tend to upgrade and change quickly.Do thorough research about what gadget you are buying so that you can be sure that you are getting the right product. You would not want to be fake embarrassed by giving him something that is either obsolete or is faulty. If your boyfriend is into Japanese culture and you want to get him something really special, you can use the Japan proxy service to get a unique gadget from the Japanese market. Cuff Links If your guy is a corporate executive, a pair of cufflinks would be an amazing gift. Cuff links are a unique accessory that is intended to be used as buttons but has entered the fashion accessory circuit over time. You can choose to buy a diamond-studded Cartier or something much reasonably priced off the rack from Walmart. Finger Band It is a myth that jewelry such as finger bands is a woman's thing only. They look equally good on a man and helps to add a touch of class and sophistication to his overall look. You can buy the expensive ones or those that are cheap but still stylish. If you want to make it a luxury present you can go for a precious metal such as gold and set a precious gem or a diamond in between.Similar designs can be made in Sterling Silver with rhinestones and other semi-precious stones. Musical Instrument If your man is into music, give him a high-end guitar or a keyboard that he has been longing to buy. Watches Most men love to wear watches. They can make a strong style statement. You don't have to spend a fortune on a watch and give him a Rolex. Here’s a good guide to look over that list some of the best affordable watches ranging from Seiko to Casio timepieces. You can also look into sports watches or a smartwatch if your significant other is into fitness. Gaming Console Most men are gamers.For them, the most relaxing thing to do after a long week is to spend the weekend unwinding on the couch, playing a game, and eating Pizza. Consider buying an X-Box or the latest PlayStation. Adding a few games to your package would be a plus. (Vegan) Leather Accessories For men who are into a corporate lifestyle, a set of leather accessories makes a classy gift. You can make a bundle of assorted leather items or give a single big item such as a backpack, depending on your budget. Belts, laptop sleeves, Passport covers, and phone cases now come in vegan leather. Toiletries Set This is 2019 and while men might not be as crazy after something like Sephora, they still love high-end grooming kits. A set of toiletries or grooming kits from Prada or Giorgio Armani would make a great gift. If your guy sticks to a particular fragrance that he loves, it would be a good idea to give him a perfume set. Spa Date Many times, both the partners are so busy with their work-life and responsibilities that they barely get any time to relax and spend quality time with each other. Book yourself a Spa Date where both of you can have a relaxing foot massage together. It will not only help you to relax but will also allow both of you to spend some quality time together. Short Getaway Getaways are the best way to spend some time together in solitude. You might not be able to afford n all-inclusive trip, but you can always book yourself for a few days into a resort in your own country where you can unwind and spend some great time tog How about you? How do you spice up your relationship with your man?
Health & Wellness 5 Simple Ways To Improve Your Overall Quality Of Life 6:59 PM Life is so hectic that most of the time the days, weeks and months can pass you by without you even noticing where time has gone. When you are under the pressures of a tight schedule at work, a busy home life and trying to maintain order amongst the chaos, it can be easy to find yourself getting lost within all of the commotion. When life starts to get on top of you like this, it can be detrimental to the overall quality of your everyday experience. If you feel like this is something that is happening to you, then here are five simple tips which will help you to regain some more quality of life. 5 Simple Ways to Improve Your Overall Quality of Life Find some inner peace Whether you do it through meditation, quiet contemplation, or a long walk in nature, finding some inner peace within yourself is an important part of improving your mental and emotional well-being. Take some time to reflect and reconnect with yourself, as this will give you the grounding that you need to be able to tackle everything that is going on in your daily life. Do fun physical activities Exercise is important for both your physical and mental well-being. Aesthetic physical benefits aside, regular activity keeps your metabolism running well, promotes the release of endorphins, and focuses the mind. However, trying to fit in types of exercise that you don’t enjoy into an already busy schedule is just going to seem more like a burden than a benefit, which is why it is important to find activities to partake in that you will actually enjoy. Go outside and spend time with your family, swim, dance, or play a team a sport: whatever works for you. Be proactive It is so easy to find ways to put things off and procrastinate, but this will only add to your stress levels in the long term. Therefore, it is important that you find the motivation to be proactive at tackling your to-do list. Whether it’s resolving to do the housework before bed, getting round to booking that dentist appointment, or finally looking into treatment for your Golfers Elbow, the more proactive you can be about addressing the small things, the better your quality of life will be on the whole. Voice your opinions A lot of the time if you disagree with something, many people decide it is easier to just let it go than to speak up and cause conflict. While sometimes this practice of keeping the peace is the most important avenue to go down for everyone’s overall well-being, on occasion, having to keep a lid on your emotions can be detrimental to your own personal health. You don’t have to silence yourself for other people, and it is perfectly healthy to engage in some civilized debate. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind, as long as you’re doing so with consideration for others. Find what makes you happy The most important thing to enjoying a good quality of life is finding the things which make you happy, and actively pursuing them. Big or small, just make sure to do one thing each day which is solely for you, and take the time to enjoy it.
For Moms 5 Cute Valentine's Day DIY Gift Ideas For The Whole Family 10:57 PM 5 Cute Valentine's Day DIY Gift Ideas For The Whole Family Most people think of Valentine's Day as a time to get romantic with their spouse. But the truth is, there is just as much fun for the kids as for the adults. So if you're a creative mom, why not get your kids in on some artsy and cute Valentine's Day DIY gift ideas for the whole family?Not only will these make for sweet gifts for your most cherished loved ones, but you'll be grateful for the memories you make as you get creative with your kids. 1. DIY Family Fun Book Do a family take on this "book of date" Valentine's Day DIY gift idea by compiling a list of fun family day activities you would like to do together. Buy construction paper and cut them into equal sizes. Decorate them with family idea vouchers such as: Going on a picnic Making a blanket fort in the living room before an unforgettable movie night Family board/video game night Go to the zoo Finish off your booklet by punching holes through the "coupons" and tying them together with string or stapling them together. 2. Chalkboard FramesThis cute Valentine's Day DIY gift idea involves a trip to the craft store. Buy an ornate picture frame. It can be as big or small as you like. Next, buy some chalkboard paint and a paintbrush. Carefully remove the glass from the frame and set it over scrap newspaper. Paint the glass with chalkboard paint. Once dry, put your glass back into the frame and write a cute message for your sweetheart or the kids. Take inspiration from this Picture Frame Style Chalkboard.3. DIY Valentine's Slime For this cute - and slimy - Valentine's gift idea for her, pick the glitter color of your choice, confetti hearts, liquid starch, and glitter glue. Here's how to make a DIY Valentine's Slime:Pour two cups of the glue into a mixing bowl and add in any extra glitter you like. Optional: Throw in some aromatic essential oils.Add two cups of liquid starch until you have reached your desired, slime-like consistency. Package this in an old glass candle jar or clear plastic container for a gooey, messy, fun DIY gift! 4. DIY Valentine's Treats Sometimes the best present you can give someone is something you make in your kitchen. Find your favorite sugar cookie or brownie recipe and have your kids help you gather and measure the ingredients. If you're making sugar cookies, roll out the dough and let your little ones go crazy with the heart-shaped cookie cutters. Supervise them closely and ensure it's not too hot before they handle it. You can make this an extra-special baking treat for the kids by dipping your cookies into melted chocolate and then dunking them into a separate bowl of sprinkles for a truly gourmet dessert. Here's a simple DIY Valentine's Day cupcake recipe from Ollie. 5. Reasons I Love You Envelopes Studies show that the couples who have the highest rate of marital satisfaction are those who regularly express gratitude for one another. Make this your reality by making this romantic DIY Valentine's gift idea for him. Start with 10 envelopes and write different titles on each of them. For example, "I love you because you can always make me laugh"Take out some fancy paper and write your sweetheart a letter about why you love them. Share a cute or funny memory together. Write out 10 different letters and get the kids in on it. Some ideas to write on this cute Valentine's Day DIY gift: I love you because... You are a great dad! I love you because... You sweep me off my feet. I love you because... You are weird, just like me.I love you because... You're my best friend. Valentine's Day DIY Gift Ideas for the Whole Family Do-It-Yourself gifts are a fantastic choice for this love-filled day because they come directly from the heart. Not only are they thoughtful, but the recipient of your gesture will love knowing that you put time and energy into making your cute Valentine's Day DIY gift. Author: Rachael Pace is a relationship expert with years of experience training and helping couples. She has helped countless individuals and organizations worldwide, offering effective and efficient solutions for healthy and successful relationships. In addition, she is a featured writer for Marriage.com, a reliable resource for supporting healthy, happy marriages. This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you.Hero image
