Freelancing Accomplished 6:15 PM Accomplished Like what Alanis Morissette said (or sang), I'm tired but I'm happy. I took two training courses and certification tests today. Thankfully, I passed. So that's two additional badges to show my clients. And a lot more info I can use as a copywriter, content strategist and email marketer. And that left me feeling exhausted but accomplished at the end of the day. Giphy What's new Browsing through my YouTube feed, I saw this video about organizing and I was instantly hooked. I love the ASMR in the video and how good she is in organizing her house. Her home is so neat and clean and her daughter is cute. I love to keep my closet and our apartment orderly as much as possible too. But this woman is goals! You should check out her channel Hamimommy. Gratitude list My husband who takes care of me every day and supports my endeavors. I still get clients and inquiries. Citron tea. 🍵 I was able to watch an online rosary live from the Cathedral. My newborn nephew. I still haven't seen him personally but my sister keeps sending his photos. He's so cute! My family and friends are safe and healthy. The certificates I've earned in the online courses I took. And to DigitalMarketer for giving them for free for a limited time. Their courses are really expensive, mind you. After getting a taste of what they offer, I know why. It's high quality education for online workers. Screenshot from my Credly Your turn What's your greatest accomplishment? What are you thankful for today?
Lux Thinking Aloud Another Year Older And Hopefully Wiser 8:00 AM It's my birthday week! I'll be another year older and hopefully wiser. I hope I've learned enough from my past experiences and make more reasonable decisions this time. I hope I'll be able to discern God's voice. I know it's not easy, but at least now I can say I feel at peace. I must be doing something right. My 2017 has been going so fast that sometimes I pause and think, "Are these things really happening?" So many things have occured. The year is not yet over but my life is already changing. Big time. Everything in my life is God's grace. I don't deserve any of these blessings. When I think about it, I'm too sinful to live such an amazing life. God's mercy and love are all behind these. Another Year Older And Hopefully Wiser I think as you mature, you make better decisions because you see things more clearly and not solely based on feelings or sentiments. I am glad to say that I am wiser in choosing the people I hang out with. If they don't value me as much as I value them, if they don't respect me and my time, there is no point holding on to the relationship. Even with relationships longer than a decade. Wiser to choose the food I put in my body. When you eat, you either feed or fight disease. (Who said that?) Also, I am more aware of the situations of animals. I am beginning to understand that I don't have to kill or support the killing of innocent lives just so I can be fed or enjoy eating. I am not a vegan yet but I sure am inclining to that direction. Thanks to my dogs who taught me that animals have feelings and can teach you about humanity more than some people. That they too deserve to be happy and have the right to live freely. I can say that I am at this point in my life where I am happy and content. And whatever God gives me that is outside my needs is a huge bonus. Late last year, I wrote about joining the dating scene again. But this time, I've found a different field. That field is on the web. I don't get to go out as often as I should be in order to find a potential partner. My circle is limited. And I work at home I seldom go out. So what are the odds that I'd meet my ideal partner on my way from my work desk to the fridge? Zero. I have planned my future life as a single person. I have made sure that even if I grow old alone, I will be able to secure and support myself. All I outlined was a life free of responsibilities for another living creature (except maybe for our dogs). I've pictured out a future of me traveling locally and abroad with friends, family or alone. I was totally okay with that. But then God has better plans. Well, he always has. He sent someone who, believe it or not, checked off the non-negotiables I have on my list. So far at least. God gave me all I seek and more. And I wish I can say more about it now but I'm still a little overwhelmed by how God works in my life and how He's made what seemed to be impossible just a year ago, so real today. Like what I thought is far from my reach is now in front of me. What an amazing God we have. I have learned that it is important to be specific when asking for what we want because God surely delivers. We just have to be patient. Because our timeline is not the same with His. He is neither early nor late. He is always on time. That's how omnipotent He is. Where am I right now in my life? Still deciphering. Still obeying. Still working every waking hours. Still planting seeds for the future. And still in awe. Sometimes I feel exhausted. Sometimes things still get to me (especially on that special time of the month for ladies). Most of the time, my back still hurts. But looking at the things around me and thinking about how far I am from where I used to be, I can't complain. I can only give thanks. On my birthday, I wish nothing more than for God to teach me humility, contentment, gratitude, and dependence on Him (because I tend to control things and get disappointed when they don't go my way). I wish He transforms me fully to the Proverbs woman I aspire to be. It may sound cliche, but I still do wish for world peace. We can't continue to live in fear knowing that anytime a crazy gun man would attack us or our loved one. Or that someone is being treated unjustly because they're powerless. Surely this is not what Jesus died for. Although I am untroubled right now, I pray that God would continue to guide me to where I need to be. To change my life according to His plans because I trust Him more than I trust my own visions and capabilities. There are more things I need to accomplish, more things I want to experience, and more places I want to see. There are more changes I want to happen. For now, I choose to be here, content, thinking about my upcoming birthday with a heart full of joy and gratitude...and a flight to catch! I'll keep you posted when I get to catch my breath from this birthday trip. Thanks for being here always! What's your birthday wish for me? Photo credit: Michael D. Molinare Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
For Moms 8 Types Of Roses To Make Your Mom Feel Special 6:50 PM Moms deserve to feel special.Thinking of unconditional love, my Mom is the first name that comes to mind. Mothers are special and hold an important place in our hearts. The love, affection, and care they give are unmatched. Mothers are a blessing, and the older we get we cherish this relationship. Mother's Day Flowers Every year millions around the world celebrate Mother’s Day on 8th May to acknowledge what we share with our moms. You can make your mom feel special in many ways by getting her a number of gifts, but nothing says special more than flowers.Different flowers symbolize different meanings. The most popular flowers for Mother’s day are carnations, roses, lilies, tulips, peonies, and orchids. If your mom is a picture of sophistication, class, and style, then a rose bouquet is the most obvious choice. Sending a bouquet of mature blooms sends a message of thankfulness and gratitude. Here are 8 types of roses you must give to your mom to make them feel special.1. Peony RosesThese roses are like cabbage flowers and come in a number of colors. They have fuller, ruffled petals and round blooms. 2. Light Pink RosesPink is a color of gentleness and femininity. If you look up to your mom as a source of inspiration and admire her for who she is, these are perfect roses for her. 3. Bright Pink RosesA brighter shade of pink is energy and enthusiasm - just like your super mom. They are the best way to thank your mom for all she is for you. 4. Yellow RosesIf you want to send a cheerful message of thank you to your mom and tell her that she is your biggest source of happiness, you can say it with yellow roses. This also tells that your mom has a vibrant and lively personality that you adore. 5. Lavender RosesIf your mother has an enchanting personality and you want to make her feel like royalty, purple roses are the best choice. They will make your mom feel like a queen. 6. Peach RosesPeach though a subtle color, shows a feeling of celebration. This is the perfect color for Mother’s Day. 7. Red RosesFrom bright red to deeper shades, red is always a color of love and affection. This color is also for moms who are bold and beautiful. The undaunted. To show that you admire your mom for her courage and boldness, choose the red roses. 8. White RosesFor elegant and delicate moms, white roses are the best choice. White roses are also a show of love and remembrance to a mother who is no longer alive with her children.For moms who work hard and love hard, every day should be Mother’s Day. Whether your biological mom or any motherly figure who has given you love and affection, you should celebrate them.Give them special roses in a box on Mother's Day or any day to brighten her day and to express your appreciation.Shopalarose has roses that last a year!Choose your perfect color and make your mom feel special every day.
Life Lessons Loving Yourself Starts With Loving The Needy 7:00 PM We live in a world where many counselors, psychologists, and other advisers advocate for self-love. There are countless sayings that state how you need to love yourself first before you can love someone else. ‘Self-love first’ has become like a gospel truth that the majority of people have come to believe. Is there some truth in the self-love gospel? Maybe not. There can be a very thin line between self-love and selfishness. Loving the needy and giving to a charity such as Yad Ezra can help you love yourself more. Putting others first in a prudent way could be the key to more self-love and heightened self-esteem. You may be wondering, 'how does helping others make me love myself?' Here is how; Loving Yourself Starts With Loving The Needy Loving the needy gives you a sense of purpose A common denominator for people who love themselves is that they know their purpose in life. When you are clear about what you are supposed to be doing with your life, you develop self-esteem. Most people with suicidal thoughts and those who are envious of others struggle with a lack of purpose. Such people end up hating and questioning their very existence. Giving gives your life meaning. When you make a difference in the life of a needy person, you feel better about yourself, and you will, in turn, love yourself more. Draws love to your life Loving others brings more love your way because people love generous people. That said; give wisely to keep others from taking advantage of you. Human beings are social beings. We need to be around others to feel love and warmth. Rejection from people could cause you to think less of yourself. When you are surrounded by love and receive gratitude and admiration from the people you have helped, you begin to see your value. Such recognition raises your self-esteem. Build stronger social connections Everybody loves to be part of a group, to fit into a particular click. When you associate with the needy, you will make friends with them and with other people who are donating to charity. Being in the right social circle where people respect and appreciate you also makes you appreciate yourself. Feeling that you belong and that people accept you increases self-love. Do unto others what you would have them do to you If you were in a needy situation, how would you want someone else to treat you? with kindness, compassion, and empathy? Of course. Helping others shows that you value yourself because when you are in need, you would also expect others to help you. When you love others, nature will respond when you call for help in your time of need. Loving and helping the needy is an invaluable gift of love that you give yourself. When you give, you feel better about yourself. People around you will admire and respect you and will want to be around you. As a result, your self-confidence and self-esteem will increase.
Life Lessons Turning Over a New Leaf: Setting Fun & Practical Fall Goals 1:11 PM Turning Over a New Leaf: Setting Fun & Practical Fall Goals In every falling leaf, there's a hint of a new beginning.Ah, September! Breathing in that crisp air stirs up something magical in the soul, doesn't it? The world seems to collectively grab a chunky scarf, order a pumpkin spice latte, and decide, "Alright, world, let's give this another go." Beyond the allure of crunchy leaves and a new TV series lineup, fall brings a sense of rejuvenation and embracing change. And while many eagerly await the New Year to scribble down resolutions, we savvy folks are already ahead, setting our fall goals. Let's face it. Waiting until January to refresh? Honey, that's so last season. Benefits of Goal Setting for Fall 1. Natural Momentum Isn't it fascinating how the Earth knows precisely when to switch gears? As the world dons its autumnal hues, we're naturally inclined to adapt, too. The seasonal shift isn't just about nature's wardrobe change. It nudges us to prep for the winter and anticipate the year's curtain close.2. Reenergizing and Refocusing Waving goodbye to those sunny beach days and late-night summer BBQs can be bittersweet. But think of fall as the universe's gentle reminder to recalibrate. With tanned memories of summer still fresh, autumn offers the perfect backdrop to recharge our batteries and sharpen our arrows for the targets ahead. 3. Harnessing Coziness There's something undeniably inviting about the coziness autumn brings. As temperatures drop and daylight dwindles, it's almost as if our couches beckon a little louder. But instead of cozying up with hot cocoa and binge-watching shows, why not sprinkle in some indoor projects and self-betterment tasks? Embracing change doesn't always mean making a drastic and painful shift. The warmth of your home sets a serene scene for growth. 4. Holiday Headstart Wait until December to start planning; you might be caught in holiday chaos. Fall goal setting? It's like getting an exclusive VIP pass, bypassing last-minute scrambles. Get those plans on paper now, and when the festive frenzy kicks in, you'll be sipping your eggnog, smugly smiling at your proactive prowess. 5. Colorful Inspiration Who needs a motivational speaker when you've got nature putting on its most spectacular show? Embrace autumn's vibrant tapestry as a visual pep talk, pushing you to welcome transformations in your life with similar grace and splendor. Now, let's list some fun and valuable autumn goals at this most stunning time of the year! 11 Fun and Practical Goals for Fall1. Fall into Your Reading List Grab your favorite blanket, snuggle up, and get lost in the world of books. Autumn practically screams for stories that mirror its mood - enchanting mysteries or tales that tug at the heartstrings. The world outside is changing. Why not let your reading habits evolve, too? Need help to get out of the reading slump? This season provides the coziest vibe for reading. But if you need some tips, read these tips from my personal experience: How To Read More Books: 21 Ways to Escape the Reading Slump. 2. Fall Financial Check-in One of the most practical fall goals is to ensure you're all good financial-wise. Before the bells jingle and expenses skyrocket, let's get a bird's eye view of our finances. Whether reassessing savings or setting an end-of-year financial milestone, it's time for some fiscal finesse. 3. DIY Fall Décor Ah, the joy of giving your space a little autumnal facelift! Whether crafting rustic centerpieces or creating door wreaths with fallen leaves, make it part of your fall intentions to infuse a touch of DIY to your home with warmth faster than you can say "pumpkin spice." 4. Autumnal Cooking Challenges Flavors of fall are downright irresistible. So, why not set a challenge? It could be crafting the ultimate apple pie or concocting a homemade pumpkin spice latte that rivals the coffee shop's. Apron up and let the kitchen experiments begin. Here's an easy pumpkin spice latte recipe you can try for this challenge from Tiffany's Kitchen.5. Fall Fitness Fun Trade those sandy beach runs for leaf-laden trail hikes. Or if the cooling weather sends you indoors, why not join an online fitness class? The goal? Keep that heart pumping, but with an autumn twist. 6. Journaling with a Twist Autumn, with its reflective ambiance, beckons introspection. Carve out moments to pen down thoughts using fall-themed prompts or whimsical doodles. The rustling leaves outside might rust up some inner epiphanies. DOWNLOAD the Printable FREE Gratitude Affirmation Cards with Journal. 7. Autumn Clean-up Move over, spring! Autumn's in town with its version of space-refreshing magic. Imagine clearing out clutter to make room for cozy blankets and winter snugness. Think of it as prepping your winter wonderland. 8. Relationships Revamp As trees shed leaves, it may be time to clear past misunderstandings. Whether reconnecting with old pals over a latte or spending quality me-time, let's renew bonds - with others and ourselves. 9. Nature Connection Set your sights on the vibrant foliage of local orchards, or plan a delightful afternoon at pumpkin patches. If that's too ambitious, even leisurely nature walks, crunching on fallen leaves, can rekindle your bond with Mother Nature. 10. Digital Detox Weekend The digital world is vast, but fall offers sensory delights. Pledge to unplug for a weekend, letting the golden landscapes and spicy aromas replace screen time. Trust me, your notifications won't be as vibrant as the world outside. 11. Autumn Makeover It's out with the breezy and in with the snuggly! Task yourself to swap summer attire for autumn-winter vibes. Fancy a challenge? Try crafting a week's worth of dazzling outfits using 10 items. Game on. Need a new season hairstyle? The internet is a fascinating source for all things trendy.Embrace Change! And while the earth celebrates its cyclical ballet, why shouldn't we join in with our own tales of transformation and triumph? Here's to falling in love with fall, one goal at a time! 🍂 What are your autumn aspirations? Have a quirky autumn ritual or a goal that's as comforting as your favorite scarf? Share your stories and dreams in the comments below. If you have Fall Reading Goals or #SeptemberHopefuls on Instagram, don't forget to tag me @booksandblogs_lux! I'd love to see them and find reading inspirations myself.
Life Lessons This Is The Word I Choose For 2020 8:45 PM If you don't do resolutions like me, how do you gear up for the new year? It's more powerful to choose a word and let it guide you. I have proven this through the years. This 2020, the start of a new decade, I have chosen the word to define my year. A quick throwback! But before that, a quick look back at the words I chose for the past years. Last 2014, I picked the word "more" to define my year and it ultimately changed my life. I'm happy to report that it was indeed the year I did more, became more, achieved more, traveled more, read more books, had more fun. I discovered more things about myself. Words are powerful. Since then, I would choose a word to be my theme or compass. A guiding principle of how I would live that year. Giphy My 2015 was all about getting better. I did things differently last 2016. It was unorthodox. I was winning last 2017. Winning over my doubts and fears. Winning over uncertainties. Winning over my critics. Winning over that inner voice that keeps on telling me I can't. Well, I can and I did. 2018 was a spontaneous year. I am such a control freak and I overthink a lot. But last 2018, I learned to let things be. It was a year of total and complete surrender. It was a year of leaping in faith. More than anything, it was a year when my heart was overflowing with gratitude for God's faithfulness in my life. It was when I have proven yet again that God will deliver His promise. We only have to wait in faith because His timetable is different from ours. It was when I was glad that I didn't listen to what others say and calmly trusted the process. I didn't listen to the facts people threw at me. Hey, I worship a God who can do the impossible after all. Last 2019 was a year of milestones. I did a lot of firsts. Isn't it amazing that year after year life has an incredible way of surprising us, shaping us and giving us opportunities that bring us from glory to glory? And now for this year... This Is The Word I Choose For 2020: Premium Merriam-Webster dictionary defines premium as of exceptional quality or amount. Or higher priced. According to Cambridge Dictionary, premium is something extra given or an extra amount charged, a great amount of importance, of higher than usual quality or value. Why am I choosing Premium as my word for 2020? Out of mediocrity and into a premium life Let's just say that being a middle child, I grew up receiving hand-me-downs. I was conditioned to always give way and I've learned to be content of what's being given to me. I was never a demanding child. Or adult. It's good that I find joy in the simplest things. I am fine with having my needs met and I don't have excessive wants. Thus, I never envy others. The downside of being content to what is good is missing out on what is great. I know I can do more and be more but I don't see the urgency when I'm already happy in my little corner. Ah, let them clamor for attention and promotion. As long as I get paid enough to buy my basic needs and have some extra left for a little self-indulgence, I'm good. That's how I used to think. But I fell in love with traveling and I know I want more of it. I desire a premium life that will enable me to travel more and conveniently at that, thanks to my husband who made me see the difference between sleeping inside a tent and on a soft comfortable mattress. Yes, I've traveled in a shoestring budget and it was fun when done with friends. But it's a whole new different experience to spend the night in a luxurious hotel and be chauffeured around. Giphy Premium health If you don't care about your health, the planet and the life of animals, your food option seems endless. But if you want food that nourishes your body, good for the planet and does not involve killing animals, you need premium food. It takes a lot of research, reading of labels and expanding your network to find these kinds of food. That's why a lot of people prefer to buy what is easy to prepare and cheap. But if you're not careful, you'll pay for it soon enough. Why be careless now and regret it later? Have you heard of a person who got sick because he's eating fruits and vegetables? Broccoli doesn't catch a flu. Kale doesn't have foot and mouth disease. Duh. The food you eat can either nourish you or make your sick. The food you eat can be either the safest and most powerful form of medicine or the slowest form of poison. -Ann Wigmore Other things I've started doing for my health late last year which I plan to continue are stretching and meditating first thing in the morning. A healthy body starts with a healthy mind. My husband and I also goes to a weekly spa date. You can be healthy without depriving yourself of good food. There are a lot of healthy options out there. With the help of the internet especially YouTube cooking shows, what you need to know is just one click away. Giphy Peace of mind What could be a more premium gift you can give yourself than the gift of peace of mind? I've always been talking about getting rid of toxic people in your life. Don't be sorry about cutting off people who don't contribute to your well-being. I've burned bridges that lead to nowhere. Last year, I've made the mistake of checking the comment section on socials. Gosh it's like seeing a speeding bus and jumping in front of it anyway. It's bad for the mental health. I also tolerated who have been abusing working with me since I was a newbie writer and made me believe that I'm getting a just rate. These are the kinds of clients that will make you feel bad for charging them higher than usual and call you selfish or greedy. For 2020, I'm staying out of the comment section and will be hitting that 'block sender' button as often as needed. Giphy How about you? Have you chosen a word for 2020 yet? Let me know in the comments below.
