Dating 4 Tips To Rebuild Your Life After A Divorce As A Woman 8:00 AM 4 Tips To Rebuild Your Life After A Divorce As A Woman Marriage is not always rainbows and butterflies. Sometimes it has to end. It could get frustrating to live with a partner who doesn't share the same values or visions as you do. Even if you've tried to work things out, divorce at times is better for both parties.Studies show that the divorce rate in the US is 40%-50% as of this writing. If you’re a woman getting ready to end your once blissful marriage, you need to prepare yourself for this huge and stressful change.Here are four tips to rebuild your life after a divorce as a woman. This post contains affiliate links so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you. Tip #1: Find a place to live Where do you want to live after the divorce? Finding a new place isn’t the easiest and most convenient way to start a new life, but it's a necessary first step. It’s common for many women to move to an apartment as it's less expensive than buying a house. Living alone means not needing a spacious place. Before you move, here's a helpful tip:Protect yourself by getting renter’s insurance. It will help you to financially recover in case something happens in your apartment.Remember that you won’t need insurance on the property, but only for your personal belongings. Giphy Tip #2: Calculate monthly expenses How to afford life after a divorce?Take the time to plan your monthly costs. This tip will save you additional worries about your finances. How much will you pay for your health and auto insurance? What would your monthly food costs be now that you're living alone? Assessing your financial situation is an important tip for rebuilding your life after a divorce. As a woman, cut back on things you don't need, like an extra pair of shoes or that new shade of lipstick.Stick to the essentials. This is a small price to pay to have your peace back.You wouldn't want to deal with emotional wreckage from a difficult marriage and the possibility of homelessness simultaneously. GiphyTip #3: Consider dating againYou may not be interested in a relationship immediately after the divorce, but you'll be ready to date again.Enjoy the freedom and peace that comes with being single.Embrace the gift of emptiness and loneliness.They'll make you stronger. They'll make you appreciate yourself more. They'll make you realize that you deserve better.They will raise your standards. After healing, you may want to consider signing up for a dating site. Some sites and apps offer dating options for women after a divorce.Read on for tips on finding success with online dating. Writings of a Not-So-Typical WriterTip #4: Seek counseling Divorce is not a joke. You may have mental health issues as you deal with this emotional damage. If not addressed right away, this could lead to serious health problems.To help you rebuild your life after a divorce, talk to experts who can assist you through the transition. Counseling will be an additional expense for you. But if you have health insurance, it could help pay for it. You can research counseling rates and decide if this is something you can afford. Giphy As a woman, you will face many challenges, from being married to being single, as you rebuild your life.Be prepared. What is life like after a divorce for women? Not as bad as you'd think.It's better to face the music and part ways even if you still care deeply for each other. Don't let yourself suffer through a bad marriage. You and your spouse deserve to be happy.Does life get better after a divorce?It will if you follow these four helpful tips to rebuild your life after a divorce and learn to love yourself again. You're a woman. You can do anything.This article was made possible by site supporter Jenna B.
Fashion & Style How To Achieve The Hollywood Look Without Going Broke 8:00 AM No better you than the you that you are, No better time for your shine, you're a star. -Alessia Cara It's fascinating how celebrities look so flawless and polished on the red carpet. So perfect it's as though the gods and goddesses decided to join the mortals to awaken envy. Getting that glam though could rob you of your life savings. So how to achieve the Hollywood look without going broke? Find a lamp with a genie and wish for it? Find a fairy godmother? Or join reality shows that gives you a makeover? You can, but then you may have to wait forever. I've got rather doable suggestions. How To Achieve The Hollywood Look Without Going Broke Drink lots of water Why you ask? Most celebrities---and beauty and health experts say, the secret to a glowing skin is drinking water. Lots and lots of it. Water cleanses our system from toxins so it clears the skin. Water helps deliver the nutrients throughout our body. Water is a gift. Its power is underestimated and overlooked, but it's vital if you want to achieve the Hollywood look. Image: Spoon University Learn the ways Some stylists to the stars have been generous enough to share their secrets. Learn how to do your favorite celebrity's hair and makeup. Learn how to put an outfit together that will achieve a look that you want. The internet is a world of endless learning at your fingertips. Go utilize it. Image: Favim Fake it Fake it. But in a good way because nobody likes a fraud. Find a cheaper alternative. For example, if you can't get famous celeb's hairstyle, get an extension. Or a wig. You'll be surprised at how easy it is to change your looks and still look natural with hair extensions and wigs. There are Tape in Hair Extensions that will help you achieve the Hollywood look without going broke. Or create your own look that even the stars would envy. Be confident Hey, it's not really about the price tag. It's about how you carry yourself. Most importantly, don't wish and pretend that you're a Hollywood star. Remember that you are a star! You're not here on earth to suffer and settle. You're a star in your own way. You have a gift that only you can offer. No celebrity can take that away from you. Remember the lyrics from Scars to Your Beautiful by Alessia Cara: No better you than the you that you are No better life than the life we're living No better time for your shine, you're a star Oh, you're beautiful, oh, you're beautiful Image: Reaction Gif How to achieve the Hollywood look without going broke? It's easy. But how to be the star that you are? Only you can say. Shine! Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Faith To The Girl Who Always Gets Dumped 4:23 PM Show me a woman who has never had her heart broken, and I'll show you a woman who has never really lived. Unknown To the girl who always gets dumped, I know what you're thinking. That you're not pretty enough to hold his attention. Or you're not smart enough to keep him interested. Or you're not hot enough to keep him hooked. But, you're wrong. You are lovely. And you are enough. It's not your fault that he is not content. He never was and he never will be. It's not your fault that he is superficial. You are better off. It's not your fault that he couldn't see your worth. That doesn't change who you are. You deserve more than what he's giving you; his spare time, his leftover feelings, his insincere affection. If you only matter to him when he needs something from you, If he's only available when his friends aren't around, If he cares about his happiness more than your well-being... Girl, you're better off. You're better off than being used, being cheated on, being lied to and hurt in any way. You are better off alone and at peace, than with someone but carrying a heavy useless burden in your heart. No, you don't deserve his insults. No, you don't deserve his slaps, or kicks or punches. No, you don't deserve his vilification, condescension, and downplaying. No, you don't deserve to be played and cheated on. To the girl who always gets dumped, You deserve joy. You deserve affection. You deserve undivided attention when you talk. You deserve unceasing loyalty. You deserve to be honored and cherished. You deserve true love. You deserve to be treated with respect and adoration. You deserve to be treated like a princess. Because you are. Aren't you the King's daughter? You have been lied to far too many times that you may have started to believe it. And lived the way you were told to. To the girl who always gets dumped, Find yourself again. Find your beautiful, precious, love-worthy self. Take your identity back. Let go of your trashy past. It already happened. Stop holding on to it. Forget about your vampires or Dementors. Remember that you are loved and your value does not diminish despite the number of mistakes you did in the past. Remember that your past does not define your future. (Bo Sanchez) Remember that as cliche as it may sound, it's their loss and not yours. To the girl who always gets dumped, It's not your destiny to be ditched, so stop believing that's how you should be treated. You were born a victor. You were made for greatness. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Go and fall in love again. But this time, love yourself first. Give to yourself first. Most of all, forgive yourself. For it's not your fault that you loved more, you loved sincerely, and that you believed in the goodness of men, even those who weren't good to you. It's not your fault that you believe in love in a world full of doubts. That you are genuine in a world full of fakes. Stay real, be wiser, and be more careful in who you're giving your heart to. Someone out there is waiting to give you all that you deserve. The puzzle will soon be complete, and you will see what a beautiful picture you have been a part of. One day, your heart will be whole again. And on that day, it will all make perfect sense. For now, enjoy the journey. Laugh at your boo boos. Feel your pain, and then let go. Step out and see the world waiting for you to take it on. To the girl who always gets dumped, you are beautiful. You deserve to be loved. Remember that. If you like this blog post about life and love, please share the article using the social media buttons below or on the left. Thanks!
Music Man And Music: Interview With Soulful Artist Billy D. Johnson 8:00 AM Listening to Love Again will let you forget about the crazy world for a bit, breathe calmness in and worry out, feel loved...and love again. I'm always on the look out for good music. Not just music with a good beat or rhythm, but that with beautiful lyrics too. Something, I could relate to. A song that my soul sings about or makes me think in a good way. That's what soulful artist Billy D. Johnson's latest album Love Again is about. If you haven't yet, you've got to listen to it. Now. I had the privilege to get to know the man behind this amazing music. Here's what we talked about. Interview with Soulful Artist Billy D. Johnson About the music: How long have you been writing music and what made you start? I started playing music when I was 13 years old. I probably didn't start writing my own music until I was around 16 or 17 though. I was first inspired to play because of my dad. Which instruments do you play? I mostly play the acoustic guitar, but I also play electric guitar, bass, piano, mandolin, and a little bit on the dulcimer. Impressive! What else do you like to do during past time? Recently, I've started exercising, but music is my main hobby. What is your first (or favorite, if you can't remember the first) memory of music? I think my favorite memory would have to be recently when I was asked to play a song I had written over 10 years ago in church called "Fingerprints". Is your family musical? Other than my dad, not really. Who is your biggest influence in music? My dad would have to be my biggest musical influence. Who is one famous music artist---dead or alive, that you would want to meet? I'd have to say Anna Kendrick. She sings and she's a cutie! Do you see music as something you can turn into a full time career, or just a hobby you can earn from on the side? I've always looked at it as just a hobby but the older I get, the more I'm leaning towards making a full time career out of it. About the man - Billy D. Johnson: How do you balance your life between music, personal life and your profession? It kind of all blends together. I roll out of bed and usually grab a flavored bottle of water and head straight to the studio. I need to learn to have more fun! What do you honestly tell yourself when you look in the mirror? I think when I look at myself in the mirror, besides thinking that I need to shave more often, I think that God has given me a great gift. I know that I've made it this far because of God and I'm thankful for all that he's done for me. What is your ultimate dream in life? That thing you always pray/hope for. Well, about 3 years ago I would've told you I wanted to get signed by a major record label. Now, I think I'd just rather someone famous record my songs so that I wouldn't have to travel as much, because ultimately, I want to get married and have kids one day. I'm 32 so it seems like I'm running out of time, but I'm still hopeful that there's someone out there looking for a goofball like me. I know in my heart that God has someone for me. I've just gotta wait until the timing is right to find her. Favorite Life Quote: "Love one another as I have loved you." - Jesus Christ About the album - Love Again: Tell us more about your new album. My new album is called "Love Again". I started just for fun and before I knew it, I had enough songs to make an album. This album is all about Love. To whom do you dedicate this album? I think I'd have to dedicate my album to my future wife. The song "Find You" is about just that (finding the one). Where can people catch you and where can they buy your music? I'm not currently gigging anywhere at the moment, but my music can be found on iTunes, Google Play, and Spotify by searching "Billy D. Johnson" or by going to my website www.billydjohnson.com. What can we expect more from your music in the coming years? Any future plans you'd like to share? The only real plan I have is for this year. I hope to release a Praise and Worship album featuring some female guests. I look forward to that album. As for now, I'll be chilling with Love Again. GOOD NEWS! Billy is generous enough to give you 20% off when you purchase his album using promo code lux20 upon your check out. Valid until 11:59 pm on 04/15/2017 only. Awesome deal!!! If you're looking for a soothing music to go with your morning coffee or afternoon tea or even evening wine, Love Again is the perfect choice. If you want to stay in the bathtub or enjoy a hot shower after a long day, Love Again could help wash away the day's stress. If you're going out for a relaxing walk---alone or with your dog, Love Again will set your pace just right. If you're on the road, either for a leisurely drive, or stuck in traffic, Billy's soothing voice in Love Again is the best company to help ease your boredom or take your mind off the stress that traffic brings. I say, if you can start your day with it, work with it during the day, and even end your day still listening to it, isn't that the perfect album to listen to? With all the hullabaloo going on around today, it's so nice to tune into something that can drown the noise and remind you that what matters most in this life is love. Listening to Love Again will let you forget about the crazy world for a bit, breathe calmness in and worry out, feel loved and love again. Follow Billy D. Johnson on Facebook and YouTube to get the latest update. Buy his music now and listen on Spotify, Soundcloud and iTunes. (photo credit) Love Again album cover
Beauty 5 Simple Tips For Younger Looking Skin 8:00 AM 5 Simple Tips For Younger Looking Skin Are you noticing white hair, age spots, wrinkles, or fine lines around your face?Relax. Aging is inevitable, so fighting it is futile. But that doesn't mean you should stop caring about your health and look.You can still look younger than your age and feel better about yourself.Here are five simple tips to achieve younger-looking skin and age gracefully. 1. Get help from science. Wrinkles appear because your skin elasticity declines over time.Millions of dollars have been spent on scientific research to help you get younger-looking skin.Find a reputable brand and check out their anti-aging skincare product line. Cosmetic companies like Dermaclara have developed various anti-aging products that can improve your skin’s imperfections, ranging from wrinkles to stretch marks. Their Advanced Silicone Fusion Treatment reduces the appearance of wrinkles. It’s easy to apply and make it part of your daily skincare routine.Take supplements that can aid in slowing down the aging process and help prevent wrinkles. Read customer testimonials online, like Nucific reviews, and decide which anti-aging product would work best for you. 2. Avoid excessive sun exposure. Long periods of exposure to direct sunlight can cause wrinkles.It may be time to give up sunbathing.Stop spending long hours gardening or doing outdoor activities when the sun is at its harshest.Using sunscreen with an SPF of at least 30 is recommended by most dermatologists, as it blocks 97% of the sun's UVB rays.Apply sunscreen a half-hour before going outdoors and reapply after two hours. 3. Stop smoking. Cigarette smoking causes wrinkles because it reduces the blood supply to the skin and depletes oxygen levels.Cannabis smoking may also cause wrinkles. This surprises many people because cannabis is sometimes used in beauty products. While cannabis-infused creams have an anti-aging effect, smoking can have the opposite effect.Understanding the Effects of Cannabis on Your Skin on the Merry Jane website explains: “Collagen, a structural protein responsible for your skin’s health, must be developed to keep your skin looking youthful. THC smoke blocks the development of these proteins, leading to your skin aging more quickly.” 4. Follow a healthy lifestyle. Four parts of your lifestyle that greatly affect the skin are sleep, hydration, diet, and exercise. Get enough sleep.Sleep provides numerous benefits, including skin improvement. When you don’t get enough sleep, you’ll have too much cortisol, the stress hormone, which damages skin cells. If you get enough sleep, your body will produce more human growth hormone (HGH), and your skin will be more elastic and less prone to wrinkling. Drink more water.Water hydrates your skin and makes it more elastic. Once cells lose their elasticity, wrinkles start to surface.Drink water to look younger. That's easy enough to remember. Eat veggies.The best foods to eat for younger-looking skin are vegetables, fruits, nuts, and seeds. They are packed with antioxidants that can counter the effects of aging. Exercise more. Exercise reduces the stress hormone cortisol. Stress can make you frown, lose sleep, and cause wrinkles.When you exercise, your body sweats and releases toxins.Working out also improves and regulates blood and endorphin circulation. All these benefits of exercise have a direct effect on skin health. 5. Proper skincare routine. Are you overdoing skin cleansing? While there are many steps to a good skincare routine, the biggest mistake is in washing the face. Overwashing can strip your skin of natural oils that keep the skin moist and elastic. Instead of using harsh soaps, use a cleanser. After washing your face, use a toner and apply a moisturizer. Check out Dr. Anthony Youn's recommended morning skincare routine. He's a holistic plastic surgeon who gives amazing health tips.This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you.Why You Need These Tips for Younger-Looking SkinWhy do we put importance on our skin, especially when our concern is about aging?Because it is most visible on the largest organ of our body - our skin. People can immediately see and predict your age by looking at the lines on your face as well as on your neck and hands. Slow down the effect of aging on your appearance. Get younger-looking, glowing skin by following these five simple tips. Author: Jenna BEdited by: About Life and Love
For Moms Top Tips For Getting Your Child To Enjoy Bath Time 8:00 PM Some kids take to bath time like little fishes in water. Some kids just seem to hate it. When you have to deal with the latter, it can make baths a frustrating chore for everyone. If you are trying to get your little one to enjoy the bath a little more, it may be a simple fix like choosing a better baby wash or changing the time you have baths. Try some of our tips for a more peaceful bath time. Top Tips For Getting Your Child To Enjoy Bath Time Lots of Toys One of the best ways to get kids distracted from all the washing and start loving some time in the water is to fill up the tub with bath toys. Add some new ones to keep it interesting if they are getting bored. The tub is also a great place for temporary art too. Crayons and paint that are designed for tub use, and you can let your child let out their inner artist. Then just rinse it all away for mess-free fun. Another way to bring more toys into tub time is to allow your child to bring a favorite (waterproof plastic) doll and let them wash its hair too. Change the Time Kids aren't always in the mood for baths at your usual time, so you may find a more cheerful participant if you go with morning baths instead of evening ones (or vice versa). It may seem a little trivial but it can make all the difference. Or even just letting your kids make the decision on this can offer a little control to the activity. Try a Bath Visor Most kids hate bath time because they don't enjoy getting their hair washed. One of the best approaches is to get a "bath visor". These are plastic or rubber hats that fit around the forehead sort of like a summer sun visor. As long as they fit relatively snugly, they keep all the water and shampoo out of the face and eyes. Have Fewer Baths This one may not seem reasonable to parents who subscribe to the bath-every-day approach. But current medical thinking suggests that kids really don't need to be washed that often. If a bath ceases to be a daily "chore", a lot of kids will be less upset by it. Play Fun Music A little music in the background can be a great distraction during bath time. Just keep the player away from the water, just in case there is a lot of splashing going on. Get your kid singing along and they'll lose track of time and forget they're getting their hair washed at all. Change Your Products Maybe the shampoo stings too much if it get in their eyes, or they just don't like the smell of the soap you use. Find a fun and kid-friendly line of products and let your child pick the scents they like best. You can't go wrong with lots of bubbles or anything that colors the water while you're washing. And frankly, some children simply don't enjoy baths and water, and you may simply have to work around that. Keep them short, or even switch to showers for older kids. That may be more to their liking. This article was submitted by site supporter and may contain affiliate links. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Home How To Pack Heavy And Fragile Items Without Professional Assistance 12:02 AM Dealing with heavy items while organizing long-distance move Heavy and large items are hard to pack and move as often they can get damaged or broken during relocation and, especially, long-distance move. Packing objects can sometimes be very difficult without professional assistance as you don’t have all the required equipment to perform reassembling. Besides, there are certain risks, the main one is for own health as packing and lifting the heavy objects is not the easiest thing to do and one must have an experience, or, at least, strong muscles. Moreover, if handling everything by yourself it is important to find out more about special packing materials, appropriate for bulky stuff. Also, don’t forget about arranging transportation along with loading, unloading and unpacking service. Professionals from Costa Mesa moving company at movers.best know all about packing and moving heavy items without any risks. Addressing them is the best option to save your health and to your time. In this case risks are much smaller as everything is handled by experienced team. When getting your stuff ready for packing it is important to do everything properly as every item requires own materials and method of handling. Large and heavy items are also can be easily damaged or broken. Before starting make sure you have all the needed materials, which include following: sound boxes of various sizes, packing paper, peanuts and tape, bubble wrap, markers for labeling. Once you get all these materials, you can start sorting your books, electronics, and kitchen appliances for packing. Tips for handling heavy items Appropriate packing materials are extremely important as they will save prevent your stuff from breaking. Before starting packing find out about wrapping technics and overall handling of large and heavy items. Here we will provide essential tips for managing your belongings in most effective way. 1. Use only sound cartons so they could hold the weight. Wrap everything well and if the item is very heavy use thicker layer of packing materials and don’t forget taping it. 2. If there is an empty place inside the box, fill it with packing peanuts or pieces of cardboard. Newspapers or packing paper won’t provide this level of protection as they will be compressed. Packet item should be stable inside, so while transportation it won’t be shifting inside the box. 3. Try not to fill boxes completely in order not to make them very heavy and impossible to lift. 4. Smaller boxes can be placed together into bigger one. Don’t forget to label them. 5. Boxes with fragile items should have marks as “this side up” in order to avoid damaging. 6. Heavy item should be placed in the center of the box and cushioning material around it. Weight should be distributed evenly. Be careful while packing heavy and fragile items and don’t forget to get insurance. This article may contain affiliate links. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
