Dating 5 Common Worries Of A Single Woman & What To Do About Them 2:35 AM 5 Common Worries Of A Single Woman & What To Do About Them Is being single worth losing sleep over? It’s 2 AM. The world is quiet and sleeping. But here you are. Lying awake in bed wondering if you’d ever find The One. You wish you could fast forward and skip to the good part.But you can’t.You’re single AF. Uncertainties start to overwhelm you. Self-doubt begins to dampen your spirit.The future looks scary...mainly because you feel alone.You try to shake off that negative feeling and ask, “How do I stop worrying about being single?”Don’t fret. For every anxiety, there is a remedy.What do single women worry about the most?Here are five common worries of a single woman and what to do about them. Worry #1: All my friends are getting married or pregnant!When you see your peers celebrating milestones and feel like you’re stuck, it’s easy to feel insecure.You start questioning what’s next for you.When am I going to meet my spouse? Will I ever be able to start my own family?You don’t want to feel left behind.People will be pressuring you to settle down.Some of them are well-meaning. But it does feel intrusive and disrespectful sometimes.So what to do when you start to worry about your friends moving forward and ahead of you? Remedy:It pays to be patient. There’s nothing wrong with taking your time. How you spend your lifetime is at stake here, so don’t jump into hasty decisions and settle for just anyone.Don’t sabotage your future just because you’re lonely at present.Strip away envy.Be genuinely happy for your friends’ achievements and breakthroughs.Celebrate your victories too. You may not have found The One yet, but the freedom of being single is priceless. Seize every moment. Unlike you, your friends may enjoy their time with their new baby but cannot sleep as much as they want. You can go to bed and wake up at any time.You have everything in your hands to experience life as you please.No commitments. No hassles.Embrace your alone time.Because one day, when you least expect it, it will all be over.Gratitude is the best antidote for envy. Be thankful for what you have and for where you are. Remember when you used to pray for those things? And you have no idea how many people wish they could trade places with you. Giphy Worry #2: My biological clock is ticking! Age affects the fertility of men and women.Studies show that as women age, the chances of conceiving drop.Women are born with all the eggs they will ever have, and as they get older, the eggs get fewer.A woman’s fertility starts to reduce in her early 30s. By age 40, only 1 in 10 women will get pregnant per menstrual cycle. Remedy:Freeze your eggs.Believe in miracles.Consider adoption.If you really want to be a biological mother, your age may be another source of worry if you’re still single.Thanks to modern technology, though, there are ways to increase your chances of having a baby and a healthy one even when you’re 35 and up. Some women opt for other fertility options like IVF or donor eggs.If you can afford it, you can freeze your eggs until you’re ready to have a baby.Remember the stories of Sara and Elizabeth in the Bible? Some people don’t believe in miracles or God, but that’s their call. If God can make Sara a mother at the age of 90 and Elizabeth was 88 when he gave birth to John...Don’t you think you also have the chance to get pregnant even when you’re beyond the ideal age? Hopefully, not as old as these legendary women in the Bible, of course.Nothing’s impossible with a God who can turn water into wine and raise the dead.Believe that you are just as highly favored as the people in the Bible.Or maybe the child for you is already out there, from another family. Waiting for a parent who can give them a better life. GfycatWorry #3: When is Prince Charming going to rescue me? The problem here is all in the head.Maybe because Disney conditioned us to believe that Prince Charming is the only way to get us to the life we want.So when it takes too long for your knight in shining armor to come and get you, you wonder if he’ll arrive.Or if there’s something wrong with you because why wouldn’t anyone want to rescue a fair lady like yourself?Remedy:Get rid of your Cinderella complex. You’ll get disappointed if you depend on others to give you what you need. Waiting for The One will be easier if your love tank is full. Then, it will be an exciting adventure.Remember: You’re not a damsel in distress who needs saving. You’re capable enough to take care of yourself. Stop waiting for love, marriage, and Prince Charming to come along and rescue you, and start designing a life you don’t wish to be rescued from. - Mandy Hale Gfycat Worry #4: I’m not desirable enough. Am I not pretty?Am I too short? Or too tall?Am I not smart enough?Don’t I have the right personality?Am I not dating, girlfriend, or wife material?What is wrong with me? Remedy: Carry yourself with grace.Work on finding your self-worth.Believe that you are enough. Because you really are.Be careful how you talk to yourself because you listen (Lisa M Hayes).God doesn’t create rejects. Just because the glossy pages of beauty magazines tell you you’re not the standard of beauty doesn’t mean they’re right. Who are they to say? They’re just as imperfect as you are.Those women are loaded with heavy makeup and are Photoshopped.Remember that you are beautiful and worthy just the way you are.Nothing is more beautiful and irresistible than confidence. GiphyWorry #5: I’ll end up alone and miserable!Maybe you’ve met old single women who are grumpy and hateful.Maybe you’ve been watching too many movies where they portray women beyond their marrying age as desperate and hostile characters.Or maybe you’ve been putting your happiness in other people’s hands.That’s why you’re worried that you’ll never find joy if you don’t find a partner.Remedy:Choose to be happy! You are as happy and as lonely as you decide to be. Happiness cannot and will never be found in another person or from an outside source. Find the pros of being alone. Being alone is not tantamount to being miserable. You can be in a relationship and still be discontented and lonely. Two happy individuals make a happy relationship. If you’re unhappy in your own company, don’t expect others to be. Giphy Summary: Common Worries and Remedies for Single WomenThe next time worries about being single rear their ugly heads, you know what to do.Kick envy with gratitude.Believe you are favored.Design a life you don’t need rescuing from.Know your worth.Choose to be happy. Never ever compare your story with others, especially those in the movies. Your story is unique. Don’t insult your Maker. It’s not hard to be single. There are many perks to being alone.You’re free. You have a blank canvas.It’s actually exciting if you think about it.Knowing you have many options is like walking at a buffet table.Don’t listen to those making you feel like an outcast because you’re not in a relationship.You’re not!And they don’t hold your future. Stop overthinking and start believing.Stop betting against yourself and start being your own cheerleader.You’re exactly where you should be. But no, you won’t be stuck there forever. Unless you want to. Are you single? What worries you, and what do you do about them?
Dating Guide To Flowers And Their Meanings 12:00 AM Isn't it more fun when you receive flowers, and you know there's a meaning behind them? How intriguing that each flower represents different things. It's thoughtful and will undoubtedly help you score points with your partner and spice up your relationship. Here's a flower meanings list for your guide the next time you buy your partner some blooms. Flowers And Their Meanings 1. Carnations Light red carnations - admiration Dark red carnations - more profound sentiments of love and affection White carnations - purity and luck Pink carnations - gratitude 2. Daisies Daisies - innocence, purity, beauty 3. Iris Yellow iris - passion 4. Orchids Orchids - wealth, love, rare and delicate beauty 5. Lilies Peruvian lilies/Alstroemeria - friendship and devotion 6. Roses Red roses - love and romance Pink roses - elegance, expression of admiration and appreciation White roses - innocence, purity, honor, reverence Orange roses - desire, enthusiasm, fashion, excitement, fervent romance Lavender roses - enchantment, love at first sight 7. Stargazers Pink stargazers - prosperity and abundance White stargazer - purity and sympathy 8. Sunflowers Sunflowers - adoration, longevity, loyalty, cheerfulness 9. Tulips Tulips - generally mean perfect love Red tulips - true love Purple tulips - royalty Yellow tulips - hopeless love, cheerfulness, sunshine Variegated tulips - beautiful eyes 10. Calla lily Calla lily - magnificent beauty, chastity, virtue, purity It doesn't hurt to be extra sweet and thoughtful. It's good to go the extra mile to strengthen your relationship or make someone feel special. No need to wait for a special occasion. Say it with flowers. What flowers are you planning to give? Do you know the meaning behind them? Source: proflowers
Guest Blogger Ultimate 30 While In Your 30’s Checklist 8:00 AM Just because you’re grown up and then some doesn’t mean settling into the doldrums of predictability. Surprise people. Surprise yourself. -Victoria Moran If you’re freaking out because it’s as though you’re just aging but you’ve accomplished nothing, don’t worry. You’re not alone. Guest blogger Ifeoma of Purposeful and Meaningful will show you how to age or more appropriately, how to handle your big 3-0 gracefully: Turning 30 or in your 30’s and have read a lot of ‘before 30 bucket list’? How does that feel? Mixed emotions? Interesting that it means a lot to us approaching 30 or in our 30’s. If you’re like me, you may have written a list you wish to accomplish before you reach this milestone. Pressure builds when friends and family remind you of the things in your life that aren’t working or unaccomplished. I don’t like that pressure. Do you? Don’t let others insist their dreams on you. Relax. Write your own checklist. Give yourself grace if they don’t go as planned. Here’s mine: Ultimate 30 While In Your 30’s Checklist Learn something new often. Make it count. Be serious about building your financial life. Move to somewhere new especially when you’ve been there too long. New places come with fresh ideas and new friends. Live simpler. Less whining, more grace. Get a better job or change careers if you’re not happy anymore. Get over fear, and venture into a new career. Redesign your home. Find new home design inspirations. Up your game. Dress better, speak better. Carriage is important to boost self-confidence. Books are worthy investments. Invest in them. Visit new places; try their dishes. You never can tell what goodies abound. Ask your friends to describe you in “One Word”. True friends would tell you who you are even if you don’t like to hear the truth. Never give up on your dreams and passion. Miracles still happen. Write your life history to see how God has been faithful. It’s a game-changer. Married? Go on vacation alone. Re-examine your life. Are you lost caring for everyone else but yourself? If there’s anything worth committing to, it’s your spiritual life. It’s the foundation for every area of your life. Be intentional. Invest time growing your relationships. Take time each week to appreciate nature. Write an appreciation list, a gratitude journal, or your thankful list with people who’ve been there for you. Write a forgiveness list; all the people your heart needs to release including yourself and your past. Write a help list. Extend kindness to someone on your list. Make a friendship list. Old friends are great, new friends are fun but you need a blend of both. Write positive notes each week to glean your thoughts to focus. Attitude matters. Laugh more, smile more, pray more, and believe more. Be joyful. Social media may be stifling your real-life connections. Do a recheck. Health is important. Take it very seriously. Join a gym, dance club, and take regular walks. Join positive online communities. Sign up with my sweet friend Lux on About life And Love and come chat with me on Purposeful and Meaningful. Volunteer. Get involved in community projects. Make goals. Plan better. Find a mentor. Mentor someone. Write a living list and avoid a bucket list that works you up. I’m giving you this as a compliment. See and use mine as a template, and fill in yours! Download Living List. Excellent, right? Now your turn...what’s on your ultimate 30 while in your 30's list? What advice can you share? About the author: Ifeoma Samuel is happily married to her sweetheart Obiora Samuel. She is an author, a blogger, and a Speaker at various women conferences in South Africa. She uses her writings to share everyday life stories about God's immense love. She is the author of My 30 Days Journey To a Fulfilled Life. Visit her blog Purposeful And Meaningful and follow her on Pinterest | Google+ | Facebook
For Moms 5 Cute Valentine's Day DIY Gift Ideas For The Whole Family 10:57 PM 5 Cute Valentine's Day DIY Gift Ideas For The Whole Family Most people think of Valentine's Day as a time to get romantic with their spouse. But the truth is, there is just as much fun for the kids as for the adults. So if you're a creative mom, why not get your kids in on some artsy and cute Valentine's Day DIY gift ideas for the whole family?Not only will these make for sweet gifts for your most cherished loved ones, but you'll be grateful for the memories you make as you get creative with your kids. 1. DIY Family Fun Book Do a family take on this "book of date" Valentine's Day DIY gift idea by compiling a list of fun family day activities you would like to do together. Buy construction paper and cut them into equal sizes. Decorate them with family idea vouchers such as: Going on a picnic Making a blanket fort in the living room before an unforgettable movie night Family board/video game night Go to the zoo Finish off your booklet by punching holes through the "coupons" and tying them together with string or stapling them together. 2. Chalkboard FramesThis cute Valentine's Day DIY gift idea involves a trip to the craft store. Buy an ornate picture frame. It can be as big or small as you like. Next, buy some chalkboard paint and a paintbrush. Carefully remove the glass from the frame and set it over scrap newspaper. Paint the glass with chalkboard paint. Once dry, put your glass back into the frame and write a cute message for your sweetheart or the kids. Take inspiration from this Picture Frame Style Chalkboard.3. DIY Valentine's Slime For this cute - and slimy - Valentine's gift idea for her, pick the glitter color of your choice, confetti hearts, liquid starch, and glitter glue. Here's how to make a DIY Valentine's Slime:Pour two cups of the glue into a mixing bowl and add in any extra glitter you like. Optional: Throw in some aromatic essential oils.Add two cups of liquid starch until you have reached your desired, slime-like consistency. Package this in an old glass candle jar or clear plastic container for a gooey, messy, fun DIY gift! 4. DIY Valentine's Treats Sometimes the best present you can give someone is something you make in your kitchen. Find your favorite sugar cookie or brownie recipe and have your kids help you gather and measure the ingredients. If you're making sugar cookies, roll out the dough and let your little ones go crazy with the heart-shaped cookie cutters. Supervise them closely and ensure it's not too hot before they handle it. You can make this an extra-special baking treat for the kids by dipping your cookies into melted chocolate and then dunking them into a separate bowl of sprinkles for a truly gourmet dessert. Here's a simple DIY Valentine's Day cupcake recipe from Ollie. 5. Reasons I Love You Envelopes Studies show that the couples who have the highest rate of marital satisfaction are those who regularly express gratitude for one another. Make this your reality by making this romantic DIY Valentine's gift idea for him. Start with 10 envelopes and write different titles on each of them. For example, "I love you because you can always make me laugh"Take out some fancy paper and write your sweetheart a letter about why you love them. Share a cute or funny memory together. Write out 10 different letters and get the kids in on it. Some ideas to write on this cute Valentine's Day DIY gift: I love you because... You are a great dad! I love you because... You sweep me off my feet. I love you because... You are weird, just like me.I love you because... You're my best friend. Valentine's Day DIY Gift Ideas for the Whole Family Do-It-Yourself gifts are a fantastic choice for this love-filled day because they come directly from the heart. Not only are they thoughtful, but the recipient of your gesture will love knowing that you put time and energy into making your cute Valentine's Day DIY gift. Author: Rachael Pace is a relationship expert with years of experience training and helping couples. She has helped countless individuals and organizations worldwide, offering effective and efficient solutions for healthy and successful relationships. In addition, she is a featured writer for Marriage.com, a reliable resource for supporting healthy, happy marriages. This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you.Hero image
Lux Thinking Aloud First Blogging Award: Liebster Award 12:53 PM First blogging award: Liebster Award I got my first blogging award--- the Liebster Award. According to Gigi The Snooper, the blogger who was kind enough to nominate and award me with Liebster Award: Liebster comes from the German language, and it means "beloved". This award exists only on the internet, and is given to bloggers by other bloggers and it follows similar principles as a chain letter, in the sense that it should be passed forward to a certain number of people. Before I proceed with the rules to officially receive Liebster Award, I'd like to express my gratitude. Thank you for wasting a minute or two with me. For reading my thoughts, for allowing me to share my stories with you, and for being generous and respectful with the comments you leave. Thank you also to those who send me sweet messages thanking me for the encouragement they receive by just reading my posts. Special thanks to those who trust me enough to share their stories with me and even ask for my advice. I'm also in the stage of figuring out life so knowing you trust me enough to ask for my opinion is an honor. And to finally make it official, here are the things required to receive the Liebster Award: 1. Thank the person who nominated you, and post a link to their blog on your blog. My favorite online snooper Gigi The Snooper, thanks so much for considering me worthy of the Liebster award. I love snooping around your page. You post interesting facts I don't usually see on the web. I especially love the gory, creepy, crazy story of the countess who bathes in and drinks blood. Haha. Keep snooping around! 2. Display the award on your blog. Google images 3. Answer 11 questions about yourself, which will be provided to you by the person who nominated you. Why did you start blogging? Has it turned out to be what you expected? I started my blog for 2 reasons: (1) I think more and talk less. My thoughts are overflowing I have to write some down. (2) And I use it as a portfolio for online jobs. It turned out to be more than I expected. When I started receiving emails and comments about how much people appreciate what I write, and how it affected them or made them feel better, I realized that blogging is not just for my entertainment and profit anymore. It became my purpose. Now I write with the goal of informing, entertaining and inspiring others. Before I write, I consider those who will be reading; will it help them, enlighten them, make them feel good about themselves, or provoke their thoughts? Is this what God wants to tell them? I've got readers who are non believers and I also try to consider their views whenever I write. What's one piece of advice you'd give your younger self? Oh, I have a looot. I wrote them on 21 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger and Unsolicited Advice To The Struggling 20-Something. If I must pick one, it's to believe in myself and ignore the critics. If you could live one day over again, what day would it be? I couldn't choose a day, but if I were to choose a phase, it would be when my brother was just a toddler. I especially miss those times when I have to bathe him myself, when we share stories over Koko Krunch, when he would ask me to read him bedtime stories, when he would sit on my lap and we would watch his favorite cartoons together. What is the story behind your blog name? I'm planning to change my blog name soon. I created it when I was at a rather vulnerable stage so it sounds cheesy. Now that I'm back to my normal happy self, I'm thinking of a better name, something more specific. If you could only eat one type of food for the rest of your life, what would it be? Fruits! I love Philippine mango so much I can eat it everyday. What’s your greatest fear? I fear for the safety of my loved ones. When was the last time you had a good belly laugh? Just a while ago. ;) What’s your favorite quote? All things work together for good to them who love the Lord.---Romans 8:28 What has been your biggest challenge? Taking the high road and being the better person. Some people are born to test your patience. If you were going to live on a deserted island, what three things could you not live without? Things: Clean water, books, comforter. If you could learn to do anything, what would it be? To forgive quickly like Jesus. 4. Provide 11 random facts about yourself. I'm an introvert. I believe I'm Italian in my past life judging by my liking for Italian food especially pizza and pasta. I'm a frustrated globe trotter. I tsunduko like all other bibliophiles. More than just a fan, I love Zac Efron. I'm a Potterhead and forever will be. I love organic products. I want to try scuba diving but I'm scared of the open water. I'm a perpetual dreamer. I'm a sucker for chick flicks. Pet peeves: People who can dish it out but can't take it. 5. Nominate 5 blogs that you feel deserve the award, who have less than 1000 followers: The Beautiful Eagle Welcome To My Life Somewhere-In-Between Life Out Loud Chelsea Write 6. Create a new list of questions for the blogger to answer. What drives you? What's your mantra? What is your belief or principle? What do you value the most in your life? Which TV series are/were you addicted with? The song that sums up your life. What's your greatest regret? Your favorite movie of all time. Your best childhood memory. Your dream vacation destination. If you can change one thing in the world, what will it be? 7. Rules to follow to officially accept the Liebster Award. Thank the person who nominated you, and post a link to their blog on your blog. Display the award on your blog — by including it in your post and/or displaying it using a “widget” or a “gadget”. Answer 11 questions about yourself, which will be provided to you by the person who nominated you. Provide 11 random facts about yourself. Nominate 5 – 11 blogs that you feel deserve the award, who have a less than 1000 followers. (Note that you can always ask the blog owner this since not all blogs display a widget that lets the readers know this information!) Create a new list of questions for the blogger to answer. There you go. Now, I'm a Liebster Award recipient. 2014 has been an enjoyable year, full of surpirses. This is one of them. My heart is bursting with gratitude. See also: Liebster Award Recipient---Again! Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Lux Thinking Aloud Catch Up 9:22 PM Catch Up I was going to watch Friends again after my work but my former office mates started a video conferencing. So, we had a catch up session for a few minutes. We just checked on each other, talked about life in this time of c oronavirus, memories we share and and our work when we were still in the same company. It gave me a sense of normalcy. Talking with people I've known before this pandemic about our lives pre-c oronavirus helped my sanity somehow. Gratitude list Catching up with friends God's steadfast love Entertaining videos on YouTube This imperfect but blessed life By the way, here's the Oratio Emparata you can pray for C OVID-19: Oratio Emparata God our Father, we come to you in our need to ask your protection against the C OVID 19 that has disturbed and even claimed lives. We pray that you guide the people tasked to find cures for this disease and to stem its transmission. Protect the medical experts that they may minister to the sick with competence and compassion. We pray for those afflicted. May they be restored to health soon. Protect those who care for them. Grant eternal rest to those who have died. Give us the grace in this trying time to work for the good of all and to help those in need. We implore you to stop the spread of this virus and to save us from our fears. Grant all these through our Lord Jesus Christ your Son who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen. We fly to Your protection, oh Holy Mother of God. Do not despise our petition in our necessities, but deliver us always from all dangers, Oh, glorious and blessed Virgin. Amen. Our Lady, health of the sick, pray for us. St. Raphael the Archangel, pray for us. St. Roch, pray for us. St. Lorenzo Ruiz, pray for us St. Pedro Calungsod, pray for us. Your turn When was the last time you called someone? What do you always pray for?
Holiday The Essence Of Christmas Cards 8:18 PM The essence of Christmas is its relevance. It celebratesthe beginning of the world's greatest love story ever told.Is it Christmas yet? Definitely not. But every day could be Christmas Day. Because the essence of Christmas is its relevance.So, even if it's March or July we can celebrate and talk about Christmas.Wherever you are in the world, Christmas is a holiday to look forward to. Does taking a little effort to show care and love during this time matter to you? Then consider Christmas cards by Mixbook.Whether you're giving Christmas cards to family members or business clients, it sends a vital message and sentiment: they are important to you!A little fun fact: Sir Henry Cole introduced this tradition in 1843. These Christmas cards are commercially designed and bought for this special occasion. Sending Christmas cards is the best time for people to highlight the holiday's narrative, which ideally focuses on the nativity of Jesus Christ. The cards also present a chance for us to connect with others. The Essence of Christmas CardsA brief history of Christmas cards We can trace the start of this tradition to England. In 1843, Sir Henry Cole thought that sending out Christmas cards to his friends will help in cooling their anxieties. It was an idea that initially aimed at responding to the letters he had earlier received from friends. During this time, he designed a card that showcased a family in celebration. Flanking the image of this family were other people helping the poor. That was the beginning of the first Christmas card. History Today3 Reasons Why Sending Christmas Cards is essential Did you know that there are various valuable reasons for you to send Christmas cards to your family and clients? This may convince you to consider getting them next time. Here are 3 reasons: 1. A suitable way of reminding clients who you are Christmas cards can represent your brand. With a bespoke logo highlighted, the client will readily associate you with your products or services. This reminder will encourage repeat business in the long run. Besides, it will show how concerned you are about them. If you are sending the card to family, it will be a reminder that you value and care for them. 2. The personal appeal A personal touch is vital in improving your relationship with both family members and business clients. Handwritten cards show that you took the time and effort to reach out to someone, showing you're thinking about them. With this, you will confidently express your gratitude and highlight care at all times. 3. Low-key marketing Did you know that this approach is a subtle yet affordable marketing approach? You may no longer need to send marketing flyers to your clients throughout the year. A single Christmas card will be enough to convince them to return for more business. Remember to send out a Christmas card. Visit Mixbook for more information about how you can conveniently upload photos to create stunning custom Christmas cards. Their tools and resources will enable you to create professional cards with a touch of a personal feel.
Life Lessons Leave Your Baggage And Move On 12:17 AM If you want to move on, you need to learn to let go. -Bo Sanchez Originally written for and published on The Praying Woman Sins. Hurts. Problems. Past Mistakes. Criticisms. Limitations. Regrets. What is your baggage? Whatever it is, leave your baggage and move one. Leave Your Baggage And Move On Sins. Let go of sins. In our weakness, in our frailty we commit sin. We sometimes take the easy way out and compromise our values. After sinning, instead of repenting we choose to live in the shadow of our sins. Instead of facing the consequences, we let it define us. We sin and we feel like we're done. Like there's no more hope for us. Good news! Even the worst sinner can be has been forgiven. All we need is to accept the mercy from the Ultimate Forgiver, so we can forgive ourselves and move on. Let go of the baggage of sin and move one. Hurts. People will always, always hurt us no matter how much we try to live in peace with them. It's not about us, it's about them. Hurting people hurt people. People who are unkind to you have issues with themselves and not with you. You may have been abandoned by your parents. Your friend might have said something that hurt you in the past. Someone may have broken your heart. Yesterday, a week ago, a month ago, maybe a couple of years or a decade ago...it doesn't matter. You feel hurt and it's normal. It's normal because you care. It's normal because you're an emotional being. That abandonment, that betrayal, that pain hurt but it's not your end. It may feel that way, but it's NOT. Let go of the hurt. Leave your pain and move on. Problems. As long as you're alive, you will encounter problems. Problems may vary from minor ones---what to have for breakfast, to major ones---how to get out of your debts. Your problems will not be around forever. Behind every problem is a solution. Behind every trial is your triumph waiting. Leave your problems and move on. Past Mistakes. If you are alive today, it means you've made mistakes in the past. Nobody's perfect. Everybody fails. It is not the falling that will define you, but your getting up after the fall. Let go of your past mistakes and move on. Criticisms. Some people make it their life mission to scrutinize you, criticize you, and even shame you. Know this: if you've accepted your flaws, no one can use it against you. If you know your worth, no one can shortchange you or make you feel inadequate. How you see people is a reflection of how you see yourself. How you treat people is an extension of how you treat yourself. So when people only see the wrong in you, or treat you harshly all the time, take pity on them. They must be living a very hard life. They could be desperate for help. Again, it's not about you, it's about them. Let go of criticisms. They're just noise. Limitations. You may have been told by someone important to you that your dreams are too big for you, that you are unrealistic. Someone may have instilled in your mind that you are not capable. They're just as imperfect as you are. The only person who can limit you is yourself. Let go of limitations. Regrets. We have our could-have-been. We feel like we've missed something and regret our decisions at some point. We can choose to dwell in what we cannot change, or let go of the regret and make a brand new start. We can feel sorry for ourselves forever or make the mind-shift that everything happens for a reason. Behind all our baggage is shame. If we get rid of the shame, we get rid of the baggage and start to move one. We hang on to toxic people and stay in trashy relationships because we feel that's what we deserve. Because we're ashamed of ourselves, of our baggage. Bo Sanchez said, "You are not a garbage collector. Get rid of the garbage in your life." Gratitude defies gravity. When you feel pulled down by your past mistakes, turn it around and be grateful instead of who you are and what you have. You can't get on a plane unless you surrender your baggage first. You can't get on with life unless you let go of your emotional baggage. It's not easy, but you'll get there if you start shedding them now. Leave Your Baggage And Move On From Talk 2: Desperate of Women Gone Wild series at The Feast. Watch the video here. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Faith 5 Powerful Women Warriors In The Bible To Inspire You 1:48 PM We've been living in a patriarchal society even before Christ's time. But women - the amazeballs creatures that they are - have been breaking norms and making history since time immemorial. So if you're looking for a woman inspiration, girl crush, or powerful women warriors in the Bible to inspire you to kickass, here they are:Woman Warrior #1: RuthRuth was a Moabite woman who, after the death of her husband, chose to remain with her mother-in-law, Naomi. She later married Boaz and became the great-grandmother of King David. What is most admirable about Ruth?Loyalty. Ruth's commitment to her mother-in-law, Naomi, made her an admirable and respectable woman. It eventually paid the way to prosperity and her destiny. After her husband died, Ruth could have returned to her own family, but instead, she chose to stay with Naomi, even though it meant leaving her homeland and facing an uncertain future.Faithfulness. Ruth's devotion to God and commitment to following His commandments are also noteworthy. She chose to leave her family, her culture, and her gods behind and embrace the faith of Naomi and the Israelites.Hard work. Ruth's diligence and hard work made her stand out. It caught Boaz's attention and piqued his interest. She worked tirelessly in the fields, gleaning the leftover grains after the harvest, to provide for herself and Naomi.Humility. Ruth's humility is evident in her interactions with Boaz, her future husband. She showed respect and deference to him, even though he was a wealthy landowner and she was a poor foreigner.Boldness. Ruth's courage is evident in her willingness to approach Boaz at night and ask him to redeem her family's land and marry her, even though it is an unconventional and risky move.Ruth's story is of faithfulness, loyalty, hard work, humility, and courage. Her unwavering commitment to God and her family inspires people of all ages and backgrounds. Ruth didn't intend to marry a wealthy man like Boaz after her husband died. But her excellent work ethic, pure intentions, and hard work brought her places that were impossible for women of her status during her time. Ruth inspires women, setting an example of what to do best while waiting for their Boaz to come. Ruth and Boaz's story sparks hope, showing a second shot at love is possible and still beautiful.Watch The Book of Ruth on Amazon Prime.WikimediaWoman Warrior #2: EstherEsther is a Jewish queen in the Old Testament of the Bible. The Book of Esther is read by Jews during the festival of Purim, which celebrates the Jewish people's survival in the face of persecution. Esther is considered a heroine in Jewish tradition, and her story is one of courage, wisdom, and faith in God.What makes Esther a remarkable woman?Courage. Esther's most admirable trait is her courage. She risked her life by approaching the Persian king without being summoned to plead for the lives of her people, the Jews, who were facing genocide.Wisdom. Esther demonstrated wisdom and shrewdness in her approach to the king. She did not reveal her true identity or purpose right away, but instead, she invited the king and Haman, the man who had plotted against the Jews, to a series of banquets. Through these banquets, she gained the king's favor and was able to plead her case.Faith. Esther's faith in God is also noteworthy. She called on her people to fast and pray for three days before she approached the king, and she asked them to continue to pray for her as she went before him.Compassion. Esther's heart for her people is evident in her willingness to risk her life to save them. She did not have to take action, as she was safe in the palace and not directly affected by the decree to kill the Jews, but she chose to act for the sake of her people.Leadership - Esther's leadership is evident in how she mobilized her people to fast and pray, took charge of the situation, and made the difficult decision to approach the king.Esther's willingness to sacrifice her life to save her people is truly admirable. Trembling in fear, she did what she had to do and set her people free, making her one of the many influential women warriors in the Bible that still inspires today. Esther is a beacon of hope for those often overcome with fear. She shows that it can be done. You just have to do it, afraid.Watch The Book of Esther on Amazon Prime.WikimediaWoman Warrior #3: Mother MaryWhen you think of powerful women in the Bible, you may not automatically count the mother of Christ, Mary. She was always on the sideline, supporting her Son in His ministry. She may be a gentle force, but she's still a force to be reckoned with. She played a significant role in his life and made history with her simple Yes to God's will. What are Mary's traits that make her a historical female?Faith. Mary's faith is her most admirable trait. She believed the angel's message that she would give birth to the Messiah, even though it seemed impossible, and she accepted God's will for her life without hesitation.Humility. Mary's humility is evident in her response to the angel's message. Instead of boasting or seeking glory, she acknowledged her lowly position and praised God for choosing her. Obedience. Mary obeying God's plan for her life is also noteworthy. She willingly submitted to God's will, even though it meant enduring ridicule and persecution from her community.Altruism. Mary had her own needs and struggles as a young pregnant woman. But she walked miles and served her cousin Elizabeth when she found out she was also carrying a child, putting her needs over her convenience.Perseverance. Mary's determination through difficult times is admirable. From giving birth in a lowly manger to stepping back and letting her Son shine to witnessing his crucifixion and death, she remained faithful and steadfast in her belief that God's plan would be fulfilled.Love. Mary's love for her Son Jesus is evident in her actions throughout the Bible. She cared for, nurtured, and supported him throughout his life and ministry, even standing at the foot of the cross as he died.God has given us the free will to either love and serve Him or not. Mary could have refused the responsibility God asked of her, especially since she was only a 14-year-old virgin with a promising future, being engaged to a decent man. But her devotion to God and her Son Jesus Christ made her one of the most remarkable women in history and an inspiration to everyone.Watch Mary of Nazareth on Amazon Prime.Woman Warrior #3: Mary MagdaleneMary Magdalene is mentioned in all four Gospels and was present at the crucifixion. She's among the first to see the empty tomb and the resurrected Jesus. She is often called the "apostle to the apostles" because she was the first to announce the good news of the resurrection to the disciples. Over time, Mary Magdalene has become an important figure in the Christian tradition, and she is often depicted in art and literature as a symbol of devotion, love, and faith. What makes Mary Magdalene a notable figure in the Bible?Faith. Mary Magdalene was one of Jesus' most devoted followers, and she remained loyal to him even in the face of persecution and death. Courage. Mary Magdalene demonstrated courage by remaining faithful to Jesus, even when it was dangerous to do so. She was present at the crucifixion, a brutal and terrifying spectacle, yet she did not abandon Jesus. She also dared to visit the tomb despite the danger of being caught by the authorities.Love. Mary Magdalene's love for Jesus is evident in her actions throughout the Bible. She cared for him, supported him, and was one of his closest companions. Her love for Jesus was so great that she risked her own safety to be near and care for him.Witness. Mary Magdalene is also admired for being a witness to the resurrection of Jesus. She was the first to see the risen Christ and was crucial in spreading the news of his resurrection to others.Transformation. Mary Magdalene's story is also one of transformation. According to the Bible, seven demons possessed her before she met Jesus, but he healed and transformed her life. She went from being troubled and tormented to being a faithful and devoted follower of Jesus.Mary Magdalene is a role model for those who seek to follow Jesus with devotion and dedication. She proves it's never too late to change and be better. And that your past does not define your future.Watch Mary Magdalene on Amazon Prime.Woman Warrior #4: Bithiah Bithiah is referred to as "the daughter of Pharaoh" and is best known for rescuing the infant Moses from the Nile River. Despite being raised as an Egyptian prince, Moses grew up to become a leader of the Hebrew people and is considered one of the most influential figures in Jewish and Christian history. Bithiah's act of saving Moses is seen as an act of compassion, courage, and redemption, and she is admired for her role in shaping the destiny of one of the most outstanding leaders of all time.Other extraordinary values Bithiah showed:Compassion. Bithiah showed compassion when she rescued the infant Moses from the Nile River. She could have ignored his cries or even ordered his death, but instead, she chose to save him.Courage. Bithiah demonstrated courage by defying her father's orders to kill all Hebrew male babies. She risked her safety to save Moses and raise him as her own.Open-mindedness. Bithiah was open-minded enough to recognize the value of Moses' Hebrew heritage, even though he had been raised as an Egyptian. She encouraged him to explore his roots and learn about his people's history and traditions.Influence. Bithiah's impact on Moses was significant. She provided him with a privileged upbringing, education, and exposure to Egyptian culture, which would later enable him to be an effective leader of his people.Redemption. Bithiah's act of saving Moses can be seen as a symbol of redemption. She took a helpless baby who would have been destined for death and gave him a new life, setting him on a path to becoming one of the most outstanding leaders in history.Bithiah is an empowering figure in the Bible for her selfless act of rescuing and raising Moses, which profoundly impacted his life and the history of his people. Indeed a woman warrior when you see one.Watch Exodus: Gods and Kings on Amazon Prime.Woman Warrior #5: Hannah Hannah's most well-known story involves her fervent prayer for a child. She was unable to conceive, and this caused her great distress. One year, when she and her husband went to the tabernacle to make a sacrifice, Hannah prayed intensely to God for a child, promising to dedicate him to God's service if her prayer was answered. God heard her prayer, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Samuel, who would grow up to become a great prophet and leader of Israel. Things you'll admire about Hannah in the Bible:Faith. Hannah's faith in God is perhaps her most admirable trait. She prayed fervently for a child, and when her prayer was answered, she dedicated her Son Samuel to God's service.Perseverance. Hannah's persistence is also noteworthy. She endured years of barrenness and the ridicule of her husband's other wife, yet she did not lose faith in God or give up on her dream of having a child.Selflessness. Hannah's selflessness is evident in her decision to dedicate her Son Samuel to God's service. She recognized that he was a gift from God, and she was willing to give him up for the greater good.Humility. Hannah's modesty is also admirable. When she prayed for a child, she promised to dedicate him to God's service if her prayer was answered. When God responded to her prayer, she kept her promise and humbly offered Samuel to God.Gratitude. Finally, Hannah's appreciation is evident in her prayer of thanksgiving after Samuel's birth. She recognized that God had answered her prayer and blessed her with a child, and she was grateful for this blessing.Hannah's story is often seen as a model of faith and prayer. Her prayer for a child and her subsequent dedication of Samuel to God's service are seen as acts of great devotion and selflessness. Hannah is a role model for those who seek to live a life of faith and love for God. She's proof that the waiting may be challenging, patience may be bitter, but the fruits are sweet.Read Hannah: The Mother Who Prayed.WikimediaWomen Warriors in the BibleThe Bible contains our Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth. And it is rich with awe-inspiring stories and exemplary women to learn from and admire - no matter your religion. Because these strong women in the Bible broke through the invisible ceiling that limits them otherwise. These female Bible heroes pushed through and made a name for themselves, leaving a dent with the quiet force they possess.Who's your favorite woman warrior in the Bible?This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you.
