Listicle 10 Common Misconceptions About Introverts 6:24 PM 10 Common Misconceptions About Introverts Telling an introvert to go to a party is like telling a saint to go to hell. - Criss Jami They're the silent ones in a gathering. You see them eating alone. Sometimes they avoid your eyes. You get misconceptions about them, thinking they're snobs or lonely. Or that they hate people.Introverts. They are easily misunderstood. Maybe because they don't talk much, their silence could be interpreted in many ways.But introverts are extraordinary beings. Here are 10 common misconceptions about them. 10 Common Misconceptions about Introverts 1. Introverts are nerds. That is not always the case. This stereotyping may be because introverts don't always go out and are often seen absorbed in their own thoughts. Geeks may be busy thinking about and tinkering with technology, science, and other fields of interest, but introverts may just be enjoying their alone time without doing anything geeky. Sometimes they write or blog (ahem), read a book (not necessarily the geeky ones), stay in and watch Netflix, or dabble in art like painting or drawing.Speaking of drawing or illustrations, check out how artist Lingvistov captured introverts in these cute and funny illustrations.If you're looking for a fantasy illustrator, or an illustrator of any kind, to capture your imagination or daily life, you can find a few online.And that's another thing introverts love. Doing transactions online. No face-to-face meetings and no requiring them to speak to people. 2. Introverts are snobs. Probably the most common misconception about introverts is that they are snobs.It's nothing personal. Introverts don't particularly like small talk and don't consider social pleasantries a must in life.You'd get a slight nod of acknowledgment and a small smile, and that's already a huge deal. Be appreciative. 3. Introverts are depressed or lonely. Just because they'd rather be alone and often retreat to their peaceful and private world doesn't mean introverts are going through something depressing. Scientifically, introverts need to be alone because that's how they recharge. Dopamine levels tend to go down in a crowd, and they need to pump it up with peace and quiet. It's biological. 4. Introverts are shy. There are a lot of successful speakers who are introverted in person. A shy person can't talk on stage in front of a crowd. Introverts aren't shy. They just don't enjoy the limelight as much as others do. Introverts don't avoid the crowd because they're shy, but they're not comfortable in it. 5. Introverts are people-haters. Introverts don't hate people. They just don't like social gatherings.Introverts like to meet up and hang out with friends. Some even love to travel. They prefer a more intimate or one-on-one interaction over partying. Introverts have a tight circle that they adore and cherish. 6. Introverts are boring. Fun is relative. It may be fun to go bar-hopping, mountain climbing, bungee jumping, or cliff diving, but it may be dull or scary for others. You may get bored watching reruns, curling up on a couch and reading a good book, or sitting quietly and watching the sunset. But, some people get a high doing that. We often associate quiet and serenity with dullness, but you won't really know or understand how fun it is just sitting in a corner, watching people, or enjoying the moment---unless you're an introvert. 7. Introverts don't work well with a team or can't lead a group. Introverts can function well alone, but that doesn't mean they can't work in a group.Introverts can get along well with others, and you'd be surprised that these leaders are introverts: Eleanor RooseveltBill Gates Abraham Lincoln Warren BuffettElon MuskMahatma GandhiBo Sanchez 8. Introverts can't be happier than extroverts. Extroverts are loud, so you'd know when they're happy. You can see it. That doesn't mean they're happier than introverts, though. Happiness is a choice.Just because you're the life of the party and outgoing doesn't necessarily mean you're happy. 9. Introverts don't like to talk. Give them a topic they love and surround them with people they're most comfortable with, and they can talk for hours. David Letterman and Susan Cain are both introverts. 10. Introverts won't make it big. Never underestimate the power of silence. And never take calmness for timidity. Most of the time, there's boldness, waiting for the right moment to strike...and shake the world. "Still waters run deep." Just ask these introverts who made it big: J. K. RowlingMichael Jackson Warren Buffett Steven Spielberg Johnny Depp Albert Einstein Mahatma Gandhi Mother Teresa Emma Watson Are you an introvert? What do people assume about you?What misconceptions do you have about introverts? Gifs from Google images
Home 4 Easy Steps to Create an Inviting Poolside Patio 3:25 PM 4 Easy Steps To Create An Inviting Poolside Patio A pool deck could turn into your home's favorite spot if you incorporate it with designs that make it irresistible. This could mean spending more time outdoors, especially during summer. With these four easy steps, you can create a comfortable and inviting poolside patio for you and your loved ones.1. Add colors to your poolside patio.There is something delightful about adding color to your pool.It is one of the best poolside patio ideas to make the surroundings inviting and the entire area brighter. You can use different colors to highlight specific aspects of your pool for safety purposes. For instance, use a different color to indicate spaces that need to be avoided by people who are not skilled swimmers. Choose colors that accentuate your pool and the poolside. Work with landscaping and pool experts. They will advise you on which colors will work based on your theme. You could transform your little poolside patio into a Caribbean paradise with color highlights and colorful flowers. 2. Add water features and mood lighting.A water fountain draws you instantly. The same will happen to your poolside if you incorporate water features. An easy feature to add to your home pool is dancing waters. This can produce a calming effect that anyone would enjoy. For added comfort, you can include an RIO Beach Backpack Multi-Position Lounge Chair by the poolside for the perfect ambiance. Together with the calming pool effect, this colorful chair will enhance your relaxation. This chair is comfortable and perfectly fits into any tastefully decorated poolside patio. Include some pool lights to help set the mood.3. Add unique patio touches.Patio pavements with a unique pattern can add a bit of a decorative element. Use materials that differentiate the patio area from the rest of the house. A good example would be gravel or granite. Spruce up the backyard by using elements of arched gates or entrances for a medieval look, or consider using colored posts for an elevated but elegant look. Such small details will give your poolside an unmatched resort-like feel. 4. Size matters - the bigger, the better.An oversized poolside patio is better and more inviting because you can play around with different themes or mix several in one. You can add an outdoor poolside dining arrangement. Create a relaxed area with poolside patio furniture like beach lounge seats. There should be enough intimate areas for family and friends to hold private conversations on a spacious deck with poolside patio chairs.Ample space allows you to play around with different functional ideas. It also gives room for maximum creativity and gives you the most out of your poolside patio. If possible, try to size the deck to fit your needs and make your poolside more inviting.Now youHave you tried revamping your poolside patio to make it more inviting? What elements have you added?
Books 2021 Reading Challenge Completed And 12 Short Book Reviews 5:34 PM Who else did not open a book in 2020? Just me? Okay.2020 was like a nightmare. I couldn't even bring myself to read a book then.So I made a promise that I'll go back to reading again this year.Thus, my "Read one book or one series in a month for one year" Reading Challenge started.I joyfully and proudly completed the task I gave myself at the start of the year. 😄 Oh, the commitment it took and the feeling of accomplishment after. You should try it. I'm sharing my short reviews for the books I read in twelve months in 2021. Hope this helps you decide which book to choose and not to pick for your next reading challenge.This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost.2021 Reading Challenge Completed & 12 Short Book Reviews1. January 2021 - Fifty Shades Trilogy by E.L. JamesRating: ⭐⭐ I'm not saying this to diss the author because I can only imagine the time, effort, sleepless nights, coffee, and glasses of wine involved in writing a series. High respect.But about the book...You'd know right away that it's written by a woman...A drop-dead gorgeous young multi-millionaire who wants to give you the world, a sex god who just happened to have a big heart for the needy, with an equally kind-hearted family...Anastasia Steel is supposed to be an English Lit student who later became editor-in-chief. But can she have a more boring train of thought? There are so many lines that I wish were deleted as it made me cringe and want to throw the book across the room.I will never understand why the first book outsold JK Rowling's, Harry Potter. Okay, maybe I do. Sex really does sell. No matter how jejune the narrative is, no matter how gray the characters are (pun intended), it will sell if there's crazy sex involved.I also read Fifty Shades as Told by Christian Trilogy: Grey, Darker, Freed, and I would say it's better.Rating: ⭐⭐⭐Maybe because Christian is a successful young entrepreneur, his everyday life is more exciting. His past is also colorful, to say the least. He's a complex human being, so there's a curiosity in trying to figure out why he is the way he is and what's going on in his mind.It's less torture to read as Christian doesn't have an inner goddess who annoyingly bounces, spins, pole vaults, and pirouettes. It's more tolerable.Whatever you think about this series, I'd say I started my 2021 Reading Challenge with a bang. 😄If you want an honest trailer about the movie adaptation and have a good laugh, you should watch this:2. February 2021 - The Red Queen by Victoria AveyardRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I didn't know this was a part of a series when I picked it up at the bookstore. It reminds me of Hunger Games and Divergent. In this novel, their society is divided into Silvers and Reds. The Reds are the inferior community, and the Silver possesses superpowers.Lo and behold, they discover that Mare, the story's protagonist, is a Red with extraordinary gifts.Though I predicted who the real villain was, I like how it was written creatively. The battle scenes are thrilling. And there's still an element of surprise.I can't wait to finish the whole series soon (it's currently out of stock in the bookstores here).And I also wish that this would be made into a movie or series. Hi, Hollywood. Please?3. March 2021 - Thy Brother's Wife by Andrew GreeleyRating: ⭐⭐⭐It's intriguing but not as engrossing as I expected it to be. Two brothers - a senator and a priest - fell in love with their adopted sister.They both thought the other one deserved the woman better, but they lived out their lives according to how their father planned them to be. So again, it's about the struggles of being human.Struggles of children who follow their parents' dreams instead of following their hearts.The struggles of siblings who want the best for each other are willing to risk their own morality and principles.Struggles of humans seeking God's answers and looking for signs when going through a dark time. Struggles of a young priest.This novel also reminded me about how things could grandly change if only we learn to say what is really in our hearts. 4. April 2021 - Eleven Minutes by Paulo CoelhoRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Eleven Minutes is about discovering love from unconventional people in the most unexpected place and how far a person is willing to go for ambition or dreams.It's the first Paulo Coelho novel I read so fast I finished it in days. It didn't lull me to sleep. :D I love that airport scene. It's the least I expected from this character, so it's a pleasant surprise. I literally had to stop reading and squeal like a high school girl. I've not done that since Eleanor & Park.It made me wonder why Maria the prostitute's thoughts are more eloquent, poetic, and sensible than English Lit major Anastasia Steel's. I wouldn't have predicted why it's titled Eleven Minutes. So that's another great discovery. 5. May 2021 - After Series by Anna ToddRating: ⭐⭐Another book that sold probably because of all the sex involved. My friend warned me that it's hard to read (too wordy), and I should have listened.I was reading fast to get it done and over with. I want to know if Tessa finally realized her worth and allowed herself to find the healthy love she deserves.There are some similarities with Fifty Shades of Grey, or at least with the characters. Tessa is also a bibliophile and a virgin. Hardin is an enigmatic guy with a complex past who fell obsessively in love with this naive girl. Both men don't have a problem when it comes to money. Neither seems to make an effort; Hardin is in school, and Christian is in his Forbes 500 business but is thriving anyway.Both have aggressive or violent tendencies.Though when it comes to red flags, Hardin is the winner."Toxic" is an understatement to describe their relationship. Their story is about trying to fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed and suffering through a toxic cycle. If you want to know what red flags to look out for and what happens if you meet them head-on, instead of dodging them, read this book. 6. June 2021 - Great Cases of Sherlock Holmes by Arthur Conan DoyleRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐It's exciting to read how the brilliant mind of Sherlock Holmes unravels mystery after mystery, but I would say the TV series and the movies are better.There were cases that I thought were easy to solve, and there were plot twists I didn't see coming.A great break from the previous romance books I've read, that's for sure.7. July 2021 - Write It Down Make It Happen by Henriette KlauserRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I've always believed in the power of written words. My thoughts and plans get more organized when I see them written down on paper. Heartwarming, inspiring, and astounding sharing of people who have turned their dreams into reality by writing them down is waiting for you in this book.It renewed my faith and reminded me just how powerful we are in creating our destinies and shaping our future.8. August 2021- Whiteout by Ken FollettWhiteout by Ken FollettRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Another novel I'd like to be made into a movie. I love how the story is plain and simple but full of suspense. I seldom see plots wherein the heart of the action climaxes and (almost) ends in one location.Not everyone loves a happy ending, but I do. Needless to say, I closed this book with a smile on my face.9. September 2021 - Forced RestThat's not the title of my September read. I got sick this month and didn't have the energy to read a book. So I took a break and read two books for October instead.10. October 2021 - Beach Town by Mary Kay AndrewsRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Greer and Eben. The two characters in this book were a breath of fresh air from Christian + Anastasia and Hardin + Tessa. Eben is uncomplicated, genuine, and honest. Greer is no-nonsense, especially when it comes to her job.I love how the story happened in one place - the Beach Town. The simple way they live in Cypress Key reminds me of my old hometown. I miss going to the beach, and this book makes me want to live near one.It's not a complex story - no suspense, action, heavy drama, and, most importantly, no mysterious boyfriend with a heavy baggage to carry.But it makes me look forward to what will happen next, especially where Greer and Eben's relationship is going.It brought me that pleasant summer vibe even though I read it in October.This book is an excellent come-back read for me after struggling with my health. October - The Distance Between Us by Maggie O'FarrellRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I'm not a fan of book flashback scenes, but I don't mind it with The Distance Between Us. It's highly relevant to the story and effective in piquing your curiosity. Why do these sisters have this unique bond? Why does Stella keep seeing this man or think she did, and why is he making her feel this way?What is she running away from?How in the world is she going to meet Jake when he's halfway across the globe?How will they work things out when they seem to live in different worlds?How is Jake going to make peace with his past?Questions that keep adding up as you read along but, in the end, were answered satisfactorily. Jake and Stella didn't have a good past, but you'd know they'll have a promising future. 11. November 2021- The Road Home by Rose TremainRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐It's raw and moving. A story about a man who once became homeless in hopes of providing a better life for his family back home.It's good to be reminded of how kindness, even from people we barely know, can change our lives. And that we really have no idea what the other person is going through.I love how Lev did not let his present circumstances hinder him from dreaming new dreams.He worked hard and persevered to save his family and turn his dream into reality. To give the people in their small town another chance.There's also a part about the wrong love he chose that still haunts him but makes him more human.And that's what I love about this story. It doesn't shy away from the reality of life. Only four stars, though, because I wish he's found peace in his heart and allowed himself to move on and be really happy. 12. December 2021- The Power of Moments: Why Certain Experiences Have Extraordinary Impact by Chip Heath and Dan HeathRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I read this book as a requirement from our club. It was reading out of obligation at first which was no fun, but I eventually enjoyed it.Enlightening, perceptive, and sometimes funny.As someone who's been working with customers for about 18 years now, I have many eureka moments here.Not only are the insights helpful for work or business, but they also gave me an idea of how to create powerful moments in an otherwise ordinary time, build a stronger relationship with others, and turn something unpleasant into an opportunity for an epic moment.A must-read, especially for entrepreneurs or those who want to improve their career in customer care.2021 Reading Challenge TakeawayWhen I was a few pages away from completing my 2021 Reading Challenge, I had an incredible sense of pride and satisfaction.This year was far from perfect, but at least I've been productive and learned more than I did last year.I hope my picks for my 2022 Reading Challenge will be much better.What's on your reading list for 2022? Recommendations are welcome.
Holiday May Your Days Be Merry And Bright 2:04 PM As you get into the celebration's festivities, remember what this day is really about.May you find reasons to be more thankful for the year that was and look forward to the coming year with a cheerful disposition. Indeed, may your stomachs and hearts be full tonight, and may your days be merry and bright. May Your Days Be Merry And Bright Amidst the heavy traffic and the long queues at the malls, While you're caught in the merriment of the occasion, As you give and receive warm hugs and answer calls, May you not forget the Reason for the season. The Baby born of the virgin and laid in the manger, Who sacrificed and left His glorious throne above, Who gave His all without asking anything but hopes you remember, That Someone important and infinite wants to give you His love. So, believing in Him or not, go on and get into the spirit, Celebrate this wonderful time, get drunk with love tonight, Forget about the year's lows and let the joy of the season get you lifted, May love fill your hearts and your days be merry and bright. Happy Christmas!
Holiday 7 Simple Steps To Save Money During The Holidays 1:45 PM 7 Simple Steps To Save Money During The Holidays It's the most wonderful...and most expensive time of the year. Gathering with your loved ones to celebrate the holidays is nice, but gift-giving could hurt your budget if you're not careful. You can stay frugal without becoming the Grinch. Here are seven simple steps to save money during the holidays.1. Make a list and check it twiceBe like Santa. Make a list and check it not to find out who's naughty or nice but to see how much you'll spend on presents.Write the name of the recipients in one column, the gift options you're getting them in another, and the price. Having more than one gift option is good, so you have a backup in case one item is unavailable or more expensive than expected. 2. Start early When is the best time to start your Christmas shopping? As early as you can. Luckily for most of us, some online stores have a monthly sale. No need to wait for significant holiday sales to start buying Christmas presents. This helps you avoid the Christmas rush. If you are in a hurry, chances are you will be unable to think clearly and spend more than you planned.I usually start in August. How about you? 3. Recycle giftsIt's not as bad as you think. Recycling gifts is a practical and sustainable way to celebrate the holiday.For example, my friend gave me a coin purse on my birthday. After a year of sitting in my closet and accumulating dust, I gave it to my other friend, who's not connected with her.Rather than hoard items you don't use, give them away. Be bold and recycle gifts. It is yours to give anyway. 4. Use coupons or vouchers Make use of coupons, gift checks, certificates, or vouchers. They're there to make your shopping life better. You can use them to buy gifts or give them as gifts. It is a practical and thoughtful present, especially for those with everything they need. Or for moms who'd love to buy some groceries or items for the house instead. 5. Shop online Online shopping helps you avoid long lines at stores. You save time and effort going outside to buy, and the options are endless. The items get delivered to your doorsteps. You practically don't have to leave the house. Buy gifts that give back to the community, the environment, and yourself from Human Nature Lucky Shop. 6. Volunteer Give your time, talent, and treasure to those who can't repay you. But when you host a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind, and you will be blessed. Since they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous. -Luke 14:13-14Many charity works are being done in the communities during the holiday. Lend a helping hand.7. Give a DIY giftA gift that's not only picked out at the store but was given a lot of time planning and creating is the best! Make your own Christmas card.Create a photo album or scrapbook of memories you have with the recipient.Give them a DIY sugar scrub, bath bomb, or body butter.Cook something. Christmas is the season of giving and giving is rewarding. Whatever happens, know that God can never be outdone in generosity.Remember that you can enjoy and show your love this Christmas without overspending. Do you have money-saving tips for the holidays? Hero image
Faith Music: Mary, Did You Know? (Pentatonix) 8:39 AM Mary responded, "I am the Lord's servant. May everything you have said about me come true." And then the angel left her. -Luke 1:38 I wish my faith is as strong and pure as that of that 14-year old girl. That teenager who gave up her plans for her life risked judgment for bearing a child out of wedlock and gave her 'yes' to the Lord without hesitations or reservations despite her fears. I'm more than double her age when she demonstrated total obedience, and I admit that I still have uncertainties when I hear the Lord speak in my heart. I doubt. I negotiate. I sometimes ignore His call because it's too inconvenient for me. Or too much for my proud self. But not Mary. That brave, faithful girl who grew up that one holy night. Mary, Did You Know? Mary, did you know That your baby boy will one day walk on water? Mary, did you know That your baby boy will save our sons and daughters? Did you know That your baby boy has come to make you new? And this child that you delivered Will soon deliver you Mary, did you know That your baby boy will give sight to a blind man? Mary, did you know That your baby boy will calm a storm with his hand? Did you know That your baby boy has walked where angels trod? And when you kiss your little baby You kissed the face of God Oh, Mary, did you know? Mary, did you know? The blind will see The deaf will hear And the dead will live again The lame will leap The dumb will speak The praises of the lamb Mary, did you know? That your baby boy is Lord of all creation? Mary did you know That your baby boy will one day rule the nations? Did you know That your baby boy is heaven's perfect lamb? And this sleeping child you're holding Is the great I Am Own a copy of this wonderful, inspiring, and heartwarming song for only $1.29 This post contains affiliate links so I'll get a commission if you purchase through my links at no additional cost to you. This helps me maintain my site. Thanks in advance!
Holiday The Essence Of Christmas Cards 5:18 AM The essence of Christmas is its relevance. It celebratesthe beginning of the world's greatest love story ever told.Is it Christmas yet? Definitely not. But every day could be Christmas Day. Because the essence of Christmas is its relevance.So, even if it's March or July we can celebrate and talk about Christmas.Wherever you are in the world, Christmas is a holiday to look forward to. Does taking a little effort to show care and love during this time matter to you? Then consider Christmas cards by Mixbook.Whether you're giving Christmas cards to family members or business clients, it sends a vital message and sentiment: they are important to you!A little fun fact: Sir Henry Cole introduced this tradition in 1843. These Christmas cards are commercially designed and bought for this special occasion. Sending Christmas cards is the best time for people to highlight the holiday's narrative, which ideally focuses on the nativity of Jesus Christ. The cards also present a chance for us to connect with others. The Essence of Christmas CardsA brief history of Christmas cards We can trace the start of this tradition to England. In 1843, Sir Henry Cole thought that sending out Christmas cards to his friends will help in cooling their anxieties. It was an idea that initially aimed at responding to the letters he had earlier received from friends. During this time, he designed a card that showcased a family in celebration. Flanking the image of this family were other people helping the poor. That was the beginning of the first Christmas card. History Today3 Reasons Why Sending Christmas Cards is essential Did you know that there are various valuable reasons for you to send Christmas cards to your family and clients? This may convince you to consider getting them next time. Here are 3 reasons: 1. A suitable way of reminding clients who you are Christmas cards can represent your brand. With a bespoke logo highlighted, the client will readily associate you with your products or services. This reminder will encourage repeat business in the long run. Besides, it will show how concerned you are about them. If you are sending the card to family, it will be a reminder that you value and care for them. 2. The personal appeal A personal touch is vital in improving your relationship with both family members and business clients. Handwritten cards show that you took the time and effort to reach out to someone, showing you're thinking about them. With this, you will confidently express your gratitude and highlight care at all times. 3. Low-key marketing Did you know that this approach is a subtle yet affordable marketing approach? You may no longer need to send marketing flyers to your clients throughout the year. A single Christmas card will be enough to convince them to return for more business. Remember to send out a Christmas card. Visit Mixbook for more information about how you can conveniently upload photos to create stunning custom Christmas cards. Their tools and resources will enable you to create professional cards with a touch of a personal feel.
