Pursuing someone for fun or just to pass the time is insolence.

It is a show of disrespect to three persons:

1. It is disrespecting the other person's time and feelings. It is an insult to their worth. 
2. It is disrespecting the other person's future spouse. You took something that belongs to them and tainted it.
3. Finally, it is disrespecting yourself. You are better than that.

Once you realize that you are precious and see other people the same way, you will not make hasty moves.

You will wait for the right person at the right moment.

Believe me, you'll know when you know. Just listen to your heart.

If you pursue someone knowing all too well that you will not be loyal to that person, you will make decisions that you will regret.

It can get messy.

Spare yourself and others of this trouble.

Be in a relationship only when you're ready, not when you're lonely.


Dating with no intent to marry is like going to the grocery story with no money. You either leave unhappy or take something that isn't yours. - Jefferson Bethke


01/31/14
9:18 AM