Health & Wellness The Dos And Don'ts Of Sarcasm And Its Surprising Benefits 1:51 PM Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit but the highest form of intelligence. - Oscar WildeSarcasm is the witty and playful way of communication we all know and love. Used well, it can add humor and depth to conversations. Used poorly, it can hurt feelings and cause confusion. I enjoy a healthy dose of sarcasm myself. As it's apparently Sarcastic Month, I'm sharing this article to explore using sarcasm effectively without causing offense. We'll also highlight some surprising benefits of sarcasm for emotional and physical health when used with care. Sarcasm has developed a bad reputation over the years, but it doesn't have to be that way.With some thoughtfulness in the dos and don'ts of sarcasm, we can enjoy sarcasm and all it brings to our relationships and lives. What is Sarcasm? Sarcasm is a playful twist of language when you say something but mean the exact opposite, often in a funny or teasing way. It's like saying "great job" when someone makes a silly mistake. Sarcasm is the seasoning that spices up our everyday conversations. Yet, it's not always just for giggles. Sometimes, sarcasm can be a soft-touch strategy, a gentle way to critique or point out flaws without appearing too harsh. What Does Sarcasm Say About a Person? Sarcasm can show a person's smarts. It takes quick thinking to say the opposite of what you mean in a funny way. It can show someone is feeling playful, looking to lighten the mood or get a laugh. Sarcasm sometimes hides a person's true feelings. They could be upset or frustrated but don't want to show it. Not everyone gets sarcasm. Some people might think you're being serious or even mean. The key is to know when and where to use sarcasm. There's a time and a place for everything. Why Do We Use Sarcasm? Sarcasm is a way to deal with challenging situations. When life gets heavy, a sarcastic comment can lighten the load. It helps us fit in with others. If your friends love to crack sarcastic jokes, you might join in to feel part of the group. Sarcasm can be a shield. If you're feeling nervous or shy, a wry comment might help you feel more comfortable. We use it to make points without being harsh. "Nice job cleaning up," you might say to your messy roommate. It's easier than saying, "You're really untidy." I use sarcasm for reasons 1 and 3 above. How about you? 7 Common Types of Sarcasm 1. Self-deprecating Sarcasm This is when you use sarcasm on yourself. For example, if you trip over nothing, you might say, "I'm so graceful!" 2. Brooding Sarcasm This sarcasm is more serious and often used when someone is upset. For instance, after a tough day, you might say, "Well, isn't this just my lucky day?" 3. Deadpan Sarcasm Here, you deliver a sarcastic comment with a straight face and a monotone voice. It's like when you say, "I'm thrilled," without emotion when you're handed extra work. 4. Polite Sarcasm This is sarcasm wrapped in politeness. If your friend offers you an expired candy, you might say, "Oh, how generous!" 5. Obnoxious Sarcasm This is bold and over-the-top. For example, "Oh, sure, I'd love to watch paint dry." 6. Raging Sarcasm This is angry sarcasm. If someone cuts you in line, you might say, "Excuse me; I must be invisible." 7. Manic Sarcasm This is wild and energetic sarcasm. Imagine declaring, "Yes! Another parking ticket, just what I needed!" when you spot a fine on your windshield. The Do's and Don'ts of Sarcasm 1. Dos: Know your audience. Before making a sarcastic comment, think if it's something they'll find amusing or offensive.Be mindful of the situation. A highly serious or tense scenario may not be the best time for sarcasm.Use a light tone. Make it clear that you're joking. You don't want people to think you're being mean.Use sarcasm as a spice, not the main dish. Too much can ruin the conversation. 2. Don'tsDon't use sarcasm to hurt others. Holding your tongue is better if you aim to upset or belittle someone. Don't be sarcastic if you know someone won't get the joke. If you remember Aunt Edna's confused face at dinner last Christmas after your sarcastic comment, it's better to skip the sarcasm this time. Don't hide behind sarcasm. Expressing your true feelings is okay. You don't always need to use sarcasm as a shield. 4 Benefits of Sarcasm 1. Stress Relief Have you ever had a bad day and then cracked a sarcastic joke? It might have made you feel better. Cutting through the stress with a sharp quip can help lighten the mood. 2. Boosts Creativity Coming up with a witty, sarcastic comment requires quick thinking and a dash of creativity. 3. Social Bonding When our friends 'get' our sarcastic humor, it can bring us closer. It's a shared laugh, a moment that says, "We speak the same language." 4. Expression Sarcasm can be a less confrontational way of expressing your feelings. Instead of saying, "You're late again," a sarcastic "Nice of you to join us" gets the same point across with a dash of humor. Sarcasm is best in moderation. Use it wisely, and you have a powerful connection and communication tool. 10 Examples of Sarcasm in Different Situations 1. At Work Your coworker forgot the coffee for the fifth time. With a smile, you say, "Well, isn't it great how you keep us on our toes!" 2. With Friends Your friend trips over an invisible pebble. You go, "Wow, I didn't know we were in the presence of a professional acrobat!" 3. On a Rainy Day It's raining cats and dogs, and you quip, "Excellent weather for a beach day, isn't it?" 4. During a Movie The movie's plot is more tangled than a bowl of spaghetti. You remark, "Well, isn't this storyline just crystal clear!" 5. At HomeYour sibling leaves their stuff all over. You announce, "I just love how you've decided to redecorate the floor."6. A Late Friend Your friend arrives late (again). You greet them with, "So glad you could make it before the end of the century!"7. DIY Disaster Your friend attempts a DIY project that ends up in disaster. You appreciate their effort, saying, "Well, it's certainly one-of-a-kind!"8. Traffic Jam You're stuck in a never-ending traffic. You sigh, "Just where I dreamed of spending my evening."9. Cooking Fail You burn dinner. Looking at the blackened pan, you say, "Well, I was going for the charcoal aesthetic."10. In Class The professor makes things overly complicated. You whisper to your friend, "With all these clear explanations, we'll ace this course, no problem!" 8 Sarcastic Quotes from Movies and TV"Yes, because a vasectomy without drugs is really enjoyable!" - Ross Geller, Friends. "I love sarcasm. It's like punching people in the face but with words." - Detective Jake Peralta, Brooklyn Nine-Nine. "Oh, I'm being rude. I'm Pam." - Pam Beesly, The Office."I'm not a box. There are more than four sides to me." - Daria Morgendorffer, Daria."I'm not insulting you, I'm describing you." - Sherlock Holmes, Sherlock."Do I look like a 'people person'?" - Dr. House, House MD."I don't hate you. I'm just not necessarily excited about your existence." - Sheldon Cooper, The Big Bang Theory."Oh, you hate your job? There's a support group for that. It's called EVERYBODY." - Bill Murray.Rachel: "Seriously, Ross, breathe louder, that's great." Ross: "Y'know, we should probably ask the doctor if she even knows how to deliver a baby that's half-human, half-pure evil!" - FriendsJanice: "What a small world!" Chandler: "And yet I never run into Beyonc̩!" - Friends 10 Sarcastic Quotes from Books"I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally." - WC Fields, The Best of WC Fields. "I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book." - Groucho Marx, The Essential Groucho. "Just because you have the emotional range of a teaspoon doesn't mean we all have." РHermione Granger, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix. "If you think nobody cares about you, try missing a couple of payments." - Steven Wright, The Complete Works of Steven Wright. "I don't want to go to heaven. None of my friends are there." - Oscar Wilde, The Wit and Wisdom of Oscar Wilde. "A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin, The Pleasure of My Company. "If you are going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill, Memoirs of the Second World War. "Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead." - Charles Bukowski, Burning in Water, Drowning in Flame. "It's not that I'm so smart, it's just that I stay with problems longer." - Albert Einstein, Essays in Humanism. "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein, The World As I See It. All gifs are from TenorSarcastic Humor: Use with Caution Sarcasm is a linguistic acrobat capable of turning a conversation on its head in a millisecond. When used thoughtfully and positively, sarcasm can tickle the funny bone and tighten the bond between friends. But a misplaced sarcastic comment can just as quickly deflate a mood. So remember these dos and don'ts of sarcasm the next time you're itching for a witty comeback. To be funny is cool, but kindness is way better. Are you a fan of sarcastic humor? What's your favorite sarcastic quote?
Books Reading On A Budget: How To Feed Your Book Obsession 3:18 PM Hi, I’m Lux. I’m a book addict. And I’ve got good news for my fellow bookaholics. Unraveling the magic of books shouldn't break the bank! There is a way. Let’s explore some practical strategies for feeding your book obsession affordably so you can keep reading on a budget. I’m talking from experience here, so you can trust me on this.1. Embrace Library Resources One of the best ways to read on a budget is by utilizing your local library. With a library membership, you can borrow books for free, access a wide selection of titles, and explore e-books and audiobooks through digital library platforms. Make the most of these valuable resources to expand your reading options without spending a dime. Tumblr2. Discover E-Books and Digital Libraries E-books and digital libraries provide affordable reading options. Explore platforms that offer low-cost or free e-book downloads. You'll be amazed at the vast selection, perfect for budget-conscious book lovers.Project Gutenberg: A vast collection of over 60,000 free e-books, including classics and out-of-print titles, available in various formats.Open Library: An open, editable library catalog that offers access to millions of e-books, including contemporary titles and historical texts, in partnership with libraries worldwide.Librivox: A volunteer-driven platform that provides free audiobooks of public domain books narrated by volunteers worldwide.ManyBooks: A digital library offering a wide range of free e-books covering various genres, with options to download in different formats for easy compatibility.Google Books: An extensive online database that allows users to preview and access a vast collection of books, including full texts of out-of-copyright works and limited previews of copyrighted books.Giphy3. Buy at Secondhand Bookstores and Thrift Shops This has been my saving grace before my husband bought me a Kindle. Not only did I find great but cheap books (more than a fraction of the original price), but I also felt like I was stepping into a magical place inside a secondhand bookstore. Pre-loved books have a certain charm that you can’t find in newly published ones. There’s like a history and mystery there. My best buy was a well-loved mystery novel for $1.70. Affordable used books and thrift shop finds are the best.Goodreads4. Join Book Swaps or Reading Communities Participate in book swaps or join reading communities to share and exchange books. Not only can you discover new titles, but you can also reduce expenses by borrowing books from fellow enthusiasts. After reading, you’d engage with like-minded readers, swap theories, and share your love for literature. Hey, you wanna be book buddies? I share reading tips, short book reviews, recommendations, and funny memes on my Instagram account @booksandblogs_lux. Follow me there!Giphy5. Utilize Discounted Booksellers Discounted booksellers, online retailers, and regular book sales are excellent resources for cost-effective reading. Watch for discounted books and special promotions to expand your collection without straining your budget. With some research, you can find affordable books and save money while satisfying your bookworm cravings.Book Outlet: Book Outlet offers discounted books at up to 90% off the retail price, featuring a wide range of genres and new releases, making it a fantastic choice for bookworms on a budget.ThriftBooks: ThriftBooks is a famous online bookstore that sells high-quality used books at affordable prices, with an extensive selection and a rating system to ensure customer satisfaction.Better World Books: Better World Books offers discounted books and supports literacy initiatives, with each purchase contributing to global literacy efforts, making it an excellent choice for socially conscious readers looking for great deals.6. Embrace E-Book Deals and Promotions Keep an eye out for e-book deals, discounts, and promotional offers. Many platforms offer limited-time promotions where you can find heavily discounted or even free e-books. Sign up for newsletters or follow your favorite e-book retailers to stay updated on the latest deals and maximize your reading budget.And watch out for Amazon’s Stuff Your Kindle Days. This 2023, you can add books to your Kindle like crazy on March 31, June 30, September 20, and December 27. GiphyReading on a BudgetReading on a budget doesn't mean sacrificing your love for books. I should know! These budget-friendly ways to read will expand your reading horizons without hurting your wallet. Feed your book obsession affordably (yes, not only am I a book addict but also an enabler), indulge in literary adventures, and discover new authors and genres. With these tips and affordable resources, you can continue to enjoy your books while staying true to your budget. Happy reading!Check out my top romance novel recommendations categorized by tropes.
People Mario Kleff's Leopards: A Tale Of Love And Sacrifice 2:16 PM By Thiti TeerachinIn the bustling landscapes of Pattaya, a story of unparalleled devotion unfolded. At the heart of this tale was Mario Kleff, an architect with a burgeoning business, the Wandeegroup. Yet, when life presented him with two leopard cubs, their fragile eyes still sealed shut, their limbs too tender to walk, Mario's world pivoted.The initial phase involved meticulous steps to ensure legality—registering the leopards, and embedding microchips for identification. While the local wildlife authorities had regulations and reservations about their dwelling place, the leopards, Fasai and Typhoon, quickly established their dominion over Mario's life and home.The dedication Mario poured into their care was profound. Consulting wildlife specialists, feeding them with feline care, and personally nursing them through their initial blindness showcased his unwavering commitment. Yet, with every profound bond, challenges are bound to arise. A mere glimpse by an unsuspecting passerby at the Wandeegroup premises led to heightened scrutiny, entangling Mario in a battle of love, commitment, and sacrifice.Mario once remarked, "I adopted them in my mind and heart," and he lived every word. The bond sometimes strained his domestic life, threatened his professional existence, and even led to significant financial decisions. Mario's pledge to Fasai and Typhoon was unequivocal, even if it meant sidelining prospective clients or making grand financial sacrifices.Their early days together in Pattaya epitomized a love story unlike any other, a tale of a man and his leopards against the world.The Genesis of a New LifeIn the sprawling wilderness overseen by the Thai wildlife department, Mario Kleff found himself crafting pathways through towering grass, forging what he fondly termed the 'French and English gardens.' Flanked by ancient trees, glistening water channels, and blossoming ferns, these verdant spaces became the playground for his beloved leopards, Fasai and Typhoon. Comfort in ConfinementAmidst this unusual arrangement, the passage of time transformed the barren birdcage into a haven of comfort. With a sheet overhead and occasional treats of water and barbecues, the days unfolded with a semblance of normalcy. Morning visits from Meow and Ming Ming brought nourishment to the body and the soul. Venturing Beyond the CageMario's boundless love and commitment led him to stretch boundaries, literally and figuratively. Evening strolls soon expanded into five-kilometre or more mountainous treks, evoking concern from the wildlife authorities. But as with many things in Mario's journey, compromises were struck, rules redefined, and boundaries redrawn. Deepening Bonds Amidst Legal BattlesBehind this daily routine, the legal wheels churned. The question of who truly 'owned' Fasai and Typhoon was not just a legal battle but a moral and emotional one. After fourteen strenuous months, the courts granted Meow the rightful ownership, a victory bittersweet in its essence. Yet, the bond had grown so deep that even when they could leave, Mario, with Fasai and Typhoon by his side, chose to stay a little longer in what they had come to call home. The Calm Before the StormComfortably settled in the rescue clinic, Mario expanded his horizons by setting up an outdoor office, further blurring the lines between his professional endeavors and unparalleled commitment to the leopards. But as the days went by, tensions with the wildlife department grew palpable, leading them back to Som-O's father's abode. A semblance of peace seemed to have returned, but fate had another twist in store.Heartbreak in the HorizonJust as life appeared to find its rhythm, tragedy struck. Fasai's sudden ailment, the frantic search for remedies, and the devastating discovery of a fatal parasite culminated in a heart-wrenching climax. Mario's attempts to revive her, desperate and fervent, echoed the intensity of their journey together. Sadly, at the tender age of four and a half, Fasai succumbed, leaving a void impossible to fill. Unraveling the Mysterious EndThe post-mortem revelations, linking Fasai's demise to infected buffalo meat, unveiled a larger, grim narrative. The aggressive parasite had claimed other victims at the Chiang Mai Night Safari, revealing the fragility of life and the interconnectedness of destinies.Typhoon's New Horizon in PattayaAfter the heart-wrenching loss of Fasai, Typhoon found himself returning to the familiar embrace of Pattaya. The bustling city, with its juxtaposition of modernity and nature, became his sanctuary. As he roamed its landscapes, he carried with him the memories of Chiang Mai and the indomitable spirit of Fasai, etching their legacy into the heart of Pattaya. Epilogue: A Legacy of LoveMario, Fasai, and Typhoon's tale are not just about a man and his leopards. It's a testament to the boundless capacity of the human heart, the intricate dance of fate, and the resilience of the spirit. In the verdant gardens crafted by Mario, amidst the towering grass and ancient trees, their legacy lives on, a testament to love, sacrifice, and undying devotion.Enter here for more details about Mario Kleff and his leopards.
Books Best Gifts For Book Lovers That Aren't Books [Part 3] 9:30 AM The reading experience doesn't start and end in choosing a good book. It includes having a cozy nook to disappear into and the snacks you enjoy your story with. So here's part three of the best gifts for the book lovers in your life. The gift of the perfect location and heart and stomach full of joy. 1. Gifts to Make a Cozy Reading NookEvery book lover dreams of a snug corner wrapped in warmth and comfort, creating the perfect ambiance to get lost in the pages of their current favorite. If you aim to gift someone a cozy reading space, you're in for a treat with these suggestions. Stainless Steel TumblerStay refreshed during those long reading sessions. This tumbler keeps beverages at the desired temperature for longer, ensuring that every sip of a cool iced tea or a piping hot coffee complements the reading experience. Book Lamp or Reading LightThe soft glow of this light is a gentle companion for every nocturnal reader. It's designed to illuminate pages without straining the eyes, ensuring you can read comfortably even in the dark. Mellanni Queen SheetsThere's nothing like fresh sheets to transform a reading nook. Soft to the touch and incredibly comfortable, these sheets invite readers to snuggle in and journey through chapters with abandon. Bedsure Fleece Throw BlanketEvery reading session gets an upgrade with this throw blanket. Its plush feel promises warmth and comfort, creating a cocoon readers would love to be wrapped in, book in hand. Bathtub Caddy Tray for ReadingTransform bath time into a luxurious reading retreat. This caddy offers a stable space for books, ensuring they stay dry while the reader unwinds in the bubbles, a glass of wine, and snacks. Ah, the simple joys of a soak and a story. Page HolderThe little things make a difference, and this pageholder is no exception. It provides a comfortable grip, so readers can focus solely on the plot twists and not on holding the book open, which could strain your hands in the long run. Reading Pillows or LoungersSupport and comfort come together in this perfect gift. These pillows and loungers are tailored for long reading sessions, so binge-reader's comfort is prioritized, making it easier to get lost in fictional worlds. Ember Temperature Control Smart MugThe future of mugs. This tech-savvy mug ensures the drink stays at the preferred temperature, making it a match made in heaven for book lovers who don't want their beverage going cold during intense reading moments. Vekkia Neck Reading LightA touch of innovation for nighttime reading. This neck light offers targeted illumination, freeing up the hands and ensuring the book remains in the spotlight. Flexible, adjustable, and a game-changer for every passionate reader who promises to put the book down after one last chapter. (We've all been there!) Novel-inspired Scented CandleA scent can transport you right into the heart of a story. Inspired by classic novels, these candles create an immersive atmosphere, enhancing every literary journey. This is one of the best gifts for book lovers who appreciate the sensory delight of candles. 2. Gourmet Delights for BookwormsThe right beverage or snack can enhance the reading experience. For book lovers who appreciate gourmet pleasures or love to pair their favorite books with their drink of choice, these picks are bound to tantalize their taste buds. Organic Coffee or TeaThe sound of rain in the background and a cup of your favorite tea or coffee while reading? Pure bliss. These organic selections provide rich flavors, ensuring every reading session is accompanied by a comforting sip. Keurig K-Express Single-Serve Coffee MakerMoments away from gourmet coffee right in the comfort of your reading nook. This Keurig ensures every brew is perfect, making it an unbeatable companion for those early-morning or late-night reading sessions. Cuisinart Microwave Popcorn MakerReading is a movie playing in your head while reading the script. Is there a snack more satisfying than popcorn while getting engrossed in a thrilling plot? This popcorn maker offers quick, easy, healthier snacking options, ensuring each bite is as exciting as the tale. Literary Tea Blends or CoffeeSpecially crafted blends inspired by iconic books and characters? Yes, please! Whether sipping on Mr. Darcy's favorite tea or a combination reminiscent of Potter World, it's an adventure in every cup.This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost. Thank you!The Gift of Comfort for Book LoversIf you know someone who loves to get lost in the pages, you can complete their journey with these thoughtful non-book gifts. Reading can often be tiring and may induce hunger, so these gifts are sure to come in handy. They are both practical and enjoyable, making them the perfect accompaniment to any bibliophile's reading experience.What's the most thoughtful gift you've received?Check out my top romance novel recommendations categorized by tropes.Hey, you wanna be book buddies? I share reading tips, short book reviews, recommendations, and funny memes on my Instagram account @booksandblogs_lux. Follow me there!
