Life Lessons 6 Things I Will Never Do To My Future Kids 8:00 AM They say that parenting is like dancing. You take one step, your child takes another. -Michael Jackson They say "never say never". They also say no book nor class can ever prepare you for motherhood and raising kids. But reading mommy blogs and talking to my mommy friends made me also realize that it is a deliberate decision how you want to talk to or act around your kids. Not just an instinct-driven choice. And it inspired me to write this post. I salute all mothers who use all their willpower to control their temper and not lose their ish when things go really loud and wild inside the house. It's funny how they write about their experiences, but I'm sure it's not funny at all when chaos happens. You are all real heroes! 6 Things I Will Never Do To My Future Kids Compare I will never compare my kids with another, even with their siblings. I'm sure some parents mean well and think that comparing their kids would motivate them. But the subliminal message of comparing is: "You are not good enough". Or "unless you be like or be better than this kid, you will never get my approval." I will, through God's grace, make it clear to my children that they are beautiful and worthy of love. They may have to change and improve some areas in their lives but that is part of growing and coping. The only person they need to compete with is themselves. The only record they need to break are their own. They must know that they are loved by me and by God exactly the way they are. Laugh at them I will never laugh at my children's dreams and mistakes. They may go through a stage where they will have crazy big and even silly dreams (my friend's son wanted to make finding spiders in the woods a profession when he was around five), but they will either outgrow them or they would know better soon enough. Besides, isn't that what being a child is all about? Working with your creativity and seeing the world with wonder? For children, anything is possible because no one told them yet otherwise. And I believe we should never stop encouraging them from honing their creative side. Children are bound to make mistakes because that's how they'll grow and improve. There's nothing to be embarrassed about. The important thing is that they learn from it. We all had one ridiculous dream when we were kids. We all made mistakes. We all are still making mistakes. But we all turned out okay, right? Make them feel alone I will never make my children feel alone as long as I'm there. The worst kind of loneliness is feeling alone while you're surrounded by people. I vow to make my children feel secure, loved, and cared about as long as I'm alive. Maybe even after that. I want them to know that they can always count on me to be there, to listen without prejudice or criticism. They will always have a place to come home to, and that someone's there waiting for them and ready to welcome them with a hug no matter where they've been or how long they've been gone. Having encountered different kinds of people from school to work, I've realized that the reason many kids feel lost and take the wrong path so to speak is because they don't have a sense of belongingness. They don't know who to turn to when things go wrong. They don't have a home to welcome them where they'll feel safe and loved. Shelter them I will never shelter them from reality. Some children grow up as brats because that's the way they were raised. Their parents managed to block the truth from them and filter the negativity. Of course it's natural for parents to be protective but we should never underestimate the children's understanding and wisdom. I think exposing them to the truths in life earlier will make them open-minded, cautious and empathetic. Example, bring them to outreach programs, let them see that poverty is real, educate them about the state of the planet or how cruel some people could be to animals and people. They must know that not everyone they meet have good intentions. Friends may betray them. Some people are broken and it's not their job to fix them. They have to know that a rose may be beautiful but it also has thorns that can prick if they're not careful. Shame them I will never shame them especially in the public. Shaming your kids in public (or even in private) is the same as taking away their self-esteem, making them question their self-worth and killing their self-respect and dignity. One time I was dining out with my sister and 3 tables away from us is a mother chastising her teenage daughter, calling her stupid repeatedly. They seemed unaware that all eyes and ears were on them. Who knows how long that girl would carry the label "stupid" around and live up to it? Stop sharing I will never stop sharing my faith with my kids. I will introduce them to Jesus, make Him real to them, talk about Him like He's some cool friend they could always run to and follow as an example. The reason why most people don't feel a connection with God is because they see Him as a distant, cruel king sitting at his throne the whole day waiting for someone to punish. They don't know that Jesus will never condemn them (John 8:11). God loves them more than they could ever comprehend (John 3:16). And that His love for them is always fresh (Lamentations 3:22). Not just crumbs or leftovers from yesterday but always whole and new. With these guidelines, by God's grace, with support from the people around me, reading mommy blogs all the more, and lots and lots and LOTS of trial and error, I think I can manage to raise children well enough. So help me God. Got parenting advice? Gifs from Google images Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? 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Listicle 5 Reasons To Love Michael Jackson 1:32 PM Love, joy, and peace for the world, that's what I want… peace for the world and love. -Michael Jackson If you love music and arts, you'll love Michael Jackson. There is no reason not to love the man. My most-read posts, and so far the ones that have gotten the most negative feedback are posts about Michael Jackson. Though billions admire him, there is still a minority who believes in the tabloid junks. meme But let me focus on the reasons why I and the rest of the Moonwalkers in the world love Michael Jackson. There are a LOT! Let me sum it up and give you 5 good reasons to love Michael Jackson. 5 Reasons To Love Michael Jackson 1. He's the greatest entertainer of all time. Watch his live performances, listen to his songs, read his poems and reflections. He gives his 100% and more and you can see it. Remove your prejudice when you watch him perform and you'll be in awe. I'm really very self-confident when it comes to my work. When I take on a project, I believe in it 100%. I really put my soul into it. I'd die for it. That's how I am. -Michael Jackson 2. He's a true humanitarian During his Dangerous tour, he earned $100M. All of which went to Heal The World Foundation. When Pepsi paid for the damage when he got a 3rd-degree burn while shooting a commercial, he put everything to Michael Jackson Center for Burn Victims. He bought an oxygen chamber for the victims. He was listed in the 2000 edition of the Guinness Book of World Records for breaking the world record for the "Most Charities Supported by a Pop Star". He had supported 39 charitable organizations either with monetary donations, through sponsorships of their projects, or participation in their activities. He remains to be the most charitable person/artist in the Guinness Book of World Records. When he shared his time and resources, he went big. Neverland was not just created for his own entertainment, he created it for the children to enjoy. I'm saying heal the planet, heal the world, save our children, save the forest. There's nothing wrong with that, right? -Michael Jackson 3. He's got the most beautiful smile in the world. Google says so. 4. His empathy and the way he used his influence and fame. He wrote songs about love, unity, peace, equality, saving the planet, saving the animals, saving the children, healing the world. In one taped conversation, he was heavily sedated and was talking to his doctor while waiting for sleep. He was still talking about helping the children of the world, saving them from pain and suffering.If you haven't yet, read the wonderful collection of his poems and reflections in Dancing the Dream. I've always believed that the real measure of celebrity success was not just how famous he becomes, but what he does with that fame and fortune. -Michael Jackson 5. He broke barriers and records. He was the first black artist to have been featured on MTV. His album Thriller is still the biggest-selling album of all time. He showed the world dance moves that inspired all other dance moves. His number of awards will speak for him (last count: 750). Michael Jackson created history and was selfless enough to encourage everyone to do the same. He wanted to change the world for the better. In all he did, he gave his all. He wouldn't release a song unless he thinks it's perfect enough. He wanted to give the best to his fans, which is evident in his achievements. Yet despite his achievements, the guy remained grounded; never attacked another artist, was never arrogant. The negative publicity and allegations put him into his ordeal but despite it all, he's given us his all and he never stopped giving. When you watch interviews of people who know him personally, they would say that Michael Jackson is the epitome of love. I guess that's why many people hate him.They can't stand Michael Jackson because he represents what they don't believe in or what they have a hard time grasping---love. When you get to know Michael Jackson onstage and behind the camera, there really is no reason not to love him. Michael Jackson is the brightest star to have ever shone in the world of music. Images from Google Some of the posts here may contain affiliate links. Meaning I get a commission if you purchase through my links at no additional cost to you. This helps me maintain my site.
People This World Was Not Ready For Michael Jackson 9:00 AM I'm feeling like God brought him here, gave him to us, and God took him back. This world was not ready for it. -Jermaine Jackson A Michael Jackson fan thinking out loud: This World Was Not Ready For Michael Jackson We are all put on earth for a purpose, for a mission. Some of us spend our whole lives looking for it, some don't even care what their mission is. They don't search their soul. Content on living day after day on autopilot, walking around like zombies. Some people are blessed enough to have the clarity and vision of what they are here for at an early age. Michael Jackson is one of those blessed few who has always known his purpose. That is, to share to the world the union with the divine which he claims he gets in his music, to share his talent, to spread happiness and love to everyone, especially to those who need it the most. It's a shame that those who couldn't figure out what their lives are about or what their purpose in life is, made him the target of their empty lives. They tried to suck out all the energy he had. They tried to steal from him the light that he saw which they couldn't have. I think more than anything else, it's envy. They couldn't handle the thought of someone as great as Michael Jackson walking on earth with them while they go around figuring things out, frustrated. They didn't know how to deal with this phenomenal being with clarity and passion, with a quiet powerful force in him. They couldn't handle it. They hated that Michael Jackson reminded them of their emptiness and mediocrity. And I'm sorry that an innocent man like Michael Jackson had to suffer their uncontrollable, senseless, childish, miserable act of envy; despite him giving the world his all, his best, his life. Sad. See also: Ramblings Of A Neophyte Michael Jackson Fan 5 Reasons To Love Michael Jackson Photos from Google images. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Life Lessons 10 Random Life Lessons 8:00 AM Some life lessons you learn by simply observing the way others live, by reading books, listening to talks or by being told straight to your face by someone wiser. Most life lessons come from first hand experience, which needless to say, those you learned the hardest way. Often, we take things for granted that we fail to see their value until it's too late. Here are 10 of those random life lessons that may be trivial, mostly overlooked or common knowledge for some, but are helpful nonetheless. 10 Random Life Lessons 1. Sometimes we are so busy looking for someone or something better we fail to realize we have what's best for us all the while. 2. Those who seldom talk can speak words that can change the way you look at things than those who blabber all the time. 3. Love is not always enough to sustain a relationship. It should always come with respect, trust and hard work. 4. The person who brings you happiness can be the very same person who could bring you pain. Tweet 5. The world will not stop and grieve for your heartbreak. You need to get up and carry on with your life no matter how heavy your feelings are. 6. You either think before you act, or act before you think. The first will save you a lifetime of regrets, the second will earn you temporary happiness and a lifetime of grief. 7. Telling a person not to be angry is like saying he does not have the right to feel hurt or that his feelings are invalid. Often behind the mask of anger is a really hurt soul. 8. You have to master the skill of listening to what the other person is NOT saying. That's where the truth hides. 9. Your partner will always be flawed, just like you. Accept her. 10. It doesn't matter how many books you've read or how many degrees you've earned. There is always something new to learn every day. Tweet What life lesson did you have to learn the hard way? Gifs from Google images Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Lux Thinking Aloud #Blessed And Not Bragging 8:00 AM You don't see the world as it is; you see it as you are.-Krishna Saagar They say #blessed is the new way to brag. Humble bragging, they call it. I don't get it. Since when did knowing, believing, claiming, and declaring that you are blessed become bragging? Here's my take on the #blessed. Believe and declare At The Feast, we are encouraged to dream big. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13). Because we are blessed. We learn to focus on the good things in life and see them as blessings.We practice declaring we are blessed every day, no matter what the situation is. We are reminded to always have a grateful heart. Part of the Feast's Declaration of Abundance says: Today, I proclaim that I'm God's Beloved, I'm God's Servant, I'm God's powerful champion. And because I am blessed, I am blessing the world. In Jesus' Name, Amen. I don't see anything wrong with declaring that beautiful truth. If you believe you are blessed and want to use that blessing to bless others, that's a winner's mindset. Everyone will benefit from it. "Faith Words aren't just mere positive affirmations; they open your life up to the supernatural power of God." (Bo Sanchez). Giphy Crab mentalityThe term "crab mentality" refers to a mindset that can be summarized as "if I'm not able to have it, then neither are you." Can't we be genuinely happy for others and allow their story to inspire us instead? Envy kills. Giphy Choose what you propagate. If you can spread rumors, trash-talk the government, cancel a celebrity or someone you hate, or share disturbing viral photos and videos, why can't you spread positivity? In the world today, when you feel crappy or angry, you can vent out so easily. People like it when you air your dirty laundry. But when you post feel-good words or photos, you are a hypocrite, a liar, or a bragger. Sharing motivational quotes or heartwarming stories can make another person's day. Sharing your blessings has always been a good thing. I don't see any reason why we should stop now. Tenor There's no pleasing everybody.There will always be those who are quick to find fault in everything. If there is none, they will make something up. Not everyone will be happy for you. Not everyone will celebrate with you. And that's okay. Unsubscribe From Other People's Drama. Giphy Sad reality It's sad when you think about it. That the world does not believe in blessings anymore. For many, the concept of being blessed seems hard to process, accept and understand. That to be blessed looks too good to be true. Are we really that far from believing the truth? Giphy Sharing the good is false and prideful, while rumors, scandals, and bad news spread like wildfire and amuse and entertain the public. The truth that you are blessed is implied and written throughout the Bible. Regardless of your religion, is it really that hard to believe that it is possible to live a blessed life? What's your take on #blessed? Do you think that people who use that hashtag are merely bragging?
Life Lessons 8 Things To Remember When Trolls Attack 8:00 AM One's dignity may be assaulted, vandalized and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered. -Michael J. Fox Bullies are everywhere---schools, workplace, they're all around. And they're always ready to bring you down. We're all vulnerable victims. I suggest these 8 things to remember when trolls attack you. 8 Things To Remember When Trolls Attack 1. Trolls are envious. Your haters hate you because you're you. They're envious of your ideas, of your conviction, of your happiness, of what you have. Envy or jealousy is a cancer of the soul. Tweet It can destroy someone causing them to destroy others around them. You remind them of something they can't have or you tell the truth that they are yet to accept. Your success reminds them of their being stuck. Your happiness make them look into their lives and realize they've got much to work on. When a troll attacks you, remember that it's not about you. It's about them and their underlying issues. Thank the heavens you are blessed, and try to understand them. 2. Trolls are hungry for love. Michael Jackson was and still is being bullied big time. When asked what he thinks about his detractors, he replied "They just need more love." Trolls have been deprived of love that bitterness and anger consumed them making them angry at anything or anyone who are doing better or are happier. When you allow love to enter your life, there is no room for hate. Tweet Thus, you will not be capable of trolling. When a troll attacks you, remember that they are hungry for love and it is not your mission to fix them. Try to love them. 3. Trolls are desperate for attention. One of the most effective way to get someone's attention is to piss them off. Some kids in school think annoying someone is a cool move to get everybody talking. Some of these kids never really grow up. When they enter the adult world, they use the same strategy. They want people to talk about them and they will do anything to do that. They probably were not given enough attention by their parents when they were kids that they have to scream or throw a tantrum just to get them to notice them. Or they were oppressed and they want so desperately to be heard. When a troll attacks you, remember that they just want you to notice them. Desperate people will do anything to get what they want, the world's attention included. The best way to handle this is not to give them the attention they seek but ignore them until they learn to let go and move on. Hopefully to make their lives better and not to look for another victim. 4. Trolls are toddlers trapped in an adult's body. Kids bullying kids though still unacceptable is understandable. They don't understand much and they react the way kids react when they want love and attention. But adults who bully others is ridiculous. It's okay to be childlike, even in the Bible Jesus taught us to learn from children. To be childish is a different story. When toddlers throw a tantrum, it's somehow expected. When adults do it, it's embarrassing to witness, somehow amusing, but deeply disturbing. When a troll attacks you, remember that they just need to grow up. They are 4-year olds trying to break free from a 40-year old body. Again, it's not your job to fix them. 5. Trolls are miserable. "Misery loves company." If they can't be happy, they will surely try to ruin your day too. When a troll attacks you, remember that it's not easy to live in misery. Try to show them kindness. 6. Trolls are scared of their own monster. Some people can't face their own monsters so they look for "preys" to escape. They unconsciously become the monster themselves attacking others. Notice it. Those who always criticize other people's lives are those who can't confront and correct the wrongs in their own lives. Tweet They often point at others' mistakes failing to look at their own, or more accurately, refusing to see their faults. This could be because they're comforted by the thought that they are not the only ones with flaws or that they want to highlight your wrongs so theirs could be covered up or ignored. Or that the more they focus or magnify your flaws, the more their faults pale in comparison. When a troll attacks you, remember that they're just trying to run away from their own demons. Not realizing they become demons themselves. Pray for their healing. 7. Trolls find your life more interesting than theirs. If you've got no goals, no direction, no purpose or if you can't find anything better to do, you get interested with other people's business. When a troll attacks you, remember that they're bored and are looking for some entertainment. Your life seems to be more interesting than theirs so they pick on you. Just carry on with your busy fulfilling life. 8. Trolls are not able to communicate effectively. We are all unique and we think differently. It's no surprise that we have different beliefs. Some of us though are not that kind or respectful in expressing our disagreement. When a troll attacks you, remember that they may just be trying to express their opinion without meaning to sound "trollish". Give them the benefit of the doubt. Maybe it's just how you interpret the message. Just maybe. Now that people spend more time on the internet and can express more freely, bullies hide behind the safety of their computers. Sometimes hiding behind usernames or under "anonymous", others faking bravery by showing their faces and using their real names. Still, at the comfort that you can't reach them anyway. It's often tempting to go down to their level (which obviously is LOW), but if you really think about it, cyber-bullying is a very pathetic and lonely act that we should really feel sorry for these trolls. You can never please everybody, and you should never try. For toxic people, you can never really do anything right. Damn if you do, damn if you don't. If you know in your heart that you're not trying to hurt anyone by expressing your opinion or beliefs and you have love in your heart, trolling won't stop you from pursuing your purpose. Bullying or trolling is for the desperate, lonely, empty, miserable individuals. Tweet More than hating them back, they need us to understand them, show them kindness, and pray for them. When a troll attacks you, remember that they're trying to pull you down because you're above them. When a troll attacks you, be the bigger person, take the high road and remember how blessed you are that you don't have to live and think the way they do. photo credit Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! 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Lux Thinking Aloud Dance In The Rain 9:00 AM Dance In The Rain We have to work hard, we have to work smart We need to invest our money and save it...we need to start We've got to deal with heartbreaks, we have to feel some pain When all we really need to do is to dance in the rain. I know growing old is inevitable, but do we really need to grow up? What’s wrong with being a child inside, it’s not like we'll get stuck. We just have to hold on to that innocence and sense of wonder and not be afraid to fail, We must not let go of that magic we get when we dance in the rain. We need to see the world in the purest, most uncomplicated way Stop the unnecessary war, end this greedy, selfish play All these innocent lives taken, homes broken and the world destroyed What is there really to gain? Stop this world destruction now, come let’s dance in the rain. If we only learn to love like a child; no buts no ifs, Only honesty, kindness and truth leave our lips Then we can all live in prosperity and harmony, no one will complain Maybe we can all run under the sun or dance in the rain. When was the last time you danced in the rain?
Lux Thinking Aloud Ramblings Of A Neophyte Michael Jackson Fan 5:35 PM I think the reason why God entrusted such a huge amount of talent to Michael Jackson is because He knew only a heart as humble as Michael's could handle it. Ramblings Of A Neophyte Michael Jackson Fan They say an artist will only be truly appreciated when he's gone. I guess it's true for Michael Jackson and this neophyte Michael Jackson fan. Much to my regret, I only got to appreciate him as an artist a few weeks ago. In my defense, I was busy playing with my Barbies when Michael Jackson was at the prime of his career. I would also hear more negative things about him then that his talent was overshadowed so to speak. So I ignored this man who could walk backwards and moved like no other. Then one fateful day I decided to watch Superbowl videos on YouTube and it was his video I clicked first. I didn't know what was coming. I didn't know I'd be hooked and be in awe for the next few hours. I watched every interviews, every live performances and every music videos I could find. I was entranced. I was suddenly under Michael Jackson's spell. More than his exceptional talent though, I was drawn by this star, this legend, this record-breaking artist's mystery...and the sadness in his eyes. When you read between the lines, when you look at him, you'd know deep down that despite his stardom, the phenomenon, the inexplicable adoration of his fans and obsession of the paparazzi, he was a lonely vulnerable man. A deprived kid trapped in a man's body. A lost soul. I believe that he was a kind, gentle, generous, pure and humble person. All he wanted was help others, experience how it is to be a normal child, live normally and be loved and appreciated. All he wanted was give what he could and what he had to those who need it more. In return, he received bashing, criticism, condemnation. I think his haters knew they couldn't bring him down attacking him as an artist because he was perfection. No one could ever move and sing like Michael Jackson. No one else has that same passion and magic. No one could give it all like Michael Jackson could. Or maybe that's just the amateur fan girl me talking. But, whatever. For me, Michael Jackson was and will remain the ultimate undisputed best artist in all history. No one comes close. They couldn't say anything wrong about his talent so they attack him in other aspects instead. Those trolls. Heartless, cruel, selfish, greedy creatures. Why can't they just applaud with the rest of the world? Why can't they write about this superstar who instead of strutting the streets with arrogance, wasting money on booze and prostitutes, was out there helping children in need, trying with all he had and with all he could to make others happy and change the world? Why do they have to point at his flaws? Fabricate stories and call him names? They made Michael Jackson who he was because of what they say---a freak. He said in an interview that people does not know the effect of the words they say. He was hurt and devastated. Do people care? Maybe some did. But majority loved to turn his life into a fiasco. Using his weakness, his vulnerability to try to put him down. He's just human. He maybe the brightest star to ever shine, but he's got feelings too. He got hurt. Deeply apparently. There are many things he missed just to give the world the kind of entertainer that they wanted. How ungrateful of the world to treat him like a joke instead. The world destroyed Michael Jackson. What could a single man do against the whole world ganging up on him? In retrospect, where were his friends then? Where were those who hero-worshiped him when he was crying himself to sleep? We should have paid more attention to the message of his songs. Most of them are a cry for help, a cry of a lonely hurt heart desperate to make the world a better place. He wasn't eccentric. He wasn't weird. He wasn't a wacko. We don't know half the truth of what the man went through. I believe he's innocent. No monster could write songs about healing the world, protecting the children and being there for someone and sing it with all his soul. No monster could have done what he did for the children in need. No sick, selfish person could have donated his time and money to charities. The only thing Michael Jackson was guilty of was that he cared too much. He cared too much about the world, about the children's future, about other people. He cared too much about what people say about him to the point that he let it destroy him. He was vulnerable and naive because there was no evil thought or ill emotions in his heart. Someone so loving and genuine like him couldn't do what they said he did. And for the police to invade his privacy like that? It was inhuman. I hope they're happy now. Whatever happened to Michael Jackson was a thing of the past. But you can never erase someone as great as Michael Jackson in the history of mankind. For all it's worth I think he's happy now. At peace. Surrounded by great Love and appreciation. I think he's dancing for God and singing with the angels. I want to always remember him alive, invincible, awe-inspiring, historical. He will remain the brightest and biggest start this world will ever see. Michael Jackson, gone to soon, forever the king of pop. August 29, 1958 - June 25, 2009 All photos from Google images See also: This World Was Not Ready For Michael Jackson 5 Reasons To Love Michael Jackson Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Listicle 5 Summer Survival Tips 8:00 PM Summertime is always the best of what might be. -Charles Bowden Ahhh, summer! Everybody's talking about it. But is everybody ready for summer? Here are 5 summer survival tips to not just tolerate but actually enjoy this season. via Heather Kirby 5 Summer Survival Tips 1. Get sun protection. It's the season to get that perfect sexy tan, but not to get premature wrinkles or worse, skin cancer! Never leave the house without applying sunblock. According to dermatologist James M. Spencer, MD, an SPF 15 product blocks about 94% of UVB rays; an SPF 30 product blocks 97% of UVB rays; and an SPF 45 product blocks about 98% of rays (from WebMD). Don't forget your lip balm and sunnies, too! Shield your skin from the sun. I personally use the SafeProtect SPF30 Sunscreen from Human Nature because it doesn't only effectively protects the skin from the harmful sun but it's also free from reef-destroying chemicals. Isn't it good to enjoy the summer without harming the marine life? 2. Rehydrate. With the summer heat, you'll surely sweat a lot. You might get dehydrated, so drink up. Always keep a bottle of water with you. Be sure to re-hydrate with water or natural juices and not with soda or artificial juice drinks. 3. Choose your summer wardrobe. Wear clothes that are cool, made of light fabric, comfortable, and that which will let your body breathe so to speak. 4. Plan your summer activities ahead. Whether you're going abroad, heading to the beach, or just staying home, make plans. It might be hard to book flights, the traffic to where you're going may be heavy, hotel rooms may be unavailable, or prices may go up than usual. You wouldn't want to experience these hassles on your summer vacation so it's better to book your trips earlier, plan your route and prepare for your choice of summer fun. Plan on improving yourself too. Enroll in summer lessons (swimming, surfing, diving, personal development, arts, etc.). It's wise to inquire and enroll and buy what you need before everyone else does. 5. Don't forget your hair!!! You pay attention to your skin, your body, your wardrobe, but often forget about your hair. Your hair deserves just as much (or even more!) attention and care this summer as the summer sun and saline water of the sea can damage it. Not only that, summer brings a lot of exciting new hair trends. Cut your hair short, tie it in a bun or ponytail, or dye it with the color of your choice. Use hair products that are SLS/SLES-free, organic and is not harmful to the environment. I only trust Human Nature products. Scared that hair color will damage your hair? No idea what color is right for you? How about trying out some hair wigs first? You won't regret trying them out. Don't let this hot and humid weather stop you from looking and feeling your best. Like any other season, it pays to be ready for what's coming. And summer is one season you NEED to be ready for. Do you have any summer survival tips?
Lux Thinking Aloud Dogs Are Family, Not Food 12:15 AM Dogs will lay down their lives for a friend. If you have the power to help change the world and save lives, wouldn't you? It's just a click away (links below). Dogs are family, not food. Dogs are the best things to ever happen to mankind. The loyalty of dogs is incomparable. If you've never had a pet dog (but why?!) you're missing so much. No other creature can ever love a human so purely, so unconditionally and so faithfully the way a dog does. One of our dogs one time literally threw himself in front of other dogs and fought bravely, leaving him a scar just to be sure I pass without getting harmed or bitten. And that's only one incident that these furry friends demonstrated their loyalty. I grew up with dogs around me. I can't imagine life without dogs. I can't imagine people stealing them from their families, cram them in a cage too small for them, hurt them in ways unimaginable, killing them brutally, i.e. skinning and burning them alive to eat their meat! It's atrocious. It's horrible. If you think, I'm exaggerating, Google Yulin Festival. That's EXACTLY what they do! I can't even bring myself to look at the pictures of these poor dogs. I wanted to post them here just to show you how serious the situation is but I can't. It's heartbreaking. I don't and will never understand the "fun" and satisfaction people get that they even made an annual festival out of this monstrosity. I ask you dear reader to please participate and help stop this festivity held on June 21-23. It's no festival! It's barbarism. If you could please spread the word on your social media, please use these hashtags: #StopYulin2015 #StopYulinFestival #StopYulinForever #NoToDogMeat #ItsNoFestival Please sign the petitions before it's too late: Change.org Care2 Petitions Human Society International Animalasia Forcechange Petitioncongress Thank you very, very, VERY much. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
