Books ARC Book Review: It Should Have Been Us By Anna B. Doe 4:04 AM Love is always enough. But that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Or that it doesn’t require any effort. -It Should Have Been Us by Anna B. DoeSome people claim they don’t regret anything in life. Are you one of them? I’m definitely not. There are things I wish I’d have done differently. I just finished reading another advanced reader copy from a newly discovered author, and it made me think about my could have, should have, would have. Here’s my ARC review for It Should Have Been Us by Anna B. Doe.Book SummaryHe is the best man to her maid of honor. He’s also the boy who broke her heart three years ago.They were besties since diapers and high school sweethearts before they became exes.Rebecca and Miguel have again crossed paths for their best friends’ wedding.She has to confront the boy who once destroyed her heart. And as their paths intertwine, the secrets she has kept hidden threaten to resurface, leaving her with no escape from the past she thought she had left behind.“It was like an invisible string was pulling me toward it.” “We were connected in a way I could never honestly explain.”The CharactersRebecca Allison ‘Becky’ WilliamsA lovable, loyal, supportive friendDoting daughter and sisterTalented baker and owner of The Reading Nook (cafe + reading area)Miguel’s “Red”“There was always something about Rebecca that drew my attention from the time we were kids. It was her natural beauty and the determined way she walked through the world.Rebecca was my best friend. More than that, she was my person. Somebody who knew me so well that I didn’t have to open my mouth, and she’d already be there. She could read me without an issue, and I was the same.” Miguel Luis FernandezNFL starProdigal sonAlways have a soft spot for kidsBecky’s taste tester“It was funny because although I’ve been in Bluebonnet my whole life, feeling Miguel’s arms wrapped around me felt like I was finally, finally home once again.”TropesSecond chance romanceSports romanceBest friends to loversSmall-town romanceAngsty and steamyIt’s always been youRating⭐⭐⭐⭐💫🌶🌶🌶ARC Review: It Should Have Been Us by Anna B. DoeIt was nice to return home to Bluebonnet, where I first met Becky and Miguel in the book Kiss Me First (Emmet and Kate). It Should Have Been Us made me laugh but also broke my heart and put me back together.This book is an excellent reminder that constantly thinking about the past and all the “what-ifs” can hold you back and stop you from finding happiness.Why I like it:Becky. I’ve adored Rebecca ever since Kiss Me First. She’s kind but feisty. She’s always there supporting Miguel and Emmet from football practices to games, rain or shine. You’ll want to have her in your corner. Unexpected bomb. Just when I thought this would be another book of funny banters and cute ex-lovers who found their way back together, Anna B. Doe dropped a bomb that gave me all. The. Feels. 😩Healing closure. I don’t like misunderstandings in books, but I like the closure they both get. Along the way, I understood why they acted the way they did. Roller coaster of emotions. I like it when the book serves different emotions. I laughed a few times. I’ve missed the verbal battle between Miguel and Becky. There is tension between them every time they’re around each other. There were tears and heartaches, not just for them but also for some people around them.Indeed, it’s the things we didn’t do that we regret the most.The worst feeling in the world is knowing you could make things right, but you let it slip away.Knowing you could have prevented it is the only thing worse than a broken heart.And I felt all that while reading what came down between this couple I’ve come to love.Will I recommend this book?If you’re into second-chance love stories with lots of heart-fluttering moments, heartwrenching pasts, steamy scenes, and hard-earned happily ever after, this is your jam.Favorite ScenesPre-wedding football game in the backyardSeeing my fave characters from Blairwood University (another sports romance series from Anna B. Doe’s universe)Favorite QuotesYou can try to reason, but you and I both know you were made for me. This is inevitable. We’re inevitable.These last three years have felt like I was walking alone in the dark, endless tunnel with no way out. Coming back. Seeing her again. It was like I finally could see the light at the end of it.Love is always enough. But that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Or that it doesn’t require any effort.I loved her before I fell in love with her. She had me wrapped around her finger, completely enticed, and I was starting to wonder if that would ever change.She was the sun, and I was the one circling around her this whole time, needing her warmth and her light. Her love. I needed her love like I needed air to breathe.You’re my ride-or-die, Rebecca Williams. My forever.What are you reading next?I’m honored to be part of the ARC team for this book. It Should Have Been Us by Anna B. Doe is available in paperback and is FREE on Kindle Unlimited. It will be released on December 08, 2023, on Amazon.This post contains affiliate links, so we’d get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost. Thank you!Check out my top romance novel recommendations categorized by tropes.Question for YouDo you believe in second chances? Where do you draw the line?Hey, you wanna be book buddies? I share short book reviews, recommendations, funny memes, and relatable reels on my Instagram account @booksandblogs_lux. Follow me there! I also post my reviews on Goodreads.
Books ARC Book Review: Where We Fall By Nicole Baker 2:00 AM ARC Book Review Where We Fall By Nicole Baker I've received another advanced reader copy from another favorite author of mine, Nicole Baker. Where We Fall is the third book in The Giannelli Series- Love in Little Italy. The release date is December 08 (my birthday!). Lexi and Marcus are another fictional couple that stole my heart. So, without further ado, here's my ARC review for Where We Fall by Nicole Baker.Book SummaryWhen an unexpected encounter jeopardizes their company's relationship with their top client, Marcus's siblings devise an unconventional plan. They propose that Marcus bring Lexi, their reserved and makeup-free IT Director, to the client's prestigious charity gala as his fake girlfriend. Despite Lexi's conservative style and timid nature, Marcus agrees to the charade in hopes of salvaging their business connection.As Marcus guides Lexi through a stunning transformation, he begins to notice more than just her physical changes. Lexi emanates a newfound confidence, captivating Marcus in unexpected ways. As they keep playing the couple, Marcus can't help but feel drawn to Lexi on a deeper level. It's gone beyond playing pretend."I think getting us in each other's lives clearly wasn't enough. I was too blind. Fate needed to create a scenario that opened my eyes to what was right in front of me."The CharactersMarcusAccording to himself: The funny one, the idiot, the screw-up, the troublemaker. According to Lexi: That's just how Marcus is. He doesn't judge people by their shortcomings. He understands their past and chooses to be nice regardless of what is thrown at him. If there were more people like him in this world, we would be better off.LexiHardworking. Good daughter. IT genius. Doesn't wear makeup and wears baggy clothes almost twice her size. According to Marcus: Intelligent, bold, and kindhearted."I can tell underneath the glasses there's a pretty face. Perfectly feminine and elegant." TropesFake datingWorkplace romanceReformed playboyFun family dynamicsDual POVRating⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐🌶🌶🌶🌶ARC Review: Where We Fall by Nicole BakerWhere We Fall is a romantic comedy novel with swoon and steam. Here are some reasons why I like it:1. Good pacing.It's a quick and easy read.2. They bring out the best in each other. Marcus and Lexi encouraged and inspired each other to be better versions of themselves. At first, I didn't like the idea of Marcus suggesting Lexi needs a makeover to fit his standards for a girlfriend. But they're faking the relationship, and Marcus has a point. They have to be believable. Everybody knows Lexi isn't his type. And Lexi needs to feel good about herself so she'd be comfortable being at Marcus's side. Marcus wasn't a douche about it; he was actually apologetic because he didn't want it to come out insulting or offensive.Later, you'll learn that Lexi was not dressing up how she wanted to. Her childhood upbringing was holding her back from showing her best self. Marcus made her realize that she could be better. He pushed her to spread her wings. Because of the physical transformation, Lexi found confidence. So, instead of hating Marcus for wanting to change her looks, you'll thank him for suggesting it.Lexi made Marcus realize his worth. She showed him his strength and taught him to stand up for himself. To show the world - and his family - how brilliant and capable he is at what he does.3. Perfectly imperfect together.Marcus and Lexi are that couple you won't expect to get together on paper, but they're perfect for each other. They both saw each other for who they were beyond the facade they wore for other people. And they helped each other realize and show their potential.4. The Gianellis. What can I say? Everyone's just charming, hot, and perfect. The Gianellis are as supportive and loyal to each other as always. You'd want to be a part of the family or be friends with these people. And attend their Sunday family dinner for the food (Italian family makes the best food, right?) and the laughter.5. Grand Gesture and Happy Ending. I'm a sucker for happily ever after! But I like the story more if I knew it's HEA-guaranteed, but it still makes me think about how they will work things out to get there. Who's gonna follow who? Are they going to compromise? So, it kept me on my toes.I like that Lexi puts her family first and that Marcus does the same. They make it work even when they encounter a bump along the way.Will I recommend this book? 100% if you like the tropes. Favorite ScenesThe makeover (when Lexi realized she could be more than what she thought she deserved)The Charity GalaThe post-Charity Gala Marcus' library (every booklover's dream)Favorite Quotes from the BookBeing with her was like learning to breathe deeply for the first time. I'm a mess without you. I don't want to live in a world where I don't see your face every day.What are you reading next?I'm already excited for Mia Giannelli's story. I'm honored to be part of the ARC team for this fantastic book. If you want to check out Where We Fall By Nicole Baker, it's FREE on Kindle Unlimited and available in paperback. It will be available on December 08, 2023 on Amazon.This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost. Thank you!Check out my top romance novel recommendations categorized by tropes.Question for YouWhat's the most heartwarming and extravagant thing you've ever done or that someone has done for you?Hey, you wanna be book buddies? I share short book reviews, recommendations, funny memes, and relatable reels on my Instagram account @booksandblogs_lux. Follow me there! I also post my reviews on Goodreads.
Lux Thinking Aloud Thank You For Being Here: Thanksgiving Message 12:38 AM Thank You For Being Here Thanksgiving Message It's been a while since I wrote something personal here. Not a life hack, love advice, or raving over my current book obsession. Not thinking about SEO or engagement. Just a raw, straight-from-the-heart message. Since it's time to express gratitude, let me give you my Thanksgiving message: thank you for being here. Especially if you've been around before I even took blogging seriously.To my OG readers, thank you for staying.I started writing because I'm too much of an introvert to talk about my feelings and thoughts. So, if you've been here since 2011, you've seen me pour my broken heart out over breakups, friendships that drifted apart, or generally over how messed up the world has become. But you didn't leave. As I evolved into a more mindful writer (yeah, I don't rant so much about life online anymore 😄), you stayed. My shift in interests and topics of choice might have given you a whiplash over the years, but you stayed. I'm eternally grateful for that. You're the real MVP. I consider you my friend, albeit online, so know that you're more than welcome to message me if you want to talk about life. To my new visitors, thank you for being here.You could've been doing something else with your time, but you chose to spend it reading my thoughts and sharing my experiences with me. Time is one of the most incredible things you could give someone, and I thank you for giving me a little bit of yours. I hope you stay!To my clients, thank you for your trust.Thank you for making this girl's dream come true: getting paid by doing what I love. Writing for your brand gives me purpose and pleasure. Your business has supported my passion, allowing me to maintain this website...and buy as many books as my storage can hold. To my favorite authors, thank you for sharing your world with me.I've been to many places. And lived multiple exciting lives thanks to the beautiful books you've written. Your mind is a treasure trove. Thank you for introducing me to those unforgettable characters and allowing me to visit those charming places that could only exist in your imagination. They could've stayed in your brilliant minds, but you chose to share them with the world. Thank you for being so generous.To my naysayers, thank you for inspiring me.Thank you for telling me, "You're not a writer, and you'll never be one." Your comments surely have fueled me to learn more and be better at what I do. I am truly, sincerely, genuinely touched by the amount of time and energy you spend thinking and talking about me. You're one of the reasons I keep going. Thanks for keeping me grounded.To my amazing husband, thank you for being the best.I knew you were the one from when you told me you read my blog to get to know me more. 😅Marriage may be a roller coaster ride, but I'm beyond grateful you're the one I'm riding this crazy life with. I couldn't ask for a better partner. You never made me doubt or second-guess our marriage. I sleep better knowing that you always have my back. Thank you for showing me how to be unequivocally loved, accepted, appreciated, and celebrated by simply being myself.To myself, thank you for not giving up!Don't get weirded out if I address myself here. Because I give myself a pep talk and hype myself up all the time (studies show that it's actually healthy). So, allow me to write this Thanksgiving message:Dear Self,Oh, the battles we've been through the past few years! But look at you still standing. Still fighting. Still finding joy and beauty in your every day.Thank you for being strong and kind and for not losing your humor and sense of wonder. You are magnificent. You got this!Thanksgiving MessageMy life is not perfect, but my heart is filled with gratitude. Who or what are you thankful for the most this year?
Books Book Review: Twisted Love By Ana Huang 12:42 AM Book Review: Twisted Love By Ana Huang I’ve recently started my Ana Huang era. She’s amazing! I saw the Twisted Series’ low rating on Goodreads, but then I kept seeing it pop up on Instagram with raving reviews, so here we are. Here’s my book review of Twisted Love by Ana Huang.Twisted Love by Ana Huang Book SummaryCharactersAlex Volkov is ice-hearted and has a haunting past he’s used to fuel his relentless push towards success and revenge. There is no room for love in his frozen heart. But when fate shackles him to care for his best friend’s little sister, he feels a frosty shift within. “Perhaps I should be grateful he never smiled because if that was what he looked like while doing it…womankind didn’t stand a chance.”Ava Chen is a free spirit caged with a forgotten childhood memory. Her damaged history hasn’t tarnished her view of the world’s beauty. But the romance between her brother’s best friend and her?That’s a huge no-no. As they soon learned, love doesn’t play by the rules. When it sparks between Ava and Alex, they find themselves on a sled ride toward explosive secrets that could incinerate what they cherish most.“You are the only woman I have eyes for. Your enemies are my enemies, your friends are my friends, and if you wanted, I would burn down the world for you.”“I hated how much I wanted her, and I hated that she wasn’t smart enough to run away from me while she still had a chance. Though, let’s be honest, it was already too late. She was mine. She just didn’t know it yet.”TropesInterracial RomanceBillionaire RomanceClose proximity (neighbors)Off-limitsBrother’s best friendOpposites attractGrumpy vs SunshineSuspense“Touch her and 💀” vibeAnti-heroTwisted Love by Ana Huang Book ReviewRating⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ / 🌶🌶🌶🌶🌶Twisted Love is intense, addictive, gripping, sexy, and angsty but also funny and swoony. I love all the groveling, the side characters, and just everything about it. Why I Like It:The coldhearted Alex falls in love. When Alex cracks open and shows strong emotions for Ava, it’s like watching a frozen lake thaw in fast-forward. Hot, hilarious, swoony.The suspenseful unfolding of the past. Aside from the budding romance between Alex and Ava, their complex, layered, mysterious past had me flipping the pages. I like that the suspense doesn’t steal the spotlight from the romance but spices up the storyline, keeping you on your toes. Sassy Ava. Ava is the kind of gal you’d want to be friends with. Sassy, even when faced with a crazy jealous ex, is funny, thoughtful, driven, and has so much love to give. Plus, she can bake a mean red velvet dessert, and I have a sweet tooth, so there’s that. Ava’s friends. Her friends are fabulous - a real-life princess, a soon-to-be lawyer, and a gorgeous influencer - and they’re all supportive and loyal to each other.I despise alphaholes in real life, but authors can make them endearing. How he cares for, supports, and protects her overshadows his negative side. “You are cold and infuriating and, I admit, a little scary. But you are also patient and supportive and brilliant. You inspire me to chase my dreams and drive away my nightmares. You are everything I didn’t know I needed, and you make me feel safer than anyone else on the planet.”Black ShirtDid it live up to the hype? It did for me. I’m so glad I gave it a try despite the terrible reviews.Will I recommend this book? Yes, if you like the tropes and don’t mind the author’s warning:This book contains possessive, morally gray alpha hole, explicit sexual content, and profanity. No cheating or menage, but if you’re looking for a traditionally sweet, loveable hero, this book is not for you. Recommended for 18+What you can expect from this book Hilarious banterFamily action drama (it’s NOT a sobfest, it’s actually exciting)Thrilling unraveling of both characters’ pastWhat the author warned you aboutFavorite ScenesOperation: Emotion (Ava trying to crack through Alex’s emotions as prodded by her friend Jules)Boudoir shootAlex appearing at Ava’s workplaceAll of Alex’s groveling to win Ava backFavorite Quotes from the Book“Don’t fall for guys who look like they could break your heart because chances are they will.”“Are there awful people in the world? Yes. Do awful things happen? Yes. But wonderful people exist and wonderful things happen too, and if you focus too much on the negative, you miss all the positive.”“I’d rather be the villain with her by my side than the hero who risked losing her because of a misguided sense of morality.”“You are the light to my dark, Sunshine. Without you, I’m lost.” Reaction GifsWhat are you reading next?Add Twisted Love to your TBR list. It’s FREE on Kindle Unlimited and available in paperback and audiobook. This post contains affiliate links, so we’d get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost. Thank you!Image credit:Header image, Ava Chen, and Alex Volkov copyrighted by Internet Marketing Ad. No commercial use permitted. If you'd like to commission or request something similar for a small fee, please leave a comment below.Question for YouWould you lie to someone you love to protect them? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.Hey, book lovers! You can find me on Goodreads, Instagram, and Pinterest. If you give me a follow, drop me a message so I can return the favor. Let’s create a cozy corner for chapter chasers and share our passion for literature. (No following to unfollow, please!)I've got more romance book series recommendations, categorized by tropes. VIEW LIST.
Books Book Review: Obsession Falls By Claire Kingsley 1:37 AM ARC Book Review: Obsession Falls by Claire Kingsley I cannot tell you how thrilled I was to receive my first advanced reader copy (ARC). Ever! It's a book written by one of my favorite romance authors, and its release date is October 12, 2023. Let's get this ARC book review of Obsession Falls by Claire Kingsley started.Book SummaryAudrey's back in her hometown with her Mom and spoiled Persian cat. Temporarily just until she found her footing again.She's gone through many job rejections that she reluctantly accepted a job at a local newspaper in the next town as a...well, she didn't even know the full job description. She was just winging it.When roomies turn to room-foes, thanks to Audrey's playful and energetic derpy dog who couldn't leave the cat alone, she grabs the first pet-friendly rental she sees. Enter Josiah - the grumpy hunky lumberjack neighbor and landlord doing some fixer-upper magic next door. After his past experiences, Josiah embraced the peaceful life of solitude.Sparks fly between these two despite the awkward and embarrassing meet-up. But when a creeper starts stalking Audrey, Josiah goes into full protective mode to keep her safe. Giphy TropesSmalltown romanceLandlord - TenantGrumpy loner - Sunshiny dog loverSuspense (Stalker)ARC Book Review: Obsession Falls by Claire KingsleyWhen Claire announced that she'd be writing about the Havens, I thought it would be awkward or odd because of their rivalry with the Baileys in the Bailey Brothers series (one of my fave small-town romance series). But that series ended so well that seeing the families here post-feud is heartwarming.I get a thrill every time a character I know is mentioned. It gives me that warm, nostalgic feeling like coming home for the holiday after a long time of being away.The story has a good blend of comedy, suspense, and romance.Claire Kingsley has a talent for writing likable characters. Despite being terrible at communicating, Josiah is a kind person, a good son, and a successful real estate mogul. Audrey remains optimistic and cheerful, even though life has thrown her some tough challenges.I love the chemistry between Josiah and Audrey. It's not as spicy as Claire's previous romance novels, but it still got some steam.I love returning to the quirky little town of Tilikum - home of my favorite Bailey brothers."I liked the quaintness and slow pace of Tilikum life." Audrey YoungWill I recommend this book? Definitely! I'm yet to read a Claire Kingsley book that I didn't enjoy.TumblrFavorite ScenesPicnicEvery scene of Max, the derpy dogEvery time the Tilikum squirrels are behaving the way they always have "The squirrels around here thought they owned the place." - Josiah HavenMy Book Rating4.5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐💫 🌶🌶I enjoyed this book, and the only reason I'm not giving it a perfect 5 is that I could guess who the stalker was early on, and I love a suspense thriller that keeps me guessing until the end. That's just me, though. I see reviews saying they didn't see it coming. I guess I've been reading more detective series than I realize.I also expected the spice level to be the same as the previous series (they were really spicy), but that doesn't mean this book is missing the heat. Sparks are still flying. You will still swoon.You can say it's a personal preference, but it doesn't reflect how Claire Kingsley writes. She's still one of my favorite auto-buy authors, and I'll continue to devour all her books in the future.PinterestQuotes from the Book "Nice girls didn't belong with a$$holes like me. She was blue sky and sunshine, plucky optimism, and happiness. I was a stoic cloud of optimism and surliness. It would never work.""I liked him because he was gruff and stoic and sexy and surprisingly sweet under that surly lumberjack exterior.""I'm not leaving you unless you make me."What are you reading next?What are you reading this season? Hope you like my first-ever ARC review and get a copy of Obsession Falls by Claire Kingsley. It's free on Kindle Unlimited and also available in paperback and audiobook.This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost. Thank you!Check out my top romance novel recommendations categorized by tropes.Hey, you wanna be book buddies? I share reading tips, short book reviews, recommendations, and funny memes on my Instagram account @booksandblogs_lux. Follow me there!
Health & Wellness The Dos And Don'ts Of Sarcasm And Its Surprising Benefits 11:51 PM Sarcasm is the lowest form of wit but the highest form of intelligence. - Oscar WildeSarcasm is the witty and playful way of communication we all know and love. Used well, it can add humor and depth to conversations. Used poorly, it can hurt feelings and cause confusion. I enjoy a healthy dose of sarcasm myself. As it's apparently Sarcastic Month, I'm sharing this article to explore using sarcasm effectively without causing offense. We'll also highlight some surprising benefits of sarcasm for emotional and physical health when used with care. Sarcasm has developed a bad reputation over the years, but it doesn't have to be that way.With some thoughtfulness in the dos and don'ts of sarcasm, we can enjoy sarcasm and all it brings to our relationships and lives. What is Sarcasm? Sarcasm is a playful twist of language when you say something but mean the exact opposite, often in a funny or teasing way. It's like saying "great job" when someone makes a silly mistake. Sarcasm is the seasoning that spices up our everyday conversations. Yet, it's not always just for giggles. Sometimes, sarcasm can be a soft-touch strategy, a gentle way to critique or point out flaws without appearing too harsh. What Does Sarcasm Say About a Person? Sarcasm can show a person's smarts. It takes quick thinking to say the opposite of what you mean in a funny way. It can show someone is feeling playful, looking to lighten the mood or get a laugh. Sarcasm sometimes hides a person's true feelings. They could be upset or frustrated but don't want to show it. Not everyone gets sarcasm. Some people might think you're being serious or even mean. The key is to know when and where to use sarcasm. There's a time and a place for everything. Why Do We Use Sarcasm? Sarcasm is a way to deal with challenging situations. When life gets heavy, a sarcastic comment can lighten the load. It helps us fit in with others. If your friends love to crack sarcastic jokes, you might join in to feel part of the group. Sarcasm can be a shield. If you're feeling nervous or shy, a wry comment might help you feel more comfortable. We use it to make points without being harsh. "Nice job cleaning up," you might say to your messy roommate. It's easier than saying, "You're really untidy." I use sarcasm for reasons 1 and 3 above. How about you? 7 Common Types of Sarcasm 1. Self-deprecating Sarcasm This is when you use sarcasm on yourself. For example, if you trip over nothing, you might say, "I'm so graceful!" 2. Brooding Sarcasm This sarcasm is more serious and often used when someone is upset. For instance, after a tough day, you might say, "Well, isn't this just my lucky day?" 3. Deadpan Sarcasm Here, you deliver a sarcastic comment with a straight face and a monotone voice. It's like when you say, "I'm thrilled," without emotion when you're handed extra work. 4. Polite Sarcasm This is sarcasm wrapped in politeness. If your friend offers you an expired candy, you might say, "Oh, how generous!" 5. Obnoxious Sarcasm This is bold and over-the-top. For example, "Oh, sure, I'd love to watch paint dry." 6. Raging Sarcasm This is angry sarcasm. If someone cuts you in line, you might say, "Excuse me; I must be invisible." 7. Manic Sarcasm This is wild and energetic sarcasm. Imagine declaring, "Yes! Another parking ticket, just what I needed!" when you spot a fine on your windshield. The Do's and Don'ts of Sarcasm 1. Dos: Know your audience. Before making a sarcastic comment, think if it's something they'll find amusing or offensive.Be mindful of the situation. A highly serious or tense scenario may not be the best time for sarcasm.Use a light tone. Make it clear that you're joking. You don't want people to think you're being mean.Use sarcasm as a spice, not the main dish. Too much can ruin the conversation. 2. Don'tsDon't use sarcasm to hurt others. Holding your tongue is better if you aim to upset or belittle someone. Don't be sarcastic if you know someone won't get the joke. If you remember Aunt Edna's confused face at dinner last Christmas after your sarcastic comment, it's better to skip the sarcasm this time. Don't hide behind sarcasm. Expressing your true feelings is okay. You don't always need to use sarcasm as a shield. 4 Benefits of Sarcasm 1. Stress Relief Have you ever had a bad day and then cracked a sarcastic joke? It might have made you feel better. Cutting through the stress with a sharp quip can help lighten the mood. 2. Boosts Creativity Coming up with a witty, sarcastic comment requires quick thinking and a dash of creativity. 3. Social Bonding When our friends 'get' our sarcastic humor, it can bring us closer. It's a shared laugh, a moment that says, "We speak the same language." 4. Expression Sarcasm can be a less confrontational way of expressing your feelings. Instead of saying, "You're late again," a sarcastic "Nice of you to join us" gets the same point across with a dash of humor. Sarcasm is best in moderation. Use it wisely, and you have a powerful connection and communication tool. 10 Examples of Sarcasm in Different Situations 1. At Work Your coworker forgot the coffee for the fifth time. With a smile, you say, "Well, isn't it great how you keep us on our toes!" 2. With Friends Your friend trips over an invisible pebble. You go, "Wow, I didn't know we were in the presence of a professional acrobat!" 3. On a Rainy Day It's raining cats and dogs, and you quip, "Excellent weather for a beach day, isn't it?" 4. During a Movie The movie's plot is more tangled than a bowl of spaghetti. You remark, "Well, isn't this storyline just crystal clear!" 5. At HomeYour sibling leaves their stuff all over. You announce, "I just love how you've decided to redecorate the floor."6. A Late Friend Your friend arrives late (again). You greet them with, "So glad you could make it before the end of the century!"7. DIY Disaster Your friend attempts a DIY project that ends up in disaster. You appreciate their effort, saying, "Well, it's certainly one-of-a-kind!"8. Traffic Jam You're stuck in a never-ending traffic. You sigh, "Just where I dreamed of spending my evening."9. Cooking Fail You burn dinner. Looking at the blackened pan, you say, "Well, I was going for the charcoal aesthetic."10. In Class The professor makes things overly complicated. You whisper to your friend, "With all these clear explanations, we'll ace this course, no problem!" 8 Sarcastic Quotes from Movies and TV"Yes, because a vasectomy without drugs is really enjoyable!" - Ross Geller, Friends. "I love sarcasm. It's like punching people in the face but with words." - Detective Jake Peralta, Brooklyn Nine-Nine. "Oh, I'm being rude. I'm Pam." - Pam Beesly, The Office."I'm not a box. There are more than four sides to me." - Daria Morgendorffer, Daria."I'm not insulting you, I'm describing you." - Sherlock Holmes, Sherlock."Do I look like a 'people person'?" - Dr. House, House MD."I don't hate you. I'm just not necessarily excited about your existence." - Sheldon Cooper, The Big Bang Theory."Oh, you hate your job? There's a support group for that. It's called EVERYBODY." - Bill Murray.Rachel: "Seriously, Ross, breathe louder, that's great." Ross: "Y'know, we should probably ask the doctor if she even knows how to deliver a baby that's half-human, half-pure evil!" - FriendsJanice: "What a small world!" Chandler: "And yet I never run into Beyonc̩!" - Friends 10 Sarcastic Quotes from Books"I am free of all prejudice. I hate everyone equally." - WC Fields, The Best of WC Fields. "I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book." - Groucho Marx, The Essential Groucho. "Just because you have the emotional range of a teaspoon doesn't mean we all have." РHermione Granger, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix. "If you think nobody cares about you, try missing a couple of payments." - Steven Wright, The Complete Works of Steven Wright. "I don't want to go to heaven. None of my friends are there." - Oscar Wilde, The Wit and Wisdom of Oscar Wilde. "A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin, The Pleasure of My Company. "If you are going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill, Memoirs of the Second World War. "Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead." - Charles Bukowski, Burning in Water, Drowning in Flame. "It's not that I'm so smart, it's just that I stay with problems longer." - Albert Einstein, Essays in Humanism. "Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe." - Albert Einstein, The World As I See It. All gifs are from TenorSarcastic Humor: Use with Caution Sarcasm is a linguistic acrobat capable of turning a conversation on its head in a millisecond. When used thoughtfully and positively, sarcasm can tickle the funny bone and tighten the bond between friends. But a misplaced sarcastic comment can just as quickly deflate a mood. So remember these dos and don'ts of sarcasm the next time you're itching for a witty comeback. To be funny is cool, but kindness is way better. Are you a fan of sarcastic humor? What's your favorite sarcastic quote?
Books Reading On A Budget: How To Feed Your Book Obsession 1:18 AM Hi, I’m Lux. I’m a book addict. And I’ve got good news for my fellow bookaholics. Unraveling the magic of books shouldn't break the bank! There is a way. Let’s explore some practical strategies for feeding your book obsession affordably so you can keep reading on a budget. I’m talking from experience here, so you can trust me on this.1. Embrace Library Resources One of the best ways to read on a budget is by utilizing your local library. With a library membership, you can borrow books for free, access a wide selection of titles, and explore e-books and audiobooks through digital library platforms. Make the most of these valuable resources to expand your reading options without spending a dime. Tumblr2. Discover E-Books and Digital Libraries E-books and digital libraries provide affordable reading options. Explore platforms that offer low-cost or free e-book downloads. You'll be amazed at the vast selection, perfect for budget-conscious book lovers.Project Gutenberg: A vast collection of over 60,000 free e-books, including classics and out-of-print titles, available in various formats.Open Library: An open, editable library catalog that offers access to millions of e-books, including contemporary titles and historical texts, in partnership with libraries worldwide.Librivox: A volunteer-driven platform that provides free audiobooks of public domain books narrated by volunteers worldwide.ManyBooks: A digital library offering a wide range of free e-books covering various genres, with options to download in different formats for easy compatibility.Google Books: An extensive online database that allows users to preview and access a vast collection of books, including full texts of out-of-copyright works and limited previews of copyrighted books.Giphy3. Buy at Secondhand Bookstores and Thrift Shops This has been my saving grace before my husband bought me a Kindle. Not only did I find great but cheap books (more than a fraction of the original price), but I also felt like I was stepping into a magical place inside a secondhand bookstore. Pre-loved books have a certain charm that you can’t find in newly published ones. There’s like a history and mystery there. My best buy was a well-loved mystery novel for $1.70. Affordable used books and thrift shop finds are the best.Goodreads4. Join Book Swaps or Reading Communities Participate in book swaps or join reading communities to share and exchange books. Not only can you discover new titles, but you can also reduce expenses by borrowing books from fellow enthusiasts. After reading, you’d engage with like-minded readers, swap theories, and share your love for literature. Hey, you wanna be book buddies? I share reading tips, short book reviews, recommendations, and funny memes on my Instagram account @booksandblogs_lux. Follow me there!Giphy5. Utilize Discounted Booksellers Discounted booksellers, online retailers, and regular book sales are excellent resources for cost-effective reading. Watch for discounted books and special promotions to expand your collection without straining your budget. With some research, you can find affordable books and save money while satisfying your bookworm cravings.Book Outlet: Book Outlet offers discounted books at up to 90% off the retail price, featuring a wide range of genres and new releases, making it a fantastic choice for bookworms on a budget.ThriftBooks: ThriftBooks is a famous online bookstore that sells high-quality used books at affordable prices, with an extensive selection and a rating system to ensure customer satisfaction.Better World Books: Better World Books offers discounted books and supports literacy initiatives, with each purchase contributing to global literacy efforts, making it an excellent choice for socially conscious readers looking for great deals.6. Embrace E-Book Deals and Promotions Keep an eye out for e-book deals, discounts, and promotional offers. Many platforms offer limited-time promotions where you can find heavily discounted or even free e-books. Sign up for newsletters or follow your favorite e-book retailers to stay updated on the latest deals and maximize your reading budget.And watch out for Amazon’s Stuff Your Kindle Days. This 2023, you can add books to your Kindle like crazy on March 31, June 30, September 20, and December 27. GiphyReading on a BudgetReading on a budget doesn't mean sacrificing your love for books. I should know! These budget-friendly ways to read will expand your reading horizons without hurting your wallet. Feed your book obsession affordably (yes, not only am I a book addict but also an enabler), indulge in literary adventures, and discover new authors and genres. With these tips and affordable resources, you can continue to enjoy your books while staying true to your budget. Happy reading!Check out my top romance novel recommendations categorized by tropes.
