Dating 15 Signs You're Comfortable Being Single 2:14 AM It's good for a person to spend time alone. It gives them an opportunity to discover who they are and to figure out why they are always alone. -Amy Sedaris This post was originally written for and posted on Thought Catalog. 15 Signs You're Comfortable Being Single 1. You’re okay staying in on a beautiful weekend. You don't call random people to hang out on a sunny Saturday. You'd raYou’dcatch up on your reading or watch your favorite re-runs. 2. You are sincerely happy about your friends' milestones, engagements, weddings, and new babies. 3. You don't get uncomfortable when you go out with other couples. 4. You can dine out, watch a movie or travel alone. 5. When someone asks about your relationship status, you answer honestly without batting an eye because you don't think it's embarrassing or lame to be alone in a couple-filled world. 6. Your calendar is always full: vacations, breakfast/lunch/dinner with old friends, movie dates with your siblings or friends, seminars, and other essential activities outside work/school.7. When people think something's wrong with you because you’re single, you conclude that there’s wrong with them. 8. You don't know how it is to be dating or in a relationship anymore, and it doesn't bother you one bit.How many times do you need to send them messages? Which decisions do you need to consult with them about? (And why?). 9. You ignore the sweet nothings you receive in your inbox or phone because you don’t have time for someone you know is not severe or is not showing potential for a partner. 10. You are genuinely happy with where you are right now, even when things aren't going your way.11. Your plans may involve settling down, but you're not pressured to do it any time soon. 12. You hate asking someone's permission to buy something or go somewhere. So you come, and you go as you please. 13. You enjoy your own company, so you don’t feel like missing out on something. 14. Your heart goes out to those who are afraid to be alone and wish they’ll see the light and embrace singleness rather than be in an unhappy relationship only because they want to feel secure. 15. You’re not bitter about your failed relationships anymore. You are actually grateful that it ended. If it didn’t, you wouldn't be this happy right now.How comfortable - and happy - are you with your status?Hero image
Dating Finding The Right Shoes And The Right Partner 1:44 AM Finding The Right Shoes And The Right Partner Finding love is like finding shoes. People go after the good-looking ones, but they end up choosing the one they feel comfortable with. -Unknown Finding the Right Shoes and the Right PartnerJournal entryOctober 13, 20108:21 PMScouting the stores to find the perfect pair of shoes is like searching the world for a life partner. Giphy You search far and wide, seeking with anticipation and a heart full of hope. You even try your luck online.You don't want to settle for the cute affordable pair though it's your perfect fit. Maybe because it hurts your toes. The materials used aren't comfortable and durable enough.It's not compatible.You realize you can't endure the pain in exchange for its cheap price. You won't let the perfect physical look deceive you. If it hurts, you let it go. No matter how good it looks. If it won't let you go places and enjoy your freedom, it has no place in your closet. In your life.If it's too expensive and comfy, you scrutinize every inch. Is it really worth it? What if it will leave you with nothing in the end? What if it just looks good, you grit your teeth and pay the price but later on find out it's not the perfect fit?You've been taken advantage of. So you search, and search, and continue searching for the right pair---or the right partner. You never get tired. You don't listen to those telling you to give up and just settle for what's there.Even though they mock your standards. Every day your belief that finding the one that suits you best is almost within reach. You continue to look for the one believing that you will find. You hold on to your vision. You realize that there is joy in waiting, and there is so much to learn in the process. You get to know yourself more; what you really want and what you will not compromise. So you carry on. The world is so big, and the choices seem endless. In your heart, you know you will find the one that's specially made for you. Maybe it's in the next corner waiting for you to claim it at the right time.You keep on keeping on. GiphyBecause you know in the end, finding the right shoes...and the right partner is worth the long quest.This post contains affiliate links so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you.
Dating About Hush Puppies And Finding Your One True Love 11:26 PM Our feet are one of the most overworked and neglected parts of our bodies. Last weekend I went shopping with my friend and saw a big SALE sign.Hush Puppies.Because my current pair's already on the verge of giving up on me, we went inside.And there I found...Comfortable. Stylish. Great quality pairs. Like that cute little puppy that wags its tail when it sees you come home, these things bring comfort. This shoe shopping got me thinking...About Hush Puppies and Finding Your One True Love Searching for the right pair of shoes is like finding your one true love. There are many prospects out there. You'd be tempted to take the one that looks stylish. Unless you try it on though, you'll never know if it's right for you. Most of the time, it isn't. Sad but true. Looks could really be deceiving. So you move on and look for another one. The search seems endless and futile.If you're not patient, you'll settle for what's there in front of you. Regardless if you like it or not.But settling for less will only make you regret your decision in the end. Learn to enjoy the waiting moment and the search. The longer the journey, the sweeter it will be when you finally arrive at your destination.The more challenging the search, the more you'll cherish it when you find it.The pain you endured while walking around looking...The frustration that comes with disappointment if it doesn't fit...It'll be worth it. I promise.And bring a friend with you!A patient friend who also believes you'll be victorious in the end.A friend who wants the best for you. Who will not abandon you when the going gets tough.A friend who can help you see reason.Friends are angels in disguise. When you finally found the one, you'll be thankful for all those that didn't work out. They'll help you treasure the right one.They'll make you see the difference. The right pair of shoes, as with your one true love, doesn't have to be perfect. Nothing is. It just has to be the right fit.It should make you feel at home. Comfortable. And like you can go places. I'm glad I finally found the one... The one pair of shoes, that is. 😁Edit: I wrote this when I was single. The search for the right one is finally over. I'm now happily married to my husband who is my home, my comfort, and who makes me feel like I can go places. This post contains affiliate links. Meaning I get a commission if you purchase through my links at no additional cost to you. This helps me maintain my site. Thanks in advance.
