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Can A Life Coach Help You Find True Love?

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Can A Life Coach Help You Find True Love?

Can A Life Coach Help You Find True Love? 

For the last few years I have been struggling to find someone I can share my life with. When I turned 36 it started to hit me that I only had a short window in which I could still bare children and all of a sudden I could feel my biological clock ticking. All of my friends were married with children and I started to believe that something was wrong with me.

As I began to seek support from friends and family, some suggested that I find a life coach who specializes in women my age who are looking to find their soulmate. After doing some searching I found a great coach who instantly understood my situation and was able to pinpoint exactly what was going on and why I was struggling to find a companion.

The first thing she did was have me read the book Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Discovering the Love of Your Life. The author, Daphne Rose Kingma emphasizes the importance of spiritual and emotional preparation for love which, if undertaken, will result in discovering the love of your life.

She describes the four qualities necessary for love: faith, trust, intention, and surrender. She divides the discussion into four parts, each devoted to one of the qualities and exploring its part in attaining the emotional and spiritual attitudes required for finding the love of one’s life.

Through sensible steps and advice, she challenges readers to uncover and discover the reasons they have not found a fulfilling relationship ― and to set it right.

The two things that immediately stood out for me was trust and surrender. I really had a hard time with them in past relationships and my life coach helped me to see how I was self sabotaging myself every time I met a new man. First and foremost, because I had an old wound from the past that had not been healed (my first boyfriend cheated on me), I would enter every new relationship having trust issues.

As I looked back on my previous relationship, I could see how I was probably driving him nuts because I could never fully trust him as I always feared whether or not he was going to cheat on me. Because of this, I knew that I ended up pushing him away and once I finally accepted responsibility and own it, I was able to begin the healing process.

And because of my lack of trust issues, I was never able to fully surrender in any relationship. As my life coach and I did some analysis work, I was able to see how my inability to surrender probably made the men in my life feel like I had a wall up.

So after six months of work with my life coach, I was finally able to meet the man of my dreams and I can honestly say that I truly feel we will spend the rest of our lives together.

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  1. Oh, I do pray God's best for sweet friend.
    I am happy you have found someone๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

    Hugs Lux.