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Every Woman Has The Exact Love Life She Wants

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We may not always get what we want, 
but God makes sure that we get what we NEED.



The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge
Day 6: Sound off on the quote “Every woman has the exact love life she wants”


True or false? 

Nobody wants to get hurt, played, rejected, deserted, betrayed or replaced.

I don't think anyone wants that to happen to them in the first place. I don't think there's one sane person who wakes up and say, "I want to be taken for granted and feel unloved today."    

But why does it happen?

Maybe because they allow it to happen subconsciously. I'm reminded of my favorite quote from one of my favorite chick flicks, The Perks of Being a Wallflower:

"We accept the love we think we deserve."


Every Woman Has The Exact Love Life She Wants

Maybe these women have experiences in the past that made them believe they ought to tolerate the unjust treatment they get from their partners.

Maybe that unhealthy relationship is their "homing instinct" into which they come back again and again to get that familiar feeling that unbeknownst to them is making them comfortable and secure.

Maybe they hope someday everything will change.

Maybe they've accepted their fate and stopped asking or looking for something better altogether.

Maybe that's the way they love; unconditionally, blindly, totally.  

And through years of observing others and from personal experience, I've learned.
We can't control what happens to us but we can control how we react to it.

So I think the quote “Every woman has the exact love life she wants” does not apply to everyone. It's a beautiful reminder though.

Let's always be aware of where we are, look at things or situations from a third person's perspective, and check if we are receiving what we deserve to have or just accepting what the world says we should have.

This is our reality check.

We may not always get what we want, but God makes sure that we get what we NEED.
That at least is something we can all believe in.



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