People This World Was Not Ready For Michael Jackson 7:00 PM I'm feeling like God brought him here, gave him to us, and God took him back. This world was not ready for it. -Jermaine Jackson A Michael Jackson fan thinking out loud: This World Was Not Ready For Michael Jackson We are all put on earth for a purpose, for a mission. Some of us spend our whole lives looking for it, some don't even care what their mission is. They don't search their soul. Content on living day after day on autopilot, walking around like zombies. Some people are blessed enough to have the clarity and vision of what they are here for at an early age. Michael Jackson is one of those blessed few who has always known his purpose. That is, to share to the world the union with the divine which he claims he gets in his music, to share his talent, to spread happiness and love to everyone, especially to those who need it the most. It's a shame that those who couldn't figure out what their lives are about or what their purpose in life is, made him the target of their empty lives. They tried to suck out all the energy he had. They tried to steal from him the light that he saw which they couldn't have. I think more than anything else, it's envy. They couldn't handle the thought of someone as great as Michael Jackson walking on earth with them while they go around figuring things out, frustrated. They didn't know how to deal with this phenomenal being with clarity and passion, with a quiet powerful force in him. They couldn't handle it. They hated that Michael Jackson reminded them of their emptiness and mediocrity. And I'm sorry that an innocent man like Michael Jackson had to suffer their uncontrollable, senseless, childish, miserable act of envy; despite him giving the world his all, his best, his life. Sad. See also: Ramblings Of A Neophyte Michael Jackson Fan 5 Reasons To Love Michael Jackson Photos from Google images. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Life Lessons 10 Random Life Lessons From Various Perspectives 6:00 PM Some life lessons you learn by simply observing the way others live, by reading books, listening to talks or by being told straight to your face by someone wiser. Most life lessons come from first hand experience, which needless to say, those you learned the hardest way. Often, we take things for granted that we fail to see their value until it's too late. Here are 10 of those random life lessons that may be trivial, mostly overlooked or common knowledge for some, but are helpful nonetheless. 10 Random Life Lessons 1. Sometimes we are so busy looking for someone or something better we fail to realize we have what's best for us all the while. 2. Those who seldom talk can speak words that can change the way you look at things than those who blabber all the time. 3. Love is not always enough to sustain a relationship. It should always come with respect, trust and hard work. 4. The person who brings you happiness can be the very same person who could bring you pain. Tweet 5. The world will not stop and grieve for your heartbreak. You need to get up and carry on with your life no matter how heavy your feelings are. 6. You either think before you act, or act before you think. The first will save you a lifetime of regrets, the second will earn you temporary happiness and a lifetime of grief. 7. Telling a person not to be angry is like saying he does not have the right to feel hurt or that his feelings are invalid. Often behind the mask of anger is a really hurt soul. 8. You have to master the skill of listening to what the other person is NOT saying. That's where the truth hides. 9. Your partner will always be flawed, just like you. Accept her. 10. It doesn't matter how many books you've read or how many degrees you've earned. There is always something new to learn every day. What life lesson did you have to learn the hard way?
Lux Thinking Aloud #Blessed And Not Bragging: Declaring God's Grace 6:00 PM You don't see the world as it is; you see it as you are.-Krishna Saagar They say #blessed is the new way to brag. Humble bragging, they call it. I don't get it. Since when did knowing, believing, claiming, and declaring that you are blessed become bragging? Here's my take on the #blessed. Believe and declare At The Feast, we are encouraged to dream big. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13). Because we are blessed. We learn to focus on the good things in life and see them as blessings.We practice declaring we are blessed every day, no matter what the situation is. We are reminded to always have a grateful heart. Part of the Feast's Declaration of Abundance says: Today, I proclaim that I'm God's Beloved, I'm God's Servant, I'm God's powerful champion. And because I am blessed, I am blessing the world. In Jesus' Name, Amen. I don't see anything wrong with declaring that beautiful truth. If you believe you are blessed and want to use that blessing to bless others, that's a winner's mindset. Everyone will benefit from it. "Faith Words aren't just mere positive affirmations; they open your life up to the supernatural power of God." (Bo Sanchez). Giphy Crab mentalityThe term "crab mentality" refers to a mindset that can be summarized as "if I'm not able to have it, then neither are you." Can't we be genuinely happy for others and allow their story to inspire us instead? Envy kills. Giphy Choose what you propagate. If you can spread rumors, trash-talk the government, cancel a celebrity or someone you hate, or share disturbing viral photos and videos, why can't you spread positivity? In the world today, when you feel crappy or angry, you can vent out so easily. People like it when you air your dirty laundry. But when you post feel-good words or photos, you are a hypocrite, a liar, or a bragger. Sharing motivational quotes or heartwarming stories can make another person's day. Sharing your blessings has always been a good thing. I don't see any reason why we should stop now. Tenor There's no pleasing everybody.There will always be those who are quick to find fault in everything. If there is none, they will make something up. Not everyone will be happy for you. Not everyone will celebrate with you. And that's okay. Unsubscribe From Other People's Drama. Giphy Sad reality It's sad when you think about it. That the world does not believe in blessings anymore. For many, the concept of being blessed seems hard to process, accept and understand. That to be blessed looks too good to be true. Are we really that far from believing the truth? Giphy Sharing the good is false and prideful, while rumors, scandals, and bad news spread like wildfire and amuse and entertain the public. The truth that you are blessed is implied and written throughout the Bible. Regardless of your religion, is it really that hard to believe that it is possible to live a blessed life? What's your take on #blessed? Do you think that people who use that hashtag are merely bragging?
Life Lessons 8 Things to Remember When Trolls Attack 6:00 PM One's dignity may be assaulted, vandalized, and cruelly mocked, but it can never be taken away unless it is surrendered. - Michael J. Fox Bullies are everywhere—in schools, workplaces, and all over the internet. They’re always ready to tear you down. We're all vulnerable victims. I suggest remembering these 8 things when trolls attack you next time. 8 Things to Remember When Trolls Attack 1. Trolls are envious. Your haters hate you because you're you. They're envious of your ideas, of your conviction, of your happiness, of what you have. Envy or jealousy is a cancer of the soul. It can destroy someone, causing them to kill others around them. You remind them of something they can't have, or you tell the truth that they have yet to accept. Your success reminds them of their being stuck. Your happiness prompts them to look into their lives and realize they've much to work on. When a troll attacks you, remember that it's not about you. It's about them and their underlying issues. Thank the heavens you are not in their place. 2. Trolls are hungry for love. Michael Jackson was and still is being bullied big time. When asked what he thinks about his detractors, he replied, "They just need more love." Trolls have been deprived of love, and bitterness and anger consume them, making them resent anyone who is doing better or is happier. When you allow love to enter your life, there is no room for hate. When a troll attacks you, remember that they are hungry for love, and it is not your mission to fix them. Try to love them from a distance. 3. Trolls are desperate for attention. Some kids in school think annoying someone is a cool move to get everybody talking. Sadly, some of these kids never really grow up. When they enter the adult world, they use the same strategy. They want people to talk about them, and they will do anything to do that. They probably did not receive enough attention from their parents when they were children, so they had to scream or throw a tantrum just to get noticed. Or they were oppressed and wanted to be heard so desperately. When a troll attacks you, remember that they just want you to notice them. Desperate people will do anything to get what they want, including seeking the world's attention. The best way to handle this is not to give them the attention they seek but to ignore them until they learn to let go and move on. Hopefully, they will make their lives better and not look for another victim. 4. Trolls are toddlers trapped in an adult's body. Kids bullying kids, though still unacceptable, is understandable. They don't understand much, and they react the way kids react when they want love and attention. But adults who bully others are ridiculous. It's okay to be childlike, even in the Bible Jesus taught us to learn from children. To be childish is a different story. When toddlers throw a tantrum, it's somehow expected. When adults do it, it's embarrassing to witness, somehow amusing, but deeply disturbing. When a troll attacks you, remember that they just need to grow up. They are 4-year-olds trying to break free from a 40-year-old body. Again, it's not your job to fix them. 5. Trolls are miserable.And misery loves company. If trolls can't be happy, they'll probably try to ruin your day too. When a troll attacks you, remember that it's not easy to live in misery. Show them kindness. 6. Trolls are scared of their own monster. Some people can't face their own monsters, so they look for "prey" to escape. They unconsciously become monsters themselves, attacking others. Those who always criticize other people's lives are those who can't confront and correct the wrongs in their own lives. They often point out others' mistakes, failing to examine their own, or more accurately, refusing to acknowledge their faults. This could be because they're comforted by the thought that they're not the only ones with flaws or that they want to highlight your wrongs so theirs could be covered up or ignored. Or that the more they focus on or magnify your flaws, the more their faults pale in comparison. When a troll attacks you, remember that they're just trying to escape their own demons, not realizing they become demons themselves. Pray for their healing. 7. Trolls find your life more interesting than theirs. If you've got no goals, no direction, no purpose, or if you can't find anything better to do, you get interested in other people's business. When a troll attacks you, remember that they're bored and are looking for some entertainment. Your life seems more interesting than theirs, so they pick on you. Just carry on with your busy, fulfilling life. 8. Trolls are not able to communicate effectively. We are all unique, and we think differently. It's no surprise that we have different beliefs. Some of us, however, are not as kind or respectful when expressing our disagreement. When a troll attacks you, remember that they may just be trying to express their opinion without meaning to sound "trollish." Give them the benefit of the doubt. It might be how you interpret the message, so ask for clarification. How to Handle TrollsNow that people spend more time on the internet and can express themselves more freely, bullies hide behind the safety of their computers. Sometimes, they hide behind usernames or use "anonymous" accounts, while others fake bravery by showing their faces and using their real names, still at the comfort that you can't reach them anyway. It's often tempting to go down to their level (which obviously is LOW), but if you really think about it, cyber-bullying is a very pathetic and lonely act that we should really feel sorry for these trolls. You can never please everybody, and you should never try. With toxic people, you can never seem to do anything right. Damn if you do, damn if you don't. Bullying or trolling is for desperate, lonely, empty, and miserable individuals. Instead of retaliating, we should seek to understand them, treat them with kindness, and pray for them. When a troll attacks you, remember that they're trying to pull you down because you're above them. When a troll attacks you, be the bigger person, take the high road, and remember how blessed you are that you don't have to live and think the way they do. photo credit
Lux Thinking Aloud Dance In The Rain 7:00 PM Dance In The Rain We have to work hard; we have to work smart We need to invest our money and save it...we need to start We've got to deal with heartbreaks; we have to feel the pain When all we really need to do is to dance in the rain. I know growing old is inevitable, but do we really need to grow up? What’s wrong with being a child inside? It’s not like we'll get stuck. We just have to hold on to that innocence and sense of wonder and not be afraid to fail, We must not let go of that magic we get when we dance in the rain. We need to see the world in the purest, most uncomplicated way Stop the unnecessary war, end this greedy, selfish play All these innocent lives taken, homes broken, and the world destroyed What is there really to gain? Stop this world destruction now; let’s dance in the rain. If we only learn to love like a child (or a dog!), no buts, no ifs, Only honesty, kindness, and truth leave our lips Then we can all live in prosperity and harmony, no one will complain Maybe we can all run under the sun or dance in the rain. When was the last time you danced in the rain?
