4 Clear Signs A Woman Wants to Be Approached

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4 Clear Signs A Woman Wants to Be Approached
Flirting is a woman’s trade, one must keep in practice.
-Charlotte Brontë

How often have you had doubts about whether a girl wants you to approach her or not? Did you end up taking no action? Are you waiting for signs?

It's common for men to want to see that a woman is interested before they make a move. A woman rarely initiates contact. Most of the time, the lady in her would rather give a signal that she wants him to approach her. 

Men often can’t decipher those signals. 

So Russian wives decided to help them. Here are four clear signs a woman wants you to approach her and make a move.

1. She makes steady eye contact.

People maintain prolonged eye contact only if they are interested in a person. 

If you spot a girl and want to know whether she minds you approaching her or not, try to make eye contact.

If she ignores you and turns her head in another direction, it's safe to say she is not interested. 

If you’re in a crowded place, look around and see if girls are trying to make eye contact with you. 

Here's a tell-tale sign she wants you to approach her: 

You look her in the eye. She looks away and then looks at you again...with a smile.

Sign A Woman Wants to Be Approached: She makes eye contact

2. She's checking you out.

Sometimes a woman is not really shy to make the first move. But she enjoys the thrill of waiting for the man to approach her. So she'd rather send signals. 

Here's a classic move: 

After giving you an intimate look, she'll shift the gaze to your chest. And make eye contact again.

Sometimes she'll look you up and down with an approving smile, smize, or smirk.

Some confident women may wink at you or bite their lips once they catch your eye. 

This is a sign a woman wants to be approached. An "I like what I'm seeing" and "It's time for you to take action, Romeo." statement.

Sign A Woman Wants to Be Approached: She's checking you out

3. She's talking through body language.

Non-verbal communication is often more subtle and more powerful than verbal communication. 

If a woman is interested in a man, she sends him invitation signals. Sometimes unconsciously, but her body betrays her.

Look at how she plays with her hair, strokes her wrist or neck, and crosses and uncrosses her legs.

Pay attention to her posture...

She is ready for new acquaintances if she sits or stands in an open position and her arms are not crossed. 

A tricky thing about body language is that one sign can mean nothing. 

That’s why you should look for more indicators to ensure she wants you to approach her. 

She could just be confident and carefree, and you're reading it wrong. But then again, you'll never know until you try. 

Sign A Woman Wants to Be Approached: Her body language

4. She accidentally touches you.

Picture this:

You’re at the bar, and a woman passes by. She accidentally touches you...

Even when there's plenty of room around. 

Well, she must really want to get your attention. 

She may also come closer, stand near you, and cast side glances in your direction. 

Closing the distance between you is another strategy. 

It means she's ready to be approached. She's making it much easier for you to say hello.

What are you waiting for? Make a move.

Sign A Woman Wants to Be Approached: She accidentally touches you
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How to tell if a woman wants you to approach her?

Has a woman shown you interest in any of these ways? Or have you experienced this and thought it was a sign, but you're wrong? 

Don't be discouraged. Not knowing what to expect is what makes the dating world more exciting.

Keep trying. 

And most importantly...

Treat every woman with respect and dignity. 

Whether she verbally says "no" or demonstrates that she's not interested, give her space. 

Be courteous.

Who knows, your good character might make her change her mind, and you'll end up hitting off.

Meanwhile, watch out for the major signs that a girl wants you to approach her the next time you go out.

Good luck!

Article contributed by the MeetWife Dating site.

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  1. Very insightful, Lux. Thanks so much for sharing.

  2. Aha! Mine would be accidentally conversation lol I am too chicken to stare at the guys, so I would rather move near and start the conver lol

  3. Very interesting ;)
    Mónica Sors

  4. Great Post! Really true :)

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  6. It's been so long I don't remember, but these all sound right to me. You have to let the guy know you're interested and then let him take it from there.

    Have a fabulous day. ☺

  7. Amazing post! Very entertaining.

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  8. Hi, Lux!

    I learned these body language signs years ago and studied them in seminars. I'll never forget the time my radar malfunctioned. I was at a nightclub and a young woman I found attractive kept looking at me from across the room. To my surprise and delight, she finally got up and approached me. It turned out that she wanted me to go back to her table with her so that I could meet her single MOTHER! :)

    Have a great week, dear friend Lux!

  9. Hmm very interesting - I might have to pay a little more attention in case I'm ever doing any of these accidentally haha! Have a great week ahead..

  10. aww steady eye contact gives me chills ♥

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  11. Heehee. These are so true!

  12. Very good collection of social cues. Some of them can be used to simply make new friends. Sometimes friends become lovers, sometimes not. I met a new friend in a library in 1968. We have 4 grandchildren now.

  13. Com aquela máscara dá pra ficar com os cílios maravilhosos! *.*

    Quando estamos na vibe de alguém mandamos mil sinais. Mas às vezes isso não é o suficiente! hahaha!

    Ótima segunda!

    Beijo! ^^

  14. body language says it all ... or maybe more than we ever realized, huh?

    thanks for the insight, Lux ...

  15. The smile, the smile, the smile! :-) That happened to me 20 years ago and we'res still together! :-)

    Greetings from London.

  16. Interesting post!:) Hey stop shearing our secretes with all the world :)))

  17. It's tough for men to know when to approach women so hopefully your post will give them plenty of pointers!

  18. Such a cute post! Smiles and eye contact are certainly clear signs :)

  19. those are intriguing tips from a female perspective ... would definitely be enlightening for many men! ;)

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  21. Great tips- and so true! :)

    Le Stylo Rouge

  22. haha,,,, this certainly is going to help out a lot of men.. Interesting one :D

  23. I agree to all this. Nice read.

  24. I am sure there are more than four signs.

  25. I'm actually pretty aware of this because in school we had a study of human behaviour lesson where we also deduced the movements that ladies and males too make in order to interact or show interest. It's amazing what small and subtle things we sometimes do!

  26. Thank you very much, valuable clues, I've always been very clumsy!

  27. This is so insightful, it's so weird how these cues are given off

    Rachel xx

  28. Hehe, what a nice article!
    I guess I agree with you because all of these tips are so true!


  29. It's been so long since I've been in the market, but you're spot on. Body language is the key, eh?

  30. That's amazing!
    Have a nice week-end!
    Gil Zetbase

  31. É realmente importante! ;D

    Ótima quarta!

    Beijo! ^^

  32. Dear Lux, Had to smile about GEO's comment. Said he met a friend in a library 48 years ago and now has 4 grandchildren. But he didn't tell us if he used any of these 4 techniques to meet her. I'll bet he did ... these are great. :-)

  33. Hehe! I agree with eye contact!

  34. great post and interesting too.I love some of the comments,they are really funny

  35. Most things that you say don't come out of your mouth.. body language and eye contact is always a sure way to say you're interested. Very nice post.

    Kia / KTS

  36. Hehehe this is a really helpful article. The comments are just as good. Thank you Lux

  37. I remember doing all of these things when I was single!


  38. thanks for the post !
    I think my boyfriend fell in love because I'm a weirdo :D

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  39. true 😀

  40. Awwgwghh! Luxxxxyyyy!! Your Blog shaa!! Choi!! I love me how It is a Touch of EVERYTHING! I lovveeett! I definitely needed this oh! I mean now that I know yeah.. Its hit me that sooooo many time.. the girls were literally showing me signs.. but there i was.. too ignorant to see :( and too sad as to how i am still single :(

    Thanks for sharing Luxxy!! You Rock! Mwaaah!

  41. I don't miss the dating game one bit, ha ha! Thanks for sharing with us on #FridayFrivolity

  42. I enjoyed reading this. All very factual. Now the cat's out of the bag, lol.

  43. Yes. But please remember if you have misread - no DOES mean no.