Lux Thinking Aloud Really Truly Blissful 4:06 PM A grateful heart is a happy heart. The The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge Day 14: Describe The Last Moment You Felt Really, Truly Blissful It's so easy to make me happy. Chick flicks, good music, a corny joke, a slice of cheesecake, shopping for less, book fairs, visiting a new place. These are just a few simple things that can put a smile on my face. Really Truly Blissful The last time I felt really truly blissful though was when my blog 9,000++ views! For some it's not a big deal, but for me who's baring my soul to my readers (no matter how few I believe they are) and wanting to impart wisdom and encouragement from my great experiences to the boo boos I made, it is huge! It's an accomplishment! I don't know how many people viewed my blog for how many times or if they liked what they saw or even cared to read it. Maybe some just closed the window right after the page loaded. Nevertheless, looking at my stat and seeing 9,000++ views (and counting every minute) gives me bliss. Reading the comments too and knowing that there are people who are also going through the same phase and that they learn from what they read gives me self-fulfillment. It's knowing that I have impacted in my own little way, the lives of others and that I made someone feel less alone is a huge bonus. Some readers would tell me that I did help enlighten them, they learned from what they read or that they're going through something and reading some of my posts is so timely for them. I made them feel better afterwards. That gives me the sense of satisfaction knowing that I'm serving the purpose of my life. I always say that I am not a good writer technically, but I always write from the heart (even when it's bleeding sometimes). So, thank you to everyone who wasted a few minutes of their time visiting my page, those who wasted an extra more to send me an email or drop a comment or two. If you think I've helped you feel better and made a difference in your lives, you don't know how you make this soul sings with gladness every time you drop by her page. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU! Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
The Story Of Warren Buffet 8:01 AM Honesty is a very expensive gift, Don't expect it from cheap people. -Warren Buffet The first time I heard Warren Buffet's story, I was amazed. How can someone so wealthy remain so down to earth? More importantly, how can someone so simple became the world's greatest money maker? See for yourself.
Day 13: The Last Person I Texted 2:48 PM The Single Woman’s 30-Day Blogging Challenge Day 13: Describe How You Met The Last Person You Texted And Talk About Your Friendship/Relationship Today's topic will reveal how often I text. Answer: once in a blue moon. I don't like texting so I only text when it's important, if I need to ask or reply to a query, if I need to meet someone and discuss the meeting, etc. (I guess somebody in the past overused and abused the power of texting on me and made me lost my faith in it. Good reason enough). Anyway, to answer today's topic, the last person I texted was my housemate and it's me asking a favor; "Please buy me this for lunch". I know, not that grand. My housemate and I are officemates so my relationship with this person is that we're workmates, we live under the same roof and we share common interests including our love for the same T.V series like How I Met Your Mother and Big Bang Theory. Nothing much to say yet because I just moved in a couple of months ago, but so far, since we both give each other the space and the freedom we both need I'd say we live harmoniously, no fuss whatsoever. Today's topic reminds me that maybe I really do need to try harder in communicating or staying connected with the people in my life. That includes texting more often and not just relying on Facebook as, let's face it, not everyone's got the time to go online everyday. Lesson learned.
Lux Thinking Aloud My Proudest Accomplishment 2:31 PM Helping someone reach their dreams is far better than any material things put together. The Single Woman's 30-Day Blogging Challenge Day 12: Your Proudest Accomplishment My proudest accomplishment so far is that I was able to help my siblings finish college. Do I get an applause for that? See, it's not easy. While some yuppies are enjoying and splurging, I was budgeting my money to the last cent because I've got tuition fees and school projects to pay. I couldn't buy that pair of shoes or bag I so coveted at the mall because I need to send some cash for allowance. During that time I admit it kind of sucked. I'm working my ass off to earn and I couldn't even enjoy the fruit of my labor. Looking back though, that experience taught me to be more generous, more selfless and it even helped me sort out my priorities in life. I've learned early on (as early as 21) the difference between needs and wants. Delaying gratification has the best results. Helping someone reach their dreams is far better than any material things put together. For this I could proudly say I'm not just wealthy, I'm truly rich. Linked here. Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks! Subscribe to About Life And Love by Email
Lux Thinking Aloud I'm A Once In A Lifetime Kind Of Woman 1:18 AM I'm a once-in-a-lifetime kind of woman. "I am not just a one-in-a-million kind of girl. I am rare. I am precious." Claim that, ladies! Don't buy the lies that boys say to get to your pants. You are worth the effort. You are worth the wait. You are valuable. You are worth more than eight cows (read the story's reference here). Don't dumb yourself down so you'll be more approachable. Don't shortchange yourself. Being choosy about the people you let into your life is okay. Protect your inner circle. Don't surround yourself with those who are not contributing to your well-being. When you finally free yourself from people who don't value you, you make more space for those who do. Don't let labels or stereotypes define you. Don't succumb to what society dictates. Be the Proverbs woman. Be like Ruth, who didn't sit around waiting for a man to rescue her situation. Raise your standards, and don't apologize for it. Be a once in a lifetime kind of woman so those who let you go thinking they can do better will realize that you're the one who got away. Never apologize for having high standards. People who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them. -Ziad K. Abdelnour
