This is a blog about life, love, and everything in between.
TL;DR/Quick Overview: This blog intentionally covers life lessons, relationship advice, book recommendations, and lifestyle content instead of focusing on one topic because real life doesn't fit into neat categories.
Key Takeaways
- This blog explores both life and love because they are interconnected.
- Features multi-topic posts that are insightful and entertaining.
- You'll find honest book reviews, literary suggestions, and real-life experiences and lessons that set this site apart from typical self-help or relationship sites.
Is this a blog about life and love?
What exactly will you find here?
Life stuff that actually helps
Life is beautiful and complex, and sometimes we all need practical advice that actually works in the real world.I write about these life topics, sharing what I've learned the hard way so you don't have to:
- Simple life hacks that make your day easier
- Real talk about money and career growth
- Travel stories and food recommendations
- Home decorating ideas and health tips
- Faith conversations and personal growth thoughts
Love and relationship content
Whether you're single and loving it, navigating the crazy world of dating, or working on a long-term relationship, we're all just trying to figure out how to love and be loved well.- Dating advice that actually works
- Marriage tips from someone who gets it
- Self-love practices for when you need them most
- Single life struggles and celebrations
How did this blog start?
I'm an introvert with really loud thoughts, so I needed somewhere to share them. I started 'Lux Thinking Aloud', originally an online journal that later evolved into the professional blog it is today.
Learn more about this blog's history here.
Why don't you just pick one topic?
When blogging experts told me to pick one topic, I thought, "but that's not how life works."
One day you might need dating advice, the next day you're looking for a good book recommendation, and the day after that you want tips for saving money.
Why visit five different blogs when you've got a friend here who can help with all of it? 😉
We think about our careers, our relationships, and our favorite books all in the same day (at least I do!).
So I decided to keep it real and talk about everything that matters to actual humans living actual lives.
Surprise for Every Visit
Isn't it exciting not knowing what you'll find when you visit here? Today, it could be relationship advice. Perhaps next week it will be the perfect book or movie for your mood.
Life is full of surprises. And so is this lifestyle blog.
Why do you blog so much about books?
I've totally embraced my bookish era.
If you love books as much as I do (or want to start loving them more), this blog is basically like having a book-obsessed friend who always has recommendations:
- Book reviews that tell you if it's worth your time
- Reading recommendations for every mood and reader type
- Tips for creating the perfect reading nook
- Gift ideas for the book lovers in your life
- Movie suggestions based on your favorite genre
Why should readers stick around?
I'll give you four excellent reasons why you should come waste your time with me:
It's hopeful.
I will not gloss over the ugliness of life. But I will always, always find the beauty in it.
It's authentic.
When you come here, you're getting honest thoughts from a real person about real life - not some perfectly curated content that pretends everything fits into neat little boxes.
It's insightful.
I've been attending webinars and counseling sessions. I'd love to share with you what I've picked up along the way!
This is your safe space.
The world could be so loud. Social media could be toxic. Consider this blog your safe space in life.
I'm basically your online pal, always excited to share books, relationship tips, or life stories with you.
I unabashedly share my wounds and battle scars to make you feel you're not alone in your journey.
Thank you, life lovers!
After fourteen years (can you believe it?), I am grateful to everyone who has stuck with the blog through its growth and changes.
If you're new here...welcome!
Grab a cup of coffee, browse around, and let's chat about life, love, and everything in between. I'm sincerely thrilled you're here!
FAQs
Is this blog really about both life AND love?
Absolutely! Because they're connected, aren't they? Your relationships affect your life goals, your personal growth impacts how you love others, and your lifestyle choices influence your dating life. It all fits together.
How often do you post new content?
Every week or so. Sometimes more than once a week (depending on my current workload). I share something new regularly because life is constantly evolving. Whether it's a book I just finished or a life lesson I learned the hard way, there's always something fresh to talk about.
Who is this blog for?
This blog is for anyone trying to figure out the whole 'adulting' thing! Whether you're single, dating, married, starting your career, or just trying to find new books to read - if you're human and you're living life, this blog is for you.
Can you help with my specific situation?
While I can't provide personal advice, I share many real-life experiences and practical tips that could be helpful. I can also offer some health knowledge since I am a licensed pharmacist.
I'm planning to follow my dream of studying Psychology. Pray that I find enough time to get there so I can truly be qualified to offer counseling.
For professional counseling, legal, financial, or medical advice, please consult qualified experts in those fields.
Do you actually read all these books you talk about?
Every. Single. One! I don't post fake reviews. I'm that person who stays up too late because "just one more chapter" and then wants to tell everyone about it. (If it were up to me, I would post all the books I read, which is waaaaay more than you'll see here.)
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What topics about life and love do you prefer to see more of in this blog?
11 comments
You do a great job with your blog and always give such good information.
ReplyDeleteI do enjoy the wide range of topics you feature! As you know, I love book reviews, but I also love travel and gardening. I would love to incorporate that more into my blog and like reading about it on other blogs, too.
ReplyDeleteGreat post. Everything is clear and understandable. I find this blog very inspiring. I enjoy reading it and will recommend it to others!
ReplyDeleteHi, Lux!
ReplyDeleteYou and I go back at least as far as Bared My Soul and perhaps all the way to Lux Thinking Aloud. Thank you for reintroducing the 2015 rebrand About Life And Love and reminding us about the variety of topics you cover here. I have continued to gravitate to your blog all this time because it casts a wide net. I never know what I will find here, but I know it will be interesting and useful. I love that you are an animal rights advocate and an introvert with really loud thoughts (same as me). Like you, I forged a career as a copywriter. I love how you share your life experiences. As you have seen over the years we have known each other, I like to share in my comments my own personal stories as they apply to the topic at hand.
Thank you for visiting Shady's Place in September. I officially return from my blog hiatus this coming Wednesday, Oct. 1, to kick-off Shadyween 2025. Hope you can come by and say hello. Have a wonderful weekend, dear friend Lux!
"I'm an introvert with really loud thoughts, so I needed somewhere to share them!" -- LOVE that you've found an outlet!
ReplyDeleteI love that you are sharing about this . It's always lovely to know more about the people behind the blogs. <3
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I totally agree that life doesn't fit into one neat category, so embracing the "life, love, and everything in between" style is the most authentic way to blog! It's so much better to have an online pal who can talk about dating, a great book, and career growth all at once.
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A blog about life and love sounds great. It's all about going with the flow.
ReplyDeleteWell said, just give us everything that you want :D
ReplyDeleteI like those topics - don't change a thing.
ReplyDeleteI've often seen the "stick to a topic" advice too ... and yet I never do. ;) I feel like that's s so boring. I guess if that means there isn't growth, well, having fun is more important. Thanks for visiting my list this week!
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