Lux Thinking Aloud The Word I Choose For 2023: No 5:59 PM What word are you choosing for 2023? I started my Word for the Year instead of New Year's Resolution years ago, and this year is no different. My word for 2023 is only a two-letter, monosyllabic one, but it's powerful. So powerful that even though it denotes negativity, you are encouraged to say it more often so you can live happy and healthy. The word I choose for 2023 is No.My Word for 2023: NoWhat is Saying No? Saying no is more than just refusing, declining an invitation, or disagreeing.Saying no is an art. It takes gumption to say no, especially to people you don't want to disappoint.Saying no shows how much you believe in what you stand for, regardless of how persuading or discouraging eternal forces are. (Remember the War on Drugs slogan, 'Just Say No'?).Saying no is an expression of self-love and self-respect. It's about being unapologetically you.Saying no means protecting yourself from people and things that can harm or distract you from your goals.Saying no is okay. It is healthy.And saying no is important if you want to improve your life.This 2023, I choose to say No more often.Because I want more sh** done. (That's my phrase for 2023, by the way. "Get it done.")How often do you say no? To other people and, most of all, to yourself? TenorWhy No is my word for 2023I choose to say No more this year, so I can say yes to better things.No to rehashing traumatic experiences in my head. Yes to acceptance, contentment, and peace.No to overthinking and what-ifs. Yes to embracing the present and all its beauty and ugly.No to believing and giving the time of day to the lies of the enemy. Yes to loving who I am and thanking God for making me this way.No to growing and nourishing the seed of doubt that past experiences and toxic people planted in me. Yes to seeing and treating myself with kindness and compassion.And No to little everyday things that impact my life significantly.GiphyEveryday things I'm saying No toNo to buying and eating cakes for no reason. I'm reserving that for special occasions now. No to One more chapter and One more episode. Oh, the lies we tell ourselves! I'm tired of waking up to dull-looking skin and breakouts because of lack of sleep. Of my growing eye bags and sluggishness the following day. Of rereading and redoing my work multiple times because my brain's not functioning well.No to procrastination. This 2023, I'm saying no to putting off to tomorrow what I can finish or at least start on today. The main culprit for my procrastination is mindless browsing on my phone. I put off doing my chores, stretching and strengthening my back, and working on a project. And would you believe it, I even procrastinate on ordering online. So my floor gets dirtier than I would admit. My laundry piles up. I feel weaker, and my lower back hurts. So I'm saying enough of that this 2023.TenorNo to baseless worries. Even the Bible reminds us not to worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own (Matthew 6:34).But more often than necessary, I worry. Anxiety has been a part of my day, and when things are going right, my brain automatically finds something to worry about. Or worries that there's nothing to worry about. 🤷 It could be a result of growing up in the environment I was in. Or talking to people who are more anxious than I am. But I'm saying No to that more often and with more conviction this year. And remind me to focus on what is true, noble, righteous, pure, lovable, or admirable, or on something praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8).No to another year of hiatus on my blog. My blog is my baby. It's one of the few things I can call my own. And I have neglected this baby for a while now. I've not been deliberate in writing more often. In encouraging my readers, which I claimed to be the purpose and reason for this blog. In reaching out and updating my subscribers and sending Soul Food that I promised. So I'll be more active on my blog again. I'll write more often (not as often as when I started - daily or weekly. Gosh, where is that girl with so much time in her hand now?). I'd be a more responsible and doting mother to this love child of a blog. Effects of Not Saying No I know the results of not saying No all too well.My mental and physical health suffers. My relationships suffer. My work quality suffers.I burn out when I don't say No to clients' demands.I get lethargic when I don't say no to another episode of Outlander or Miss Scarlet and the Duke. I go through the day like a zombie desperate for brains when I can't say no to Miss Julia Quinn, Julie Garwood, or Colleen Hoover's stories.TenorIn Summary: No for 2023This year, more than saying no to working myself like a slave one moment and procrastinating the next, I'm saying no to my bad habits.To the lies in my head. To activities that don't help me grow, make more money, and fill my heart with joy.My word for 2023 is No because I want to say yes to more substantial, better possibilities.I'm choosing the word No because I want to say Yes to my health, my peace, and seeing things accomplished.Have you chosen a word for the year?What things are you saying No to this 2023?Hero image
Lux Thinking Aloud My 2022 Wrapped 5:02 PM How has your year been? I saw a meme saying this year is a perfect blend of losing my mind and having the time of my life. And I couldn't relate more. Here's my 2022 wrapped. Not that you care, but I do. 😁My 2022 WrappedI turned 40.Though I still feel like I'm still 21. I think I'll forever be in my heart. The only indications that I've aged are that I'm starting to see lines near my eyes, I gain weight faster and find that I can't lose them as quickly as I used to, and I just don't give a damn anymore.I'm more comfortable with my choices, not having to think if this is what society would approve of or what people would say.I spent my birthday and Christmas by myself. Peacefully, contentedly, joyfully.I read the most books in my life in one year.Last year, I gave myself the Read One Book or Series in One Month Challenge. However, I found that after reading one book, I'm itching for the next month to start so I can begin reading again. So this year, I didn't give myself a limit.Result: I finished reading 45 books this 2022.We Heart ItNewfound obsessionWe always keep discovering new things. I've found that this year, I can be into something I used to ignore. For example:garlic breadthe period drama, both in books and seriesHuman Nature Marine Caviar HydroMiracleTaylor SwiftI failed in my cooking challenge.Just like my reading challenge, I gave myself a cooking challenge. It's to make one dish I haven't made before every month. I think I only got to March. I still cook, but they're the same dishes like pasta arrabbiata (already bottled and ready to add), pasta basil, and basically heating up meals I order.GiphyI wrote more than 3 million words this 2022.I stressed myself out by getting more projects than usual. I ended up not taking a day off for three months, not going out (which is not an issue for introverts like me), and watching days go by like a blur. I'm glad that's over now.Not surprising that Grammarly counted more than 3 million words I checked on their tool.I look forward to a more productive but less anxiety-driven year this 2023.GifimageI went on a solo trip.Thanks to my husband's insistence, I booked a weekend getaway on the mountain, read a book (period drama, of course), ate organic food, and reveled in that soothing Pinoy hilot massage. It was so relaxing and pleasing that I had to extend it another night.SelfMy 2022 in SummaryMy 2022 can be wrapped up in four things:WorkingReadingNappingEatingBut for everything that happened, I can describe my feelings in one word: Thankful.Thankful for better health.Thankful for more clients and projects.Thankful for my husband.Thankful for an imperfect yet blessed life.I'm thankful to not have any huge challenges this year - except for losing some of our dogs which was heartbreaking. This 2022...There were significant events in our family. I pushed myself too far with work.Rebounded in my health.And I know I still need to get better at blogging. 2023 will also have its own set of challenges, triumphs, and breakthroughs. And I'm ready.How's your 2022?Hero image
Listicle 17 Things I Love About My Husband 2:00 PM I want to honor my better half as we celebrate our wedding anniversary. Allow me to share 17 things I love about my husband. 17 reasons why I'm thankful to have him as my life partner.17 Things I Love About My Husband1. He is patient.Marriage is a big adjustment, from deciding on everything by myself to sharing my life with someone.Our cultural differences also make it difficult for us to understand each other.Despite our contrasting personalities and shortcomings, my husband is patient with me. I love that about him.2. He's responsible. My husband sees I don't have to worry about things around the house. He ensures we are comfortable, from fixing leaks to running errands. He takes care of and provides for our needs. I love that he has the initiative to take out the trash without being asked. He doesn't put off until later what needs to be done at the moment.3. He makes me laugh. I love it when he does silly things to give me a little break from working. He shares amusing stories to help keep my stress level down.4. He's smart. He thinks like an engineer; he's math-savvy, inquisitive, methodical, and systematic. My husband is perceptive, thorough, logical, and analytical.He's an eloquent speaker, and I couldn't be prouder.5. He's loyal. When my husband finds a good restaurant, we return to that place, order the same food, and even sit at the same table whenever possible. He asks for the same hairstylist, masseuse, and driver whenever he needs their service.Most of all, he is loyal to me. 6. He makes me feel at peace.Because I know that no matter what happens, he will take care of me, fight for our relationship, and never hurt me intentionally.I know how it is to be in a relationship without your partner's loyalty. Or when there's always a conflict to work on.You're always on edge. I appreciate not having to worry about these things anymore.7. He is thoughtful.My husband always thinks about me and my needs, no matter how busy he gets. He knows my language of love gifts, so he sees that I receive a gift, even if it's just a flower he's picked on his way home.8. He puts Christ first.When I was single, someone said, "Find a man who puts God first and your second. He will not look for a third."I don't mind being my husband's second priority as long as God is his first. As it is, marriage is a covenant between you, God, and your partner. 9. He wants me to take care of myself.My husband always reminds me to pamper myself. He's also willing and eager to wait while I get my hair and nails done.I love that he doesn't just follow me when I shop. Instead, I can ask for his opinion, and he'll give me honest feedback and suitable suggestions.10. He's humble. Our marriage is not perfect, but he's willing to change his ways to improve.Being the leader in our relationship, he's humble enough to apologize first - even when sometimes I'm at fault. 😛11. He's romantic.My husband is my most loving, caring, and romantic partner. He can make me feel special and loved even in ordinary times. He makes me feel like I'm the most beautiful woman in the world, even when I don't think at my best.12. He's selfless.He puts my needs and comfort first before his. Yet, I am included in all his dreams and plans.13. He's clean.My husband takes hygiene seriously. He smells fresh and is always clean. We don't have a messy house; he cleans the kitchen even before eating (unlike me, I wait until we're done before I wash the dishes), and most of all, we always sleep with clean sheets. I can't imagine living with a sloppy person. I'm glad my husband isn't one.15. He has no vices.My husband doesn't smoke and has not had alcohol for a decade. He doesn't gamble, and he has no bad habits.He loves watching movies so much that I could say that's his only "vice," but I get to binge-watch with him sometimes, so all good. 16. He's the best travel companion ever.I love finding the best travel planner and partner I could ever ask for. From making sure we get the best deal without compromising comfort and safety, planning our itinerary, and packing our travel needs, he's on top of things.On the day of the trip, from waking me up (forcing me out of bed, really lol), preparing our breakfast and bags, securing our house, carrying my luggage, and ensuring that we enjoy the trip, I can rely on him.Can't wait to travel with him again.17. He's an excellent life companion. There are days when I need my space, and he respects that. We can sit in silence comfortably or talk endlessly ---mainly depending on my mood. 😁Why I love my husbandMy husband and I couldn't be more different. I can multitask, but he needs to focus on one thing. As all men do, I think.I'm 99% introverted (according to the personality test we took), and he's a full-blown extrovert.Yet I know we can turn our differences into delight.I prayed for a good partner, and God gave me more than I asked for. My husband is another reason I love my life and consider myself blessed.I love my husband because he could be my best friend, most trusted confidant, most supportive cheerleader, and worst critic. I love many things about my husband and am excited to discover more in the coming years.Happy anniversary, Honey! 😘
Listicle 10 Things I Wish They Taught Us In School 5:47 AM Another day passed, and I didn't get to use Algebra and Calculus once. Phew! 😂Why did I take them up again? Oh, right. It's required to get my degree. I wish they'd allowed us to choose what we want to learn. Or change the curriculum and teach us the essential things in life.Do you also wish that sometimes? I mean, do you even remember what the Pythagorean theorem is and its purpose?Here are 10 things I wish they had taught us in school.10 Things I Wish They Taught Us in School1. Filing taxes and how we can save or pay lessI remember taxes being explained in school. Briefly.I don't remember our school teaching us how to lessen the amount we need to pay. I know some wealthy people find a loophole in taxes. They're so rich because they can get around it. I wish they had taught us an easier way to file taxes. The basic ones. So we don't dread tax season and do not have to hire a bookkeeper or accountant as much as possible.Thankfully, there are YouTube channels now explaining how certain taxes should be filed.2. Mental Health Care There's a stigma about people suffering from mental health problems.I wish they taught us how to deal with anxiety, for example, not only when taking up psychology, psychiatry, or the like.Taking care of our mental health should be taught early on to avoid making it worse. And for the person suffering from it to not be scared to open up and seek help.Let young people know what they feel is expected or if it's time for them to get professional help. What can they do when they feel paralyzed by fear?How should we talk to someone who is going through depression?If mental health had been given the focus and importance it deserves, maybe more suicides and self-harm could've been avoided.More people wouldn't feel bad, lost, or guilty for feeling their feelings.People would be more sensitive and empathetic towards others.3. The truth about animal agriculture or how our food is made.This is not to force people to go vegan (though it would be nice if you would). This is to give you the option. To know what you're choosing and the consequences of your choice.When I learned about what they do to animals and how unpleasant and dreadful the situation is, I felt duped. Why didn't anyone tell me how horrible the process was for my cheeseburger to be made?Thank goodness for plant-based alternatives now.Show your kids actual footage and not staged videos of animals killed for food. Then let them decide for themselves.4. How to live more sustainably. Rich people are trying to discover how we can thrive on other planets, but...Shouldn't we spend more time and money to save what we have instead of looking for another planet to abuse and corrupt live on?There's nothing wrong with progress. I'm here for a future with flying cars and all the high-tech fun.But it shouldn't mean we should trash our planet while working our way to a better future, right?May we learn to live sustainably even when schools don't focus on teaching us how.5. Laws and rightsMore than 30,000 statutes have been enacted in the US since 1789.We studied the basics of law and those necessary in your field. For example, we have a subject on Ethics and Jurisprudence in Pharmacy.But some people are unaware of their fundamental rights, like the right to fair wages. Unfortunately, that's especially true in my country.Side note: Do you know that it's illegal to fly a kite in Victoria, Australia, and Buenos Aires, Argentina?What other crazy laws do you know of?6. How to invest or the different kinds of investmentIs there a conspiracy theory that keeps the poor poor and helps the rich become richer? Because why aren't they teaching us how to grow our money properly in school?I learned all about investing and growing your money exponentially from financial gurus.If I could learn simple investment through a one-day seminar and follow it up with YouTube videos, imagine what we could do if we discover it in all our years spent in school. I'm sure you've heard stories of Chinese families talking about money at the dining table, even with their young kids, as naturally and casually as talking about their favorite Disney characters.No wonder they're good at businesses and investments.7. How to start and grow a businessSpeaking of business, not everyone's good at it.But maybe because we just don't know what we can sell or how to sell. Our every day involves marketing. We use marketing to convince our parents to give us money. Why did you add that product to your cart even if you don't really need it? Effective marketing.We recommend products to our friends. We are natural salespersons. Might as well use that skill to start a business and help us grow our money.In Robert Kiyosaki's book Rich Dad, Poor Dad, his rich dad taught him about selling and business while he was young. Imagine if he waited for school to teach him what he knows now.8. The power of the law of attraction or having the right mindsetWhy don't they teach us the importance of having the right attitude? The winning mentality? Or that we have the power to make things happen?We see it in movies and in other people we know. We read it in self-help books. Some of the people we met are generous enough to share this with us.Why not start this in school?9. Self-defenseSelf-defense should be mandated to be taught in schools. It's vital for survival. Not every parent has the time and resources to bring their kids to a martial arts class.Since we're already going to school every day, we might as well teach ourselves how to deal with a possible assault. ROTC was a requirement when I was in school. So what did we get out of it, really?Here are 27 basic self-defense tricks for women.10. The importance of marriage. I used to think that marriage was only a contract between two people. A piece of paper you sign for legal purposes.Maybe that's why people jump into it and walk out just as quickly.Marriage is a covenant. After the beautiful wedding ceremony is the actual relationship test, and it's not always easy.The enemy doesn't need to destroy a nation. He just needs to target the family, the basic unit of our society. And it's easy to destroy a family when the husband and wife are at war.Final thoughts Education should give us a solid foundation before going into the world.But how many of those lessons taught in the classroom can we use daily?I've not looked for the value of X since I graduated.If life is a battle, we must be equipped with the right weapon.Sometimes when I do "adult" things that are pretty challenging, like filing my taxes or struggling with stress, I can't help but wish they taught us how to properly handle these things in school. Instead of wasting our time memorizing formulas we'll never use or terminologies we forget the moment we step out of school, why not learn things that are more life- and sanity-saving.What are the things you wish they had taught us in school?
Listicle 10 Common Misconceptions About Introverts 9:24 AM 10 Common Misconceptions About Introverts Telling an introvert to go to a party is like telling a saint to go to hell. - Criss Jami They're the silent ones in a gathering. You see them eating alone. Sometimes they avoid your eyes. You get misconceptions about them, thinking they're snobs or lonely. Or that they hate people.Introverts. They are easily misunderstood. Maybe because they don't talk much, their silence could be interpreted in many ways.But introverts are extraordinary beings. Here are 10 common misconceptions about them. 10 Common Misconceptions about Introverts 1. Introverts are nerds. That is not always the case. This stereotyping may be because introverts don't always go out and are often seen absorbed in their own thoughts. Geeks may be busy thinking about and tinkering with technology, science, and other fields of interest, but introverts may just be enjoying their alone time without doing anything geeky. Sometimes they write or blog (ahem), read a book (not necessarily the geeky ones), stay in and watch Netflix, or dabble in art like painting or drawing.Speaking of drawing or illustrations, check out how artist Lingvistov captured introverts in these cute and funny illustrations.If you're looking for a fantasy illustrator, or an illustrator of any kind, to capture your imagination or daily life, you can find a few online.And that's another thing introverts love. Doing transactions online. No face-to-face meetings and no requiring them to speak to people. 2. Introverts are snobs. Probably the most common misconception about introverts is that they are snobs.It's nothing personal. Introverts don't particularly like small talk and don't consider social pleasantries a must in life.You'd get a slight nod of acknowledgment and a small smile, and that's already a huge deal. Be appreciative. 3. Introverts are depressed or lonely. Just because they'd rather be alone and often retreat to their peaceful and private world doesn't mean introverts are going through something depressing. Scientifically, introverts need to be alone because that's how they recharge. Dopamine levels tend to go down in a crowd, and they need to pump it up with peace and quiet. It's biological. 4. Introverts are shy. There are a lot of successful speakers who are introverted in person. A shy person can't talk on stage in front of a crowd. Introverts aren't shy. They just don't enjoy the limelight as much as others do. Introverts don't avoid the crowd because they're shy, but they're not comfortable in it. 5. Introverts are people-haters. Introverts don't hate people. They just don't like social gatherings.Introverts like to meet up and hang out with friends. Some even love to travel. They prefer a more intimate or one-on-one interaction over partying. Introverts have a tight circle that they adore and cherish. 6. Introverts are boring. Fun is relative. It may be fun to go bar-hopping, mountain climbing, bungee jumping, or cliff diving, but it may be dull or scary for others. You may get bored watching reruns, curling up on a couch and reading a good book, or sitting quietly and watching the sunset. But, some people get a high doing that. We often associate quiet and serenity with dullness, but you won't really know or understand how fun it is just sitting in a corner, watching people, or enjoying the moment---unless you're an introvert. 7. Introverts don't work well with a team or can't lead a group. Introverts can function well alone, but that doesn't mean they can't work in a group.Introverts can get along well with others, and you'd be surprised that these leaders are introverts: Eleanor RooseveltBill Gates Abraham Lincoln Warren BuffettElon MuskMahatma GandhiBo Sanchez 8. Introverts can't be happier than extroverts. Extroverts are loud, so you'd know when they're happy. You can see it. That doesn't mean they're happier than introverts, though. Happiness is a choice.Just because you're the life of the party and outgoing doesn't necessarily mean you're happy. 9. Introverts don't like to talk. Give them a topic they love and surround them with people they're most comfortable with, and they can talk for hours. David Letterman and Susan Cain are both introverts. 10. Introverts won't make it big. Never underestimate the power of silence. And never take calmness for timidity. Most of the time, there's boldness, waiting for the right moment to strike...and shake the world. "Still waters run deep." Just ask these introverts who made it big: J. K. RowlingMichael Jackson Warren Buffett Steven Spielberg Johnny Depp Albert Einstein Mahatma Gandhi Mother Teresa Emma Watson Are you an introvert? What do people assume about you?What misconceptions do you have about introverts? Gifs from Google images
Books 2021 Reading Challenge Completed And 12 Short Book Reviews 8:34 AM Who else did not open a book in 2020? Just me? Okay.2020 was like a nightmare. I couldn't even bring myself to read a book then.So I made a promise that I'll go back to reading again this year.Thus, my "Read one book or one series in a month for one year" Reading Challenge started.I joyfully and proudly completed the task I gave myself at the start of the year. 😄 Oh, the commitment it took and the feeling of accomplishment after. You should try it. I'm sharing my short reviews for the books I read in twelve months in 2021. Hope this helps you decide which book to choose and not to pick for your next reading challenge.This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost.2021 Reading Challenge Completed & 12 Short Book Reviews1. January 2021 - Fifty Shades Trilogy by E.L. JamesRating: ⭐⭐ I'm not saying this to diss the author because I can only imagine the time, effort, sleepless nights, coffee, and glasses of wine involved in writing a series. High respect.But about the book...You'd know right away that it's written by a woman...A drop-dead gorgeous young multi-millionaire who wants to give you the world, a sex god who just happened to have a big heart for the needy, with an equally kind-hearted family...Anastasia Steel is supposed to be an English Lit student who later became editor-in-chief. But can she have a more boring train of thought? There are so many lines that I wish were deleted as it made me cringe and want to throw the book across the room.I will never understand why the first book outsold JK Rowling's, Harry Potter. Okay, maybe I do. Sex really does sell. No matter how jejune the narrative is, no matter how gray the characters are (pun intended), it will sell if there's crazy sex involved.I also read Fifty Shades as Told by Christian Trilogy: Grey, Darker, Freed, and I would say it's better.Rating: ⭐⭐⭐Maybe because Christian is a successful young entrepreneur, his everyday life is more exciting. His past is also colorful, to say the least. He's a complex human being, so there's a curiosity in trying to figure out why he is the way he is and what's going on in his mind.It's less torture to read as Christian doesn't have an inner goddess who annoyingly bounces, spins, pole vaults, and pirouettes. It's more tolerable.Whatever you think about this series, I'd say I started my 2021 Reading Challenge with a bang. 😄If you want an honest trailer about the movie adaptation and have a good laugh, you should watch this:2. February 2021 - The Red Queen by Victoria AveyardRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I didn't know this was a part of a series when I picked it up at the bookstore. It reminds me of Hunger Games and Divergent. In this novel, their society is divided into Silvers and Reds. The Reds are the inferior community, and the Silver possesses superpowers.Lo and behold, they discover that Mare, the story's protagonist, is a Red with extraordinary gifts.Though I predicted who the real villain was, I like how it was written creatively. The battle scenes are thrilling. And there's still an element of surprise.I can't wait to finish the whole series soon (it's currently out of stock in the bookstores here).And I also wish that this would be made into a movie or series. Hi, Hollywood. Please?3. March 2021 - Thy Brother's Wife by Andrew GreeleyRating: ⭐⭐⭐It's intriguing but not as engrossing as I expected it to be. Two brothers - a senator and a priest - fell in love with their adopted sister.They both thought the other one deserved the woman better, but they lived out their lives according to how their father planned them to be. So again, it's about the struggles of being human.Struggles of children who follow their parents' dreams instead of following their hearts.The struggles of siblings who want the best for each other are willing to risk their own morality and principles.Struggles of humans seeking God's answers and looking for signs when going through a dark time. Struggles of a young priest.This novel also reminded me about how things could grandly change if only we learn to say what is really in our hearts. 4. April 2021 - Eleven Minutes by Paulo CoelhoRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Eleven Minutes is about discovering love from unconventional people in the most unexpected place and how far a person is willing to go for ambition or dreams.It's the first Paulo Coelho novel I read so fast I finished it in days. It didn't lull me to sleep. :D I love that airport scene. It's the least I expected from this character, so it's a pleasant surprise. I literally had to stop reading and squeal like a high school girl. I've not done that since Eleanor & Park.It made me wonder why Maria the prostitute's thoughts are more eloquent, poetic, and sensible than English Lit major Anastasia Steel's. I wouldn't have predicted why it's titled Eleven Minutes. So that's another great discovery. 5. May 2021 - After Series by Anna ToddRating: ⭐⭐Another book that sold probably because of all the sex involved. My friend warned me that it's hard to read (too wordy), and I should have listened.I was reading fast to get it done and over with. I want to know if Tessa finally realized her worth and allowed herself to find the healthy love she deserves.There are some similarities with Fifty Shades of Grey, or at least with the characters. Tessa is also a bibliophile and a virgin. Hardin is an enigmatic guy with a complex past who fell obsessively in love with this naive girl. Both men don't have a problem when it comes to money. Neither seems to make an effort; Hardin is in school, and Christian is in his Forbes 500 business but is thriving anyway.Both have aggressive or violent tendencies.Though when it comes to red flags, Hardin is the winner."Toxic" is an understatement to describe their relationship. Their story is about trying to fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed and suffering through a toxic cycle. If you want to know what red flags to look out for and what happens if you meet them head-on, instead of dodging them, read this book. 6. June 2021 - Great Cases of Sherlock Holmes by Arthur Conan DoyleRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐It's exciting to read how the brilliant mind of Sherlock Holmes unravels mystery after mystery, but I would say the TV series and the movies are better.There were cases that I thought were easy to solve, and there were plot twists I didn't see coming.A great break from the previous romance books I've read, that's for sure.7. July 2021 - Write It Down Make It Happen by Henriette KlauserRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I've always believed in the power of written words. My thoughts and plans get more organized when I see them written down on paper. Heartwarming, inspiring, and astounding sharing of people who have turned their dreams into reality by writing them down is waiting for you in this book.It renewed my faith and reminded me just how powerful we are in creating our destinies and shaping our future.8. August 2021- Whiteout by Ken FollettWhiteout by Ken FollettRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Another novel I'd like to be made into a movie. I love how the story is plain and simple but full of suspense. I seldom see plots wherein the heart of the action climaxes and (almost) ends in one location.Not everyone loves a happy ending, but I do. Needless to say, I closed this book with a smile on my face.9. September 2021 - Forced RestThat's not the title of my September read. I got sick this month and didn't have the energy to read a book. So I took a break and read two books for October instead.10. October 2021 - Beach Town by Mary Kay AndrewsRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Greer and Eben. The two characters in this book were a breath of fresh air from Christian + Anastasia and Hardin + Tessa. Eben is uncomplicated, genuine, and honest. Greer is no-nonsense, especially when it comes to her job.I love how the story happened in one place - the Beach Town. The simple way they live in Cypress Key reminds me of my old hometown. I miss going to the beach, and this book makes me want to live near one.It's not a complex story - no suspense, action, heavy drama, and, most importantly, no mysterious boyfriend with a heavy baggage to carry.But it makes me look forward to what will happen next, especially where Greer and Eben's relationship is going.It brought me that pleasant summer vibe even though I read it in October.This book is an excellent come-back read for me after struggling with my health. October - The Distance Between Us by Maggie O'FarrellRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I'm not a fan of book flashback scenes, but I don't mind it with The Distance Between Us. It's highly relevant to the story and effective in piquing your curiosity. Why do these sisters have this unique bond? Why does Stella keep seeing this man or think she did, and why is he making her feel this way?What is she running away from?How in the world is she going to meet Jake when he's halfway across the globe?How will they work things out when they seem to live in different worlds?How is Jake going to make peace with his past?Questions that keep adding up as you read along but, in the end, were answered satisfactorily. Jake and Stella didn't have a good past, but you'd know they'll have a promising future. 11. November 2021- The Road Home by Rose TremainRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐It's raw and moving. A story about a man who once became homeless in hopes of providing a better life for his family back home.It's good to be reminded of how kindness, even from people we barely know, can change our lives. And that we really have no idea what the other person is going through.I love how Lev did not let his present circumstances hinder him from dreaming new dreams.He worked hard and persevered to save his family and turn his dream into reality. To give the people in their small town another chance.There's also a part about the wrong love he chose that still haunts him but makes him more human.And that's what I love about this story. It doesn't shy away from the reality of life. Only four stars, though, because I wish he's found peace in his heart and allowed himself to move on and be really happy. 12. December 2021- The Power of Moments: Why Certain Experiences Have Extraordinary Impact by Chip Heath and Dan HeathRating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐I read this book as a requirement from our club. It was reading out of obligation at first which was no fun, but I eventually enjoyed it.Enlightening, perceptive, and sometimes funny.As someone who's been working with customers for about 18 years now, I have many eureka moments here.Not only are the insights helpful for work or business, but they also gave me an idea of how to create powerful moments in an otherwise ordinary time, build a stronger relationship with others, and turn something unpleasant into an opportunity for an epic moment.A must-read, especially for entrepreneurs or those who want to improve their career in customer care.2021 Reading Challenge TakeawayWhen I was a few pages away from completing my 2021 Reading Challenge, I had an incredible sense of pride and satisfaction.This year was far from perfect, but at least I've been productive and learned more than I did last year.I hope my picks for my 2022 Reading Challenge will be much better.What's on your reading list for 2022? Recommendations are welcome.
